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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by GatJokez(f): 4:40pm On Sep 21, 2013
Cathaliya: Maka why?
Why shouldnt I ask the question....?




I dont see anything wrong with it o.....all na discussion, joor.

grin

Do you really think you'll ever get a straight answer? I don't bother because if someone is doing wrong, gonna lie anyways. I believe in observing actions and behavior instead grin

Lastly, people should try having faith in each other.
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by write2obi(m): 4:42pm On Sep 21, 2013
idrezee: don't mind imsuboi (he's been holier than thou) and I hate dat + u r gurl, do u mean male gay or female one cos dat word applies 2 both sex but we choose 2 call d male "gay"........... and d female "lez" ...
Don't come here to lecture us abeg "teacher nwanjoku"
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by stint(m): 4:43pm On Sep 21, 2013
shejane: I remb asking my fiance dis question yrs back wen we started
Nd he said wts d need of discussing d past wen am wt my future

U only discuss d past wen is beta dan ur present or ur future

All u can do in life is 2 learn 4m d past, dust ursef up nd trash it nd make d next work and dot compare dem
your guy is a smooth talker. even i am impressed the way he handled you! lol. its ok sha. we human beings always want to know the truth but very few of us can handle it. Smart people like your guy have learnt not to place the ugly truth in the hands of someone who is very unlikely to handle it well!

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Princephelar(m): 4:51pm On Sep 21, 2013
nekaa: So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?
Actually, two of those questions are unnecessary to ask everytime. 'what are you thinking?' and 'are you looking at someone else?' you can't always have a straight answer for these two questions. Secondly, if he wants to share his past,let him do willingly and don't put words in his mouth.
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by ume(m): 4:53pm On Sep 21, 2013
nekaa: So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?
ask the devil
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by nekaa(f): 4:54pm On Sep 21, 2013
redcliff:

I wonder how that works for both sexes. Keeping besties of opposite sex. Nah it has and would never work for me...
too bad for you, it's actually a great feeling.
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Cathaliya: 4:57pm On Sep 21, 2013
GatJokez:

Do you really think you'll ever get a straight answer? I don't bother because if someone is doing wrong, gonna lie anyways. I believe in observing actions and behavior instead grin

Lastly, people should try having faith in each other.
Getting a straight answer or not isnt a problem but one day, that question will be asked again directly or indirectly and believe me, the right answer will come out that day.....


I always know how to go about it.....grin
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by stecman: 4:58pm On Sep 21, 2013
agehero13: I dont ask much questions in a relationship, all i just do is give the guy a questionaire to fill
after which u use chi-square 2 analyze ur data,mtcheew
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by nekaa(f): 4:59pm On Sep 21, 2013
There is actually nothing wrong with those questions, I don't understand why you bois are so touchy about them.
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by nekaa(f): 5:01pm On Sep 21, 2013
You know of all the replies I got yours was most senseless....
ume: ask the devil
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by FILEBE(m): 5:06pm On Sep 21, 2013
Na wa o. Even people wey neva get b.frnd or g.frnd for their life dey talk. I Thank Nollywood and Gholywood for them sha. grin
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by akpur1(m): 5:08pm On Sep 21, 2013
stan4b: My bestfriend use to ask me those questions. Does it mean she is attracted to me!!!!!
no my me she love

Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by stint(m): 5:10pm On Sep 21, 2013
Cathaliya: Getting a straight answer or not isnt a problem but one day, that question will be asked again directly or indirectly and believe me, the right answer will come out that day.....


I always know how to go about it.....grin
now thats annoying!!. Make sure you do it well sha cos if he knows your examining him like a specimen. . . . .

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by nekaa(f): 5:10pm On Sep 21, 2013
:| that's didn't come out right... Sorry...
akpur1: no my me she love
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by ovie1daful(m): 5:20pm On Sep 21, 2013
imsu.boi:



You need Jesus.
na wa for u o. The guy says he needs a gay friend and u are recommending JESUS. sad
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by oluwacjay: 5:22pm On Sep 21, 2013
Nasri100:

No. it means he's decent and respect Ladies unlike you, muppet!

SHARRAP! Only a gay dude or low esteemed nigga has a chic as his bestie. By d way ow old is d dude! Stay der & be stuck in FRIEND ZONE, while some oda guy isn't livin nxt door 2 Alice.

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Chomzy19(f): 6:04pm On Sep 21, 2013
oluwacjay:

SHARRAP! Only a gay dude or low esteemed nigga has a chic as his bestie. By d way ow old is d dude! Stay der & be stuck in FRIEND ZONE, while some oda guy isn't livin nxt door 2 Alice.
STFU!!! See ur mouth like low self-esteemed guy, did he tell u he wants to date d Gal? Hw den can he be friend Zoned wen he isn't even sexuslly interested; U believe D only kind of relationship a male n female that aint related can hv mst be the romantic attraction kind... SMH for sm peepz, MY BFF is a GUY, N no we re not attracted to Each other, he has his Babe n I Hv my guy... N u Mr do not have Half d self-Esteem he possess... Idiots evrywhere making silly assumptions; If u havnt experienced sth, pls do not comment wen its being talked abt
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by airclipse(m): 6:38pm On Sep 21, 2013
Cathaliya: Maka why?
Why shouldnt I ask the question....?




I dont see anything wrong with it o.....all na discussion, joor.

grin
if QnA ¶s wЂaт u call discussion den u must be f.ucking boring... angry
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Godsmma: 6:38pm On Sep 21, 2013
imsu.boi:



You need Jesus.
Yes oh! u need him seriously
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by heneeholhuwar(f): 7:36pm On Sep 21, 2013
There is nothing bad in knowing about ur partner's past cos it helps in avoiding some mistakes ur partner's ex must have made or better still, some Bleep up one must have done in the past.
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by kraftyiyk: 7:48pm On Sep 21, 2013
Chomzy19: STFU!!! See ur mouth like low self-esteemed guy, did he tell u he wants to date d Gal? Hw den can he be friend Zoned wen he isn't even sexuslly interested; U believe D only kind of relationship a male n female that aint related can hv mst be the romantic attraction kind... SMH for sm peepz, MY BFF is a GUY, N no we re not attracted to Each other, he has his Babe n I Hv my guy... N u Mr do not have Half d self-Esteem he possess... Idiots evrywhere making silly assumptions; If u havnt experienced sth, pls do not comment wen its being talked abt
honeypie, a guy cant just be a sincere best friend with a lady without either of the 2 nursing... secret wishes, unless d lady looks like a masquerade. men and women has got natin in c,mon....apart from, u knw, d real GANGAN...yes...if ur best friend is,not making any GANGAN passes or advances at u, den he isn,t just man enough..u cant argue an issue like a man wen u r a woman, u dont certainly know hw men reason...pls do accept this point of view,shikina. every right thinkn man knows what am saying,
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Cathaliya: 7:55pm On Sep 21, 2013
stint:
now thats annoying!!. Make sure you do it well sha cos if he knows your examining him like a specimen. . . . .
Examining? No, not at all.


All I meant was that something must surely bring back that question directly or indirectly.

And not that it will be stored up in my heart waiting for it to be asked after 2 months..no
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Cathaliya: 7:58pm On Sep 21, 2013
airclipse: if QnA ¶s wЂaт u call discussion den u must be f.ucking boring... angry
now, you, whoever says I am gonna follow that pattern, huh?


Interesting cow..!

grin
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by cheche98(f): 8:23pm On Sep 21, 2013
@op.. The number 2 question is very important. it will help me know the kind of man am dealing with. It is necessary
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Chinoble(f): 9:22pm On Sep 21, 2013
imsu.boi:




who opened your cage? cry
i wonder o
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by EmmanuellaAop: 10:03pm On Sep 21, 2013
imsu.boi:




who opened your cage? cry
...Na my grandfada
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Infomizer(m): 11:42pm On Sep 21, 2013
I don't have any issues with honestly answering any of the mentioned questions. Though one that really irked me in the bedroom once was "what are your plans for me?". See turn off!
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by karmaleon: 12:37am On Sep 22, 2013
Nasri100:

No. it means he's decent and respect Ladies unlike you, muppet!

Cmon, quit that good boy make over personality you are trying to portray. Ladies don't digg dat anymore.
BTW, I said straf her (mutually agreed intimacy) not ra.pe her. I warned u abt dat night school u enrolled for. Its not helping your
comprehension skills.
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Chomzy19(f): 2:47am On Sep 22, 2013
krafty iyk: honeypie, a guy cant just be a sincere best friend with a lady without either of the 2 nursing... secret wishes, unless d lady looks like a masquerade. men and women has got natin in c,mon....apart from, u knw, d real GANGAN...yes...if ur best friend is,not making any GANGAN passes or advances at u, den he isn,t just man enough..u cant argue an issue like a man wen u r a woman, u dont certainly know hw men reason...pls do accept this point of view,shikina. every right thinkn man knows what am saying,
OH Yes n he has been nursing dis secret feelings as u Call it for 12yrs n I have no idea, Unlike U Men, Women know Wen a Man is attracted to them. So like I hv told the others that sth is outside Ur league of Xperience n Dt of D majority of u lots does nt Make it False... I suppose u don't have any female friends at all, U must b harbouring some secret sexusl feeling For all d babes u Know... N No Mr. I won't accept ur view cos ur Point of View as u rightly called it, is urs ltd by ur experience n d experience of others u hv seen or hrd abt nt a general statement of fact... Pls do understand that
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by tontelicious: 3:43am On Sep 22, 2013
Na wa for guyz o...everyday una dey come up with new one. Nw tis dat we shudnt ask u people questions, so dat u peeps can do wateva u like and come n give us cock n bull stories. Hope u peeps won't ask questions too wen u see or observe things.



Let's all have a QUESTIONLESS relationship....SHIKENA!!
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Cathaliya: 7:55am On Sep 22, 2013
I really think the only question girls shouldnt ask their heartbeats is this:

Honey, do you ma..sturbate?


Tried that yday, and he just sat there staring at me like someone hypnotized...yuck.

I just have to excuse myself with, ''um, I think its lunch time...''
Even as I was leaving, his eyes just followed suit till I left the room and that staring continued till I left the house.



That was really scary..!
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by UjSizzle(f): 8:21am On Sep 22, 2013
Why shouldn't she ask about his past relationships please? Not like i have any particular interest in knowing personally, but i dont see what's wrong with that question.

My gf used to ask her guy if he liked other girls. I found that annoying..dunno why she kept obsessing. Anyway she finally obsessed her way to a break up, then went on to do the same thing with the new dude undecided

As for the 'fat' question...omo i have every plan to wear him out with that question, that before long he'll start answering like a monogram grin

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