My bf and I have been dating for a year. At that time a guy I thot was unserz and in a different town decided to propose to me. I sat my current bf down and told him and asked him if ther was a future he intended for our relationship, he said he wasn't convicted in his heart to make that decision yet.
So, with my heart shattered to pieces(cos I felt he was d one I was inlove with) I broke it off and said yes to d other guy. He came back after a week with a long speech of hw he can't loose me, and how he loves me, and wanted to spend d rest of his life with me. Caught in a dilema I decided to go with my heart, I took him back and ended d relationship/engagement with d fella I didn't feel I was inlove with.
We've been together ever since. He's being kind, loving, and always ther for me. Except, whenever I bring up d issue of settling, he either becomes uncomfortable or tensed. D relationship is perfect, bt is it heading anywher. I love this man, and it has been a year since he told me he wanted to settle with me.
What do I do?

Why do you fvcking wish to settle with him?
Why do you feel insecured?
Do you wanna get married to him soonest?
Why are you obsessed about getting married to him-marriage is not a bed of roses or whatever flower.
Please, you need a job.
Take things one step at a time, if age is on your side then you have got zero thing to worry about.
Why are you acting all desperate? You old?

The answer is

he said he wasn't convicted in his heart to make that decision yet.