I married a feminist, and i am ok with her ideas,even though its not easy to take.Recently she is aking for my facebook password.she is on my friends list and sees everything, yet she is not satisfied.she knows my work schedule and movement am suprised she is asking for that. Besides i dont even know hers and dont want to know because i trust her.
Its really getting out of hand bc she is insisting on it.

If u give her,u're a puppet

Just give it to her. Whats the harm?

AlbinoNinja: Just give it to her. Whats the harm?

do you ever sleep?

Take hers and give urs.......or do u haf skeleton in ur cupboard?

Give it to her,by the time she login 2wice and sees nothing incriminating on it, she will give up. And you ask for hers too. And if she refuses, then don't reveal yours to hers. No body be mumu for the other.

Why does she want it? Is it that she does not trust you? I will suggest you don't give her just to set a precedence. Soon she would want to know all you email passwords and work email password sef. I don't think it's right for a wife to demand her husbands password.

If you really do not want to give her, when you are at home, call her to your side and log on to facebook. Let her do whatever she wants to do.

However, there is more to her asking for your facebook password, Is it that she doesn't trust you enough or she just wants to know.

Although, I am of the opinion that spouses should know the passwords of public and social media of each other. We never can tell when the need for it may arise but it should not be forcefully given. It should be a mutually agreed thing to do.

Eebrahym: Take hers and give urs.......or do u haf skeleton in ur cupboard?

i support this idea and or tell her you are not giving her.


Some women just like giving themselves unecessary high bp,they wont just let sleeping dogs lie.the question should be,ok if after catching him?what next.smh.eni lori onifila

I can smell declining of trust. If dat is it i won't give her - arrant rubbish

Agbgift: Give it to her,by the time she login 2wice and sees nothing incriminating on it, she will give up. And you ask for hers too. And if she refuses, then don't reveal yours to hers. No body be mumu for the other.

@the bolded,that is if there is nothing incriminating.

But like Bellong said,it should be mutual. Nobody should be coerced into giving out his or her password against his/her wish.

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What about trust

wabterry: I married a feminist, and i am ok with her ideas,even though its not easy to take.Recently she is aking for my facebook password.she is on my friends list and sees everything, yet she is not satisfied.she knows my work schedule and movement am suprised she is asking for that. Besides i dont even know hers and dont want to know because i trust her.
Its really getting out of hand bc she is insisting on it.

Are you reluctant to give her because:

She is a feminist and has such similar requests in the past?

Or because you do not think she has to know?

For whatever reason you think she should not have it, state your reasons to her.

I believe that couples should share passwords and pins BUT it must be a free flowing thing and not at 'Gunpoint.'

If she doesn't see your reasons, tell her that you are open to exchanging of passwords instead.

Some people really make life so difficult for themselves. What does giving her your password amount to?

At times I wonder how some people chose to suffer and have issues instead of enjoying life.

Some people are simply stupidd.

Dont give her nada. If you want to do any runs what stops you from opening another facebook page she wouldnt know about in your nickname?

Those women who also check phones, How much is a sim card and another phone? What stops you from having a phone you keep in the office alone?

If she doesnt trust you, then she is free to leave.

I hate people forming Inspector gadget.

If I have a wife and it has gotten to me sneaking behind for her facebook page, email, phones etc when she hasnt given me any reason to whats the point of remaining married to her

I don't see why couples shouldn't know each others password,Bellong is right on this.

She can't be a feminist and exhibit such insecure tendencies around ANY MAN, including her spouse.

Unless the meaning of feminism keeps changing with any one who can spell it correctly.

You are married to a CONTROL FREAK!

Simple!

Kanwulia: She can't be a feminist and exhibit such insecure tendencies around ANY MAN, including her spouse.

Unless the meaning of feminism keeps changing with any one who can spell it correctly.

You are married to a CONTROL FREAK!

Simple!

gbam,thank you for that

Kanwulia: She can't be a feminist and exhibit such insecure tendencies around ANY MAN, including her spouse.

Unless the meaning of feminism keeps changing with any one who can spell it correctly.

You are married to a CONTROL FREAK!

Simple!

Very well said!

At husband, just say no.

Most marriages these days are jokes of the century!

What's the big deal about facebook and passwords? As in really? Is she not your wife? If you don't have anything to hide why don't you just give her the password. Does feminism make her less of a woman? Or a human? Part of your job as a husband/wife is to make your partner feel secure, so why don't you just do it! Or you rather raise unnecessary dust? Because of facebook? Facebook kwa? Just ordinary facebook o? What are you doing on facebook that you don't want her to know? Smh

Make her feel secure! It is your duty!