Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,153,294 members, 7,818,992 topics. Date: Monday, 06 May 2024 at 09:41 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? (25901 Views)
My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. / Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks / Husband Concerned That His Wife Is Silent Even Knowing That He Cheated (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by KOLITE93(f): 9:53pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
If we r dating,he shuldnt but if we r married he culd |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by MsJanie: 9:57pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
If it was a one time thing, I don't want to know. Only you should bear the burden of the guilt, don't put it on me. But if you are having an affair, then we should have "the talk". 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by kreamidiva(f): 10:00pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Fact is i know how I'm wired. I'll keep imagining my husband going in and out of the said "strange woman" for years. I will find it very difficult to forgive him especially since I've been faithful to him. He doesn't have any respect for me because if he did,he would have considered how i would feel if i ever got to know. Based on that,i try very hard not to pry into his affairs so that i don't sniff out something (i have a very strong sense of smell) Its the fastest way to kill me. Infidelity. I don't wanna hear it. Take it to your grave pls. 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Toks2008(m): 10:02pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
DailyNews: I love your honesty. Any man that has tasted sex has close to 99% affinity to cheat! A man can only be faithful to his wife by the special grace of God which would give him a high self control whenever the chances comes around or whenever he is tempted to.\ In my case, i was faithful with just one lady for 12 years and the reasons are 1. I am a believer, 2. I fear GOD 3. My lady has all i need in a woman and i mean every damn thing talking about the right curves in the right places and i always tell myself that its the same hole. But when she suddenly left to stay with her sister telling me she needs space and stuffs like that, what will a man in his late thirties do? count the stars or sing lullaby each night. I did not even go out of my way to get a lady because i was scared to urge another lady on when i have not sorted out myself with my elusive wife but i only took advantage of a delectable professional house keeper which i was not even proud of the act but i just had to due to sexual depravity. So i was so comfortable telling her and she kind of understood for whatever reasons so i believe im still as decent as i use to be and if i see myself in a similar situation, im not sure i will not get down again and again with any delectable lady because its not an easy thing for a man to be alone. Thats my point. Its one thing to be a circumstantial philanderer and another to be a chronic philanderer that will do it even if he/she has the best partner in the world. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by WackyJ1(m): 10:13pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
carefreewannabe:Why will he cheat when he has the paparazzi watching him. When he has his image to consider? In this case external factors are responsible for him not wanting to cheat |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Decryptor(m): 10:29pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
ogugua88: I would want to know. People often forget the health aspect. He's sleeping around, with who? How many people? Do they have stds?And what if u are sexkillz's backup chick? 2 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by dontgivafuck: 10:56pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
It doesn't really make any difference... I'll definitely find out n wen I do... |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by kizito047(m): 11:23pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Am going 2 cheat dats certain(but wil play ma game well f̶̲̥̅̊o̶̲̥̅̊r̶̲̥̅̊ her nt 2 knw). |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
ogugua88: I would want to know. People often forget the health aspect. He's sleeping around, with who? How many people? Do they have stds?best post. I totally agree with this yeah yeah men cheat and all but its good to know cos the last time i checked alot of these diseases have no cure. Better safe than sorry. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by tnktosin(m): 11:29pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Yusluv77: Six Golden Rules For F***ing1. F***ing once a weekDude, u got me there. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by jigboke: 11:52pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Frankly speaking , a woman should be aware of everything concerning her husband including the amount he earns monthly. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Richy4(m): 12:28am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Mai pride: Ignorance is not bliss.... "My people perish for lack of knowledge.... What do you want her to hear? I cheated on you because you can not perform and satisfy my sexual need. if I try for us to consume our love for each other u say not now.even when you reluctantly agree, you just lie down there like a log and make me do all the work in bed.... Her name is Holly, daughter of the ex minister. I met her at Christmas function and something led to another and it happened. Assuming you were more daring and demonstrative in your love for me it would not have happened. it break my heart telling you this but I am sorry.... Is that what you really want her to hear? guhhhhh!!! somethings are rather left unsaid. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Gudintent: 4:12am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Toks2008: \ Sir you still hitting that ? Na real wa o |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Funjosh(m): 4:31am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Why should i even tell her, unless she mix something with the vegetable she prepare for me. "Oro hunu hunu inu elede lo n gbe" |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Funjosh(m): 4:35am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Why should i tell her Unless she mix something with the vegetable she serve me. "oro hunu hunu inu elede lo n gbe" |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Blofeld(m): 4:36am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Follow the link below to make real cash online http:///API-Employ/?id=Blofeld Try it out and thank me later. Cheers! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 6:03am On Oct 15, 2013 |
hello sweetheart. I just 4kd ann. I hope u re not sad. am planning to 4k princess by weekend. u kno I love u ba. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 6:24am On Oct 15, 2013 |
He should, so he can have peace within and so i can forgive him, if its really hurting him on the inside...then we divorce afterwards. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by dagr8oy: 6:45am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Stonerobaba: Ladies, dont even think about it because men will never confess to you and secondly it will be a very sad and heartbroken news if u are eventually told. i dnt think so. i once confessed 2my ex,,,she felt very bad. it wasn't easy but she 4gv and she trustd me all tru d r/shp. i didn't cheat on her again |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Histrings08(m): 6:51am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Just tell her and free yourself of †ђξ guilt.... What's †ђξ essence of confessing to God and knwing deep down that you av wronged your better half Your peace aint complete dt way... It aint easy to forgive and forget but ℓ̊ will save my marriage and forgive with †ђξ hope and promise that he won't do it again[/quote]..some people that av done that before ended up with divorce nd ultimately eternal regret...confess to God nd you'll be safer than sorry |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Itulah(m): 7:17am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Yusluv77: *Why do you want to put us in Gods mind this holiday? Did you check your items 5? What is the relationship with your alleged "fasting" and bed? May God tripple clean your dirty mind with fuel and methol spirit. Say Amen. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by kreamidiva(f): 7:18am On Oct 15, 2013 |
GUARD YOUR HEART WILL ALL DILIGENCE FOR OUT OF IT COMES THE ISSUES OF LIFE!!! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 7:20am On Oct 15, 2013 |
sihom: No way, I wouldn't want to know because I'm a vindictive woman I like to get even with people and I struggle with forgiveness. Forgiveness doesn't come easily to me that man had better keep his affairs a top secret and apply the 11th commandment when dealing with me. SECONDED I REALLY DON'T Y I LIKE REVENGE AND I DO IT WHEN U MUST HAVE FORGOTTEN MAY GOD DELIVER ME CUZ I HEARD ITS BAD |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by kreamidiva(f): 7:22am On Oct 15, 2013 |
nancy1985: Revenge is a dish best served cold! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by sammieguze(m): 7:27am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Well.... D first and the last tm i did it was two years ago and she still dnt trust me. Sumtyms, i regret ever mentioning it to her. Av been clean, bt am nt gonna make that mistake again.....NEVER!!! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 7:34am On Oct 15, 2013 |
kreami diva: YEA I KNOW |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Edoblakky(m): 8:04am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Confessing infidelity to your wife is like a two-edged sword. You don't know how she will react. Its just like a woman telling her husband Junior is not your biological son. I think the best thing is for it not to happen at all but if it happens, repent. You may tell your wife if she's the type that will forgive but if she's like Ogugua88, Nancy1985 and Kreami diva, its better to let sleeping dogs lie |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Oketwin(m): 8:09am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Some tyms keeping d truth save one alot,once told d truth abt an affair i had n she still rub it on ma face anytym we av misundastanding.i still regret telling her |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 9:07am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Decryptor: And what if u are sexkillz's backup chick? I'm here wondering which frustrated crocodile liked this post. My wha? She's my side chick, as in she'll never leave my side and vice versa. Make una deal. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by gospel11: 9:19am On Oct 15, 2013 |
mr Pero: Its better to repent genuinely and forget about the whole issue...the trust is always so hard to get back... Basket mouth once said maturity is the ability not lie bt not say d truth. 99percent of men cheat in marriage... Its 'almost' natural. i U r wrong... Its never almost natural... Its wrong. Why not be satisfied with what you have. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Toks2008(m): 9:30am On Oct 15, 2013 |
FUNNY BUT TRUE For the married ladies Many ladies out there are no longer interested in unmarried men but are desperate and will do anything to unseat you and have your hubby. If you discover your hubby is having an affair(not from gossips), don't fight him because you may lose him to these Jezebels. Have a gentle heart to heart talk with him and TAKE THE MATTER TO GOD. Leaving your marriage is no guarantee that you will get a better man. We know that some men are willful philanderers but sometimes, these Jezebels use spells on men. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by jkendy(m): 9:42am On Oct 15, 2013 |
In dis planet of Acid-bath, u want 2 tel ur woman dat u did what? The consequencies would be publis on Youtube.com |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply)
Nigerian Dad Takes To Crossdressing, Gives Reasons: Video / My Aunty Sent Me Packing / Woman Tells Husband To Pay Before Breastfeeding Their Baby
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 51 |