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Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by Nobody: 10:18am On Sep 26, 2013
A friend of mine,has this girlfriend ...very cute pretty *she carry front she carry back*in summary she has these natural Endowment ..Both of them have been dating for close to two years now...buh the truth is dat my friend Isn't quiet happy of the relationship ...she actually satisfies him when they are together I.e privately"he said dey talk , play, romance and she do give him bantu regularly *you know what I mean*...buh the problem he has with her is that she don't actually hang out with him in publicly*
Wen asked she would say she's shy .
please dont get it twisted my guy is a handsome dude, Averagely heighted, And fun to be with.She does hangout with other guys she calls her coursemate....he said he has tried forcing himself to mingle wit her in public, buh always feels these discomfort in her when he does that so he stopped. When he told me whatsup, I couldn't find a solution to it..so I decided to bring it here for your views and advice!...
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by stan4b(m): 10:47am On Sep 26, 2013
D girl is either protecting him from something,or she's a chronic player. Its nt a matter of shyness. He should sit her dwn nd ask her wot is going on btw dem both,nd he should b serious wen asking her.
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by lomaxx: 11:30am On Sep 26, 2013
Obviously, the relationship is all about the se.x. The handwriting is on the wall.

Your friend should accept it that way and continue as it is. Steady "bantu" isn't easy to come by these days - which is more important. I don't see how being seen with a particular girl in public adds to anyone's life.

If he tries to change things, he will end up loosing both the steady knacking and the babe.

Sharp guys understand unspoken terms and conditions, analyze the pros and cons and take decisions. Good luck to your friend
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by Nobody: 11:36am On Sep 26, 2013
If your friend observes his relationship the same way you do, then it is purely physical. How do they interact on more penetrating levels than s3x? Do they even talk? I understand shy, but discomfort in public can be symptomatic of so many issues we deal with in life undecided
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by 190theclown: 11:37am On Sep 26, 2013
Flytefalls: If your friend observes his relationship the same way you do, then it is purely physical. How do they interact on more penetrating levels than s3x? Do they even talk? I understand shy, but discomfort in public can be symptomatic of so many issues we deal with in life undecided
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Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by Nobody: 11:39am On Sep 26, 2013
[quote author=190-the-clown]smiley[/quote]cheesy
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by djeezy(m): 11:43am On Sep 26, 2013
Some many things could be responsible for her act.
1. She could be a player.
2. It could be due to her religious inclinations. She may prefer to hide and mingle.
3.The relationship may just be based on sex alone.
4. And other things.lol
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Sep 26, 2013
u know having a babe is nt all abt d banturism*..There are sometimes you liked to have fun ..go 4 a walk...or go to parties together ....That dude isn't the polygamous type he belives on the gals love although the gal keeps telling him she loves him n all dose trash buh to me I think she winein him....That girl is too pretty to stick to just a guy on campus*
Re: Is This Normal Or Something Else Is Involved? by Faitty20(f): 1:25pm On Sep 26, 2013
Hmm its eida she has anoda guy or she is hidin sumtin..bt shyness isnt an excuse
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