I was discussing dis ish wif an elderly man yestday, nd he told me dah he can 4give his wife if he finds out dah she z aving sex wif anoda man if d wife trully feel remorseful. I dnt fink I can deal wif my gf aving sex wif anoda guy talkless of my wife. The man told me dah I said dis because I wasnt mature enof,he said probably wen I get to his age I'll understand better. I still find it hard to accept, cos I dnt fink I can 4give my wife if she has sex wif anoda man. Its up to u Narailanders, no insult abeg.

NO

Emphatically Yes! As long as i loved her and knew wat true love means which is unconditional love. It's better i saw her and inquire from her why she did it, then we both could make the neccessary adjustment to avoid such thing from happening again. Than to be ignorant of it while it continues.

Of course i will be so hurt but wit time we'll get over it

u will be hurt but i dnt think you will get over it cos d wound will always remain in your hrt

You cant 4giv her even if u do de wount is dere &u can not pet her again or buy her suprise gift or even try to satisfy her because de ones u did b4 was paid back by cheating.i kno an elderly man who threw her wife away because of cheating &after 7yrs her son who live abroad return &bring her back de man acept her bt vow not to eat her food as long as he live &it 5yrs now he never taste her food till i left dat area early dis yr.

prettyjo: u will be hurt but i dnt think you will get over it cos d wound will always remain in your hrt

I will forgive her no matter how hurt i was. Nobody is perfect; am sure she will also 4give me if i did the same.

Don't 4get i could be the cause of her action. We all have weaknesses and the earlier we realize it & deal wit it, the better 4 us

Adikam: You cant 4giv her even if u do de wount is dere &u can not pet her again or buy her suprise gift or even try to satisfy her because de ones u did b4 was paid back by cheating.i kno an elderly man who threw her wife away because of cheating &after 7yrs her son who live abroad return &bring her back de man acept her bt vow not to eat her food as long as he live &it 5yrs now he never taste her food till i left dat area early dis yr.

That man who vowed not to eat his food cos she cheated only loved her on conditions instead of unconditional.

I am not praying that my wife should cheat on me but will i let her be tormented forever cos she cheated? No i wont! I will buy her whatever she wants, then i'll let her know that what she did was a sin against God, me and herself.

There's a way u'll show a harden criminal true love despite what he/she did, and they will never commit crime again

I de craze!

DeCleff:
I will forgive her no matter how hurt i was. Nobody is perfect; am sure she will also 4give me if i did the same.

Don't 4get i could be the cause of her action. We all have weaknesses and the earlier we realize it & deal wit it, the better 4 us

Buh how can sum1 cope wif his wife knowing dat sum man sumwhere has bin banging her while she z still married to u nd still smile wif her. I will like to know.

I'll forgive her but she go still go back her papa house.

A perfect reason to get a divorce and marry a younger wife.

I always advice couples dont have children for the first 2 yrs of marriage.

And guys try not to marry a girl that has had more than 2 boyfriends. Those girls cant just stiick to one guy.... no matter what !

sarbest001: Buh how can sum1 cope wif his wife knowing dat sum man sumwhere has bin banging her while she z still married to u nd still smile wif her. I will like to know.

Thats why i always say that for some1 to walk in true love he/she must first decide to be foolish b4 others. Thats because true love doesnt make sense @ all.

Don't say this is what you can or can not do in a situation; except you find your self in that particular situation.....Abiodun Samuel Ibitoye

I wld forgive er .bt she'd take a walk to er family hauz.