carbonado:
....lol...that is one of women strongest point...unlike we...maybe I should say me...sighs...

That's what makes the differences between the sexes unique.
I'm sure you're managing well enough.
You have some level of discipline having played sports....

Mobilia:


Lol...well soccer is the number one sport in the world...very true.
But somehow, it just isn't popular at all in America.

....why did you ask about working in Nigeria,do u have intentions of working here or just a random question

Mobilia:


That's what makes the differences between the sexes unique.
I'm sure you're managing well enough.
You have some level of discipline having played sports....

....yes,athletes are disciplined,however,not that they have their struggles in others areas of their lives.

Mobilia:


I guess I am too...
I don't think it's about being "poke-nosey", (Martin0), but moreso trying to be conversational.
It's not like tons of Nigerians are dying to chat with us "Americanas"...lol. Especially not the females...
Thank you to those who are brave enough to do so though....

oh you welcome once again

carbonado:
....yes,athletes are disciplined,however,not that they have their struggles in others areas of their lives.

Very true statement....
Yes...we all have a struggle with something in our lives....that's for sure.

Martin0:



oh you welcome once again

The pleasure is all mine....
You sir, are quite a character!

Mobilia:

So why do you like hanging out in the "foreigners'" joint?

I don already answer you na

carbonado:
....why did you ask about working in Nigeria,do u have intentions of working here or just a random question

I'm thinking about some things.....
It's always important to know as much as one can about a place he/she is traveling to.....

Mobilia:


I'm thinking about some things.....
It's always important to know as much as one can about a place he/she is traveling to.....

...lol...okay...I dig...

Martin0:


I don already answer you na

Oh..my apologies. Cause there had been multiple conversations going on at the same time.
I might've missed it.
Abeg, will you kindly refresh my mind.. "si vous plait"?

So if you had to choose between Lagos, Port-Harcourt, Abuja, Owerri or Ibadan, which would you choose?

CC: Carbonado

Mobilia:



Oh..my apologies. Cause there had been multiple conversations going on at the same time.
I might've missed it.
Abeg, will you kindly refresh my mind.. "si vous plait"?

...if I may answer that question,the reason I hang out is because,there are matured mind here that we could chat,and have good conversations, I actually go to other segments but I seldom comment..what about...I know u r a foreigner though...lol

carbonado:
...if I may answer that question,the reason I hang out is because,there are matured mind here that we could chat,and have good conversations, I actually go to other segments but I seldom comment..what about...I know u r a foreigner though...lol

Oh...forgive me. I meant for you to answer that question also
Nice reply....
It takes a certain amount of courage to do so...

Mobilia:
So if you had to choose between Lagos, Port-Harcourt, Abuja, Owerri or Ibadan, which would you choose?

CC: Carbonado

....I have lived in Lagos all my live,Lagos is okay,however,Lagos is crazy when it comes to traffic...abuja is laid back,but a cool place,that is the seat of power...owerri I do not know much about...Ibadan,is really ancient city,it just good for visiting,you might not feel the quality of life of ibadan,..for me it is is between Lagos and abuja..the reat ,I will pass.

Mobilia:


Oh I'm sorry...meant to do so.
I used to use most of my real name and age in my former moniker....
Then I changed it to my favorite former city...it has most of the name and then I added "lia" to add the feminine touch I wanted.

Hey, I lived there. Remember when i mention ed i stayed south for alittle bit. My mom's people are from there. Very interesting

I converse....that's what I do.
But when I'm ready to retreat...then I do so.
I've gotten into enough situations on Nairaland (under my former monikers)...but I'm not gonna promise that I won't say something that may be controversial to some...
I actually wanted to intermingle with the Nigerians...and have tried relentlessly.
But the reception hasn't been so good..
But guess what?
I'm not going anywhere...lol.
I've slowed down a bit...but when I feel ready to let loose...I will (respectfully) of course

Who I am on this site..is who I am in real life.
My former students always said over the years that I'm a big kid...cause I love humor...and laughing! I love it!

CC: Carbonado

hiawathia1981:


Hey, I lived there. Remember when i mention ed i stayed south for alittle bit. My mom's people are from there. Very interesting

Wait....are you serious?
No way!

carbonado:
....I have lived in Lagos all my live,Lagos is okay,however,Lagos is crazy when it comes to traffic...abuja is laid back,but a cool place,that is the seat of power...owerri I do not know much about...Ibadan,is really ancient city,it just good for visiting,you might not feel the quality of life of ibadan,..for me it is is between Lagos and abuja..the reat ,I will pass.

Okay...I figured so.
Lagos and Abuja.
I figured that....my sis wants to ONLY visit Lagos...and then hop on over to Ghana (her ex is Ghanaian).

Mobilia:
I converse....that's what I do.
But when I'm ready to retreat...then I do so.
I've gotten into enough situations on Nairaland (under my former monikers)...but I'm not gonna promise that I won't say something that may be controversial to some...
I actually wanted to intermingle with the Nigerians...and have tried relentlessly.
But the reception hasn't been so good..
But guess what?
I'm not going anywhere...lol.....
I've slowed down a bit...but when I feel ready to let loose...I will (respectfully) of course

Who I am on this site..is who I am in real life.
My former students always said over the years that I'm a big kid...cause I love humor...and laughing! I love it!

CC: Carbonado

....lol...you should change the sections you hang out it,basically, by the way they talk,u do have an idea if you can have a matures conversation... Lol

I would prefer Abuja...and that's after we visit our relatives.
See said she doesn't want to stay in the village...(she's spoiled and a big-city girl in every way).

CC: Carbonado

carbonado:
....lol...you should change the sections you hang out it,basically, by the way they talk,u do have an idea if you can have a matures conversation... Lol

Oh...I've changed sections.

Mobilia:


Okay...I figured so.
Lagos and Abuja.
I figured that....my sis wants to ONLY visit Lagos...and then hop on over to Ghana (her ex is Ghanaian).

...I will like to visit ghana some day

carbonado:
...I will like to visit ghana some day

Yes...they say Ghana's where it's at.....

Mobilia:
I would prefer Abuja...and that's after we visit our relatives. I'd like to visit Ibadan, Owerri, Warri and Enugu.
See said she doesn't want to stay in the village...(she's spoiled and a big-city girl in every way).

CC: Carbonado

...lol,I blame her not...have you guys ever been to Nigeria before

[quote author=Mobilia post=68392426]

Oh...I've changed sections.
The fact of the matter is: I'm addicted to this website!
Lord help me break this addiction please... [/quote

I will pray for your deliverance.

carbonado:
...lol,I blame her not...have you guys ever been to Nigeria before

Not yet.

carbonado:
...lol,I blame her not...have you guys ever been to Nigeria before

Unfortunately not yet...I know.
We were on our way for a vacation several years ago BUT my dad's brother called us about 3 days before we were to come, and said it was too dangerous. A military coup was going on...
My dad's been back without us a few times...
But it's my time now....

Mobilia:



Wait....are you serious?
No way!

Yup. Very serious. Ive not been in years tho. Im sure it has changed since ive last been. Ive been thinking about it alot lately.

Mobilia:


Oh...I've changed sections.
The fact of the matter is: I'm addicted to this website!
Lord help me break this addiction please...

...lol...this is me being active on social media,I have a Facebook and IG and twitter account,however,I might not login in to those account in weeks.

[quote author=hiawathia1981 post=68392536][/quote]

Well let me be more specific....
I want to reduce my "need" to log on every single day.
I have deactivated about 6 times or so.
But I always come back...
What is going on here...is "juju" on this site or something..lol

carbonado:
...lol...this is me being active on social media,I have a Facebook and IG and twitter account,however,I might not login in to those account in weeks.

See...that's what I'm talking about.
Discipline....wow.
You have all of those accounts...but won't login for some time.
You gotta give me the secret ingredient....

Mobilia:


Unfortunately not yet...I know.
We were on our way for a 2-week vacation several years ago BUT my dad's brother called us about 3 days before we were to come, and said it was too dangerous. A military coup was going on...
My dad's been back without us a few times...
But it's my time now....

....lol...she is a big gal now..