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Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Idowuogbo(f): 6:01pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
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Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by chuksoyo21(m): 6:06pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
moscobabs: do u really love her?if yes go with her because she loves u."the devil u know is better than the Angel u don't know"maybe she did not reply or call u because she was busyBUSY DOING WHAT? GUY, U NO WELL! |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by chuksoyo21(m): 6:07pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
moscobabs: do u really love her?if yes go with her because she loves u."the devil u know is better than the Angel u don't know"maybe she did not reply or call u because she was busy |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by flyingdutchman(m): 6:07pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
[b][/b]IT HAPPENED TO ME TOO. MINE CAME BACK FROM CANADA AND ASKED FOR FORGIVENESS FOR IGNORING ME. I DECIDED TO BE CAUTIOUS BY AGREEING TO BREAK UP WITH MY CURRENT GIRLFRIEND, UNKNOWN TO HER, I WAS TESTING HER. GUESS WHAT? AS SOON AS SHE TRAVELLED OUT AGAIN, SHE CUT ME OFF AND TRIED TO PORTRAY ME AS NEEDY! DON'T FALL FOR HER ANTICS! ------> "SOLDIER COME, SOLDIER GO...I LOE FELA!" |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by GENTLETEE(m): 6:08pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Her excuse is not tenable. Please continue with the current if u dont want to complicate things. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Tloc(m): 6:12pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Man that girl feels nothing for you, if someone truely likes you they'd always keep in touch. Do not leave a girl that has your back for one who strolls in and out of your life as she pleases. Pls never look at are financial status, if she does not love you then she would not support you in that regard. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by AdeniyiA(m): 6:39pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
simply pray for divine elimination n separation of anoda man's wife among them. peace.... |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by IamCedMitchell(m): 7:01pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
chaircover: You have already moved on Exactly wat to do nigga! |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by easydoesit24(m): 7:42pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
iykemoney90: Guys I don't really knw If she came back because of me like she said but she came back with her elder brother 2 settle fully in Nigeria. I still have this flaming feelings for her but don't want 2 hurt my current gfd decision is urs if u r sure dat ur current g*lfrnd oves u pls dont hurt her am beging u although girls dont worth it bt some worth more dan gold orelse u wil pay 4it bt i dont thk ur so called ex i dont knw her name really loves u it7 obvious |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by easydoesit24(m): 7:52pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
idnoble135: Having read this, my thoughts goes along this lines; There is no way you can ascertain if she truly ignored you. Some things might have come up (or events might have taken place) and the communication had to be broken(not from her but maybe from other things). Maybe she has preserved herself for you all this while.i luv d way u viewed thgs hw i wish u ar my frnd |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Kemmy210(f): 8:19pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
She must be able 2provide u tangible reasons 4nt communcatng u since.If u're enjoying ur new relatnship,i will advice u nt 2leave her 4ur longtime lover who can do &undo.Let her know dat u're already in a relationship.Period |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Nobody: 9:00pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
idnoble135: Having read this, my thoughts goes along this lines; There is no way you can ascertain if she truly ignored you. Some things might have come up (or events might have taken place) and the communication had to be broken(not from her but maybe from other things). Maybe she has preserved herself for you all this while. Kai... Please stop confusing the op and me ; going about confusing people and calling it advise |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Nobody: 9:05pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Op forget her if ¥ou love someone it shows in ¥our action |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by chinosxl(m): 9:10pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Tloc: Man that girl feels nothing for you, if someone truely likes you they'd always keep in touch. Do not leave a girl that has your back for one who strolls in and out of your life as she pleases. Pls never look at are financial status, if she does not love you then she would not support you in that regard. Op, listen to the above. If she left u before, she will leave u again. Hang on to ur new girl. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by selena(f): 10:36pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
[quote author=Ayomax]still date both chicks[/quote OP I really hate to give bad advice,but I think you should give the girl a chance..BUT,don't leave the other girl too..study the both of them and choose the one that is right for you |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Abukia404(f): 11:29pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
[color=#990000][/color] Gabriel_sylar: She has brought disease for u |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Beey(f): 3:06am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Two years is a long time to not have heard from somebody who had supposedly been in love with you.Why did she ignore your calls?You don't know what she was doing on the other end.You don't know who she's been with or what she did.You took the time to heal from the pain of being given the silent treatment without explanation.You've now moved on.Why is she coming back?Maybe the grass wasn't as green on the other side as it had seemed initially.All that glitters is not gold. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Odoemacyril(m): 7:04am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Gabriel_sylar: She has brought disease for uSMH,...U 4NY but it kan stil hapen o my dear |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by rutibaby(f): 7:17am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Maybe she was only trying to weigh d luv u profess having for her, but u failed, u wer unfaithful. Ask her y she did nt reply ur msg on fb. Try pulling her legs and she will be scared, there d truth might eventually come out. My bf will soon be travelling to Ghana to study, I just wish and hope to be patient. It pays alot. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Idowuogbo(f): 7:25am On Sep 30, 2013 |
rutibaby: Maybe she was only trying to weigh d luv u profess having for her, but u failed, u wer unfaithful. Ask her y she did nt reply ur msg on fb. Try pulling her legs and she will be scared, there d truth might eventually come out.U oozing dis amount of shyte on a Monday morning? Weighing which yeye love? Are u ok? So putting someone u claim to love on zero communication is d way forward she? U defo high on Relaxer. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by justplainpaul(m): 7:26am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Invite her to your house. tie one of her leg to the window, the other to the ceiling then climb on and give her a hard nyashing. when you`re through with her, take koboko and flog her unclad body out of your house. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by biodex(m): 9:07am On Sep 30, 2013 |
My broda! 4month is nt long, ur eye self dey outside, 4 d girl she still luv u datz why she came back looking 4 u, abi na lekki u buy house put, just play along wit both of dem 4 like 5months to really see wo u going to settle down wit, and try do some test 4 d turkey girl b4 u Bleep her shaaaa.......aboro lan so fun omo luabi |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by IdeyVex1(m): 9:58am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Guy, Advice don full everywia but make I still add small something make nothing for loss 1. That chic no luv u. She must explain in writing in not less than 400 words why she went AWOL. Wetin happen? Even if she no get phone, why she no dey respond to ya messages. My take is that she found a new guy and decided to dump you. Eventually, that relationship did not work and she remembered all the good times and she wants back. Don't give her that chance!! 2. She didn't come back for you. No fall for that sme sme! Except she can prove that somebody in her family wanted her to end the relationship with you and cut her off from communication. But beware of Naija chics. They can lie!! Solution: If you are one of the very few good guys: concentrate on your present gf and put this other gf behind you completely. If you are one of the bad guys: Tell her there are no issues. Collect cash from her, sap her dry and wire her t.o.to until she go realize say you no be learner. The choice is yours but no fall mugu oh! or me go personally treat your f... up |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by favouryemmy: 10:09am On Sep 30, 2013 |
iykemoney90: Pls nairalanders I need your advice. Bro, please pray and ask God to show you the way. Naturally, it should be that you should stay with yourcurrent girl. But it's wise to seek God'sopinion. I wish you well. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Tushnigerian(f): 11:04am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Just observe Just choose which is better for you!! Probably explain to her Watsup before she finds out! |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Nobody: 1:09pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
idnoble135: Having read this, my thoughts goes along this lines; There is no way you can ascertain if she truly ignored you. Some things might have come up (or events might have taken place) and the communication had to be broken(not from her but maybe from other things). Maybe she has preserved herself for you all this while.The Op is on a tightrope 1 Like
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Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by chineloSA(f): 1:23pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
She is not that into you if she disappeared on you. We live in a very enabling world. There are no excuses for failing to communicate for four months. Do you disappear on those u love Move on, you deserve better. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Utchry: 1:56pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
Gabriel_sylar: She has brought disease for uLol |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by kagari: 2:28pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
U guys dont gerrit, do u? . Ok fastforward---- the said girlfriend might b reading dis ish right now, u guys know what? Y'all tipping her off ok, u gerrit now |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Tyraveee(f): 4:15pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
Leave her alone,she is tro wit d map she was drawing. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Walspring: 4:43pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
iykemoney90: Pls nairalanders I need your advice. Oga follow your heart but me dey single and if you give me her link i no mind oo... Oya lets goooooo |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma; Pls Advice by Okeyson4wisdom(m): 6:52am On Oct 01, 2013 |
djeezy: Then don't hurt your current girlfriend. U can strangle those flaming feelings.do things appropriately stop dating stop all these girlfriend and boyfriend thing it leads to sin if u wanna marry pray to God to give u ur help mate then u court under strict supervision |
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