I confess to almighty God,and to you my brothers and sister. . . . . .

She has to know,if truely ur sorry and wish it doesnt happen again.

If she also open up abt her sleepin around wit guys.











Op u dey mad o, hop u ar nt cheatin on mama alabi

Nooo!! U̶̲̥̅̊'re jst gonna escalate tins, trust me,its beta U̶̲̥̅̊ kip it 2 urself nd turn a new leaf

only if the lady wud trust the man agn

Mannylex: I tried telling her several times, but my mouth always get heavy, so I have continued in this world of guilt and deception... Telling her is suicidal, ending this enjoyment is stupidity... I am stuck in both worlds

Oshi
Na petrol n matches wen em go take prepare ur fire for hell u dey gather so
Better repent

Let my ear hear no evil but in this case,I would love to know the truth,finding out on my own won't be good at all.It may make or mar our relationship,it may make us grow stronger.It depends sha.

Like they say, what you don't know can't kill you. If a boyfriend cheats, no biggie, you can start over with someone else, but a hubby? Please keep it to yourself, as long as you don't gimme STD's I'm good

He should not tell me ... .
I need my peace and would not want to die of high blood pressure as a result of too much thinking .

Will never pray for that anyway

He had beta kip to himself o

Daziz: D only thing dat makes u a man is that u cheat and still be able to hide it succesfully

For real!

Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills.

Maybe when you jam skin lesions and your latest bout of cough refuses to subside, you'll want him to tell you whether or not he's been cheating on you.

kreami diva:

Lol......

i will always be ready since its confession!!![b][/b]

For a marriage, yes it is wise to confess to your wife/husband because you have broken a covenant to your spouse and to God.

Secondly, for accountability purpose, the lie you hide will hunt you. Confess and free yourself. Someone somewhere always knows so heck confess and brace up for the perceived consequence. Yes it is good to confess to God, but your spouse deserves to know as well on a spiritual level and for restoration. Unless you want to cheat again but if you need help confess. If you love your wife/husband confess.

Yes! I meant No! Hmmm yes.no no no. Well, maybe.

Yes...so that I can go for medical checkup and exit the relationship

This is interesting.

I have been with my wife for 12 years and i had only slept with just one female asides her and that was when she left the marriage for months.

I told her anyway and i made her realize that but for her leaving i wouldn't even think of such. I guess she understood because for the first time after 7months of her leaving, she came around yesterday and it was a great experience and she never even allowed what i told her disturb her psyche maybe because she knew she caused it.

So i guess it depends on what led to it and not just about jumping into bed with another lady when your woman is always there for you,

Double post.

Men are only good for reproduction.

ogugua88: Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills.

Maybe when you jam skin lesions and your latest bout of cough refuses to subside, you'll want him to tell you whether or not he's been cheating on you.

Why do we have this notion that married cheats dont/wont use protection at least

Btw,kedu maka "sexdonkillthem" ?

elina_liz: Men are only good for reproduction.

Same goes to women.

Feminist fundamentalists are at it again. Yesterday, a thread that men have it easier and today, trying to get us to confess. Men don't tell sh$it until women start confessing that some of the children they claimed to be their husband's are not theirs. Women will NEVER NEVER speak of a child their husband is raising knowing full well that it wasn't his.

The question: Will women ever confess to their man if he is raising a child or children that aren't his?

Da truth z actually very bitter nd wen it coms 2 matters lyk dz i'd rather nt hear such cos it really hurts.........Lobatan!

buaaaahhh!!! hmmm...relationship is meant for two people some B.itches just don't know how to count...the P point is yu'll get caught,biko even if yu are james bond 007

ifyalways: Why do we have this notion that married cheats dont/wont use protection at least

Btw,kedu maka "sexdonkillthem" ?

Married cheat? Lol so levels dey? If a married man is cheating, then he knows nothing of marriage or the vows he took and should be stripped of such titles ASAP.

A man who is used to sex without protection is more likely to not use protection. I highly doubt that all the cases of pregnant house girls, university girls, side chicks, etc., are of failed condoms lol.

And he's fine.

switdil:
Oshi
Na petrol n matches wen em go take prepare ur fire for hell u dey gather so
Better repent

Lol. I love my gf, But she is not my wife yet... Me, I don't trust this hoes at all... You see those heartbreak post most nairaland guys come posting here? I don't wanna be part. I rather cheat than be cheated upon...


I fornicate with 1 hell fire, I fornicate with 100 hell fire... So who is innocent?

I would rather him tell me than to find out by myself. It's just the respectful thing to do

kreami diva: If the lady doesn't know,there's no use confessing to her. Just confess to God and turn a new leaf. I'd rather not know. It would be difficult for me to forgive and forget. IMO o.

Ignorance is bliss......

I LOVE THIS!!!!

Toks2008: This is interesting.

I have been with my wife for 12 years and i had only slept with just one female asides her and that was when she left the marriage for months.

I told her anyway and i made her realize that but for her leaving i wouldn't even think of such. I guess she understood because for the first time after 7months of her leaving, she came around yesterday and it was a great experience and she never even allowed what i told her disturb her psyche maybe because she knew she caused it.

So i guess it depends on what led to it and not just about jumping into bed with another lady when your woman is always there for you,

what? she left u for 7 good months, man u better check that space, she probably has slept enough with another men to deal with the hurt u've caused her and justify her reason for coming back to you.

dont tell me cos i wouldnt want to tell yhu mine lets stick to making our marriage work and also living right...