Maybe, she is now an extrovert

Mobilia:

May I ask why you left the Introvert room?

Dremca:
Maybe, she is now an extrovert

Ok...that's great.

Mobilia:


May I ask why you left the Introvert room?

I didnt. I still go there. But it was more q/a.

hiawathia1981:


I didnt. I still go there. But it was more q/a.

Oh okay....
Have you ever thought of inviting your partner to Nairaland...or is he already here (if I may ask)?

Dremca:
Maybe, she is now an extrovert

Nah, i found out that i may be an ambivert. Which means you can go back and forth btwn the two. Bc of my profession, it has forced me to be more of an extrovert. So, ive learned to turn ot off/on when i must.
But im more comfortable in my personal life as an introvert.

hiawathia1981:


Nah, i found out that i may be an ambivert. Which means you can go back and forth btwn the two. Bc of my profession, it has forced me to be more of an extrovert. So, ive learned to turn ot off/on when i must.
But im more comfortable in my personal life as an introvert.

Well socially (at least on Nairaland), you're doing quite well.

Mobilia:


Oh okay....
Have you ever thought of inviting your partner to Nairaland...or is he already here (if I may ask)?

We havent talked about it. I kinda like keeping this part to myself.

hiawathia1981:


We havent talked about it. I kinda like keeping this part to myself.

Oh, so he at least knows that Nairaland exists.....oh okay.
But why not share? Maybe it can help both of you....(with communication).

Mobilia:


Well socially (at least on Nairaland), you're doing quite well.

Thanks

I think its more bc its faceless, so its given me more courage and ambition than i would ordinarily use.

Mobilia:


Oh, so he at least knows that Nairaland exists.....oh okay.
But why not share? Maybe it can help both of you....(with communication).

Maybe.

Dremca:
By Stephen Covey, really want to read that book.

And there is also The art of not giving s f**k. That one is supposed to be really good also

hiawathia1981:


Thanks

I think its more bc its faceless, so its given me more courage and ambition than i would ordinarily use.

So how are you translating what you're learning here to him though (in terms of communication)? Sorry for being so inquisitive..
Also how are you dealing with interested guys? Do they know that you are in a relationship?

Mobilia:


So how are you translating what you're learning here to him though (in terms of communication)? Sorry for being so inquisitive..
Also how are you dealing with interested guys? Do they know that you are in a relationship?

I havent learned anything yet.
And as far as suitors go, i ve had guys ask about being friends. And unless friends is code for something else ive not had any problems. Half the people dont know im a girl in the first place.

hiawathia1981:


Nah, i found out that i may be an ambivert. Which means you can go back and forth btwn the two. Bc of my profession, it has forced me to be more of an extrovert. So, ive learned to turn ot off/on when i must.
But im more comfortable in my personal life as an introvert.

.
..hmm,I think ambivert discribes me..

hiawathia1981:


I havent learned anything yet.
And as far as suitors go, i ve had guys ask about being friends. And unless friends is code for something else ive not had any problems. Half the people dont know im a girl in the first place.

But all they have to do is "click" on your dp..and they can see a pic.

Ok...let me just leave that topic alone...
Just trying to help you out a little...

Mobilia:


But all they have to do is "click" on your dp..and they can see a pic.

Yes, but unless you attach your gender to your profile, alot of people dont check your dp. Its usually when you say that you are female, that guys intentionally check. Which is why i chose that route.

Am i right, guys?

hiawathia1981:


Yes, but unless you attach your gender to your profile, alot of people dont check your dp. Its usually when you say that you are female, that guys intentionally check. Which is why i chose that route.

Am i right, guys?

I was of the opinion that people automatically click if you say something that gets their attention....
I just would think that you'd want to share this Nairaland experience with him... you know together....
The only way to truly be incognito or "face-less" is to NOT have a pic up... unless the pic belongs to someone else.....(which some folks I've heard do).

Mobilia:


I was of the opinion that people automatically click if you say something that gets their attention....
I just would think that you'd want to share this Nairaland experience together....

Hmm, im kinda nervous about it actually. I don't know why

Mobilia:


I was of the opinion that people automatically click if you say something that gets their attention....
I just would think that you'd want to share this Nairaland experience together....

..I think mobilia is right,....for the last time today...am off,my people,I dey go sleep...lol

carbonado:
..I think mobilia is right,....for the last time today...am off,my people,I dey go sleep...lol

Bye

hiawathia1981:


Hmm, im kinda nervous about it actually. I don't know why

Nervous about being in a relationship with him?
Do you want to be in the relationship?
Seems like you are a little undecided.

carbonado:
..I think mobilia is right,....for the last time today...am off,my people,I dey go sleep...lol

Ok. I will talk to him about it. I must go too.

carbonado:
..I think mobilia is right,....for the last time today...am off,my people,I dey go sleep...lol

Lol...goodnight sir!

hiawathia1981:


Ok. I will talk to him about it. I must go too.

Wait...hold on a sec. You need to leave at the same time as Carbonado?

Mobilia:


Nervous about being in a relationship with him?
Do you want to be in the relationship?
Seems like you are a little undecided.

No, nervous about the nairaland thing. Bc i insert myself in certain topics and I dont think he would approve.

Mobilia:


Wait...hold on a sec. You need to leave at the same time as Carbonado?

Lol.
It seemed like a good time to exit

Are you two playing a game here?


CC: Hiawathia1981
CC: Carbonado

hiawathia1981:


Lol.
It seemed like a good time to exit

Well I'm still conversing with you...

Mobilia:


Well I'm still conversing with you...

Ok.
And now im thinking about talking to my partner about nairaland.

Hiawathia1981,
See... this is the what I was speaking about when I said "weirdness" going on...

Mobilia:
Are you two playing a game here?


CC: Hiawathia1981
CC: Carbonado

lol...nope..just coincidence..