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Hello fellas. I have a serious situation at hand. There is this particular girl way back like a year ago, she purposedly toast me and fell in love with me. At that time, i was not into her even a bit as i was not interested in her at all. I did so many bad things just to get her off my back but it makes her love me more. As at then, she has guys after her but she still insist in me. I treat her so bad that it got to a point i had to reject her calls and changed my number. It worked for a while but after sometime, she manage to get my contact (i dont know how) but she was no more into me really much again. We became pals and we get in contact once in a while. To cut the story short, of recent i can feel that im getting attracted to her so much that i even went as far to tell her my mind that im so serious this time around but she told me she is no more interested that after all what i did to her, she has gotten enough of me and that she is better off that way. Till now i have to beg her to consider me and change her mind that i was been childish then and that i mean to love her this time. All she could say is that she cant give me an answer now that i should just pray that she changes her heart (i know she is confused). The funny thing is that anytime i want to see her, she always show up even at night and sometimes she tells me to call her at night calls, she even intend to come to my house tomorrow. I feel she is still kinda into me and i'm still in her mind, but i can't say what she is upto. Guys, im now crazily in love with her and all i need is how to get her back to be mine cos i'm loosing my mind cos of dis. The conscience is gettin much as i have apologised to her to forget the past... Help a brother here...

From what i read, she is still into you and would say yes in due time if there is no other guy in the picture that she is really into, i just hope she makes you suffer before she gives in

[quote author=sweet-tease]From what i read, she is still into you and would say yes in due time if there is no other guy in the picture that she is really into, i just hope she makes you suffer before she gives in [/quote]so i dey in support make she suffer me small? Ok thnx for ur input anyway

Excelboi: Help a brother here...

Since you said i should help you as a brother *Slaps Him*

How do you know you really love this girl? eh? Why didn't you love her since when she was showing you her best side ? Has she grown more beautiful or do you not have any other options? Or could it be the fact that because she is no longer into you and your ego is no longer being pumped up by her attempts at winning your love that you now deluded yourself to thinking you are in love?
Bro you need to check yourself well to see whether it is love or neediness.

Excelboi: The funny thing is that anytime i want to see her, she always show up even at night and sometimes she tells me to call her at night calls, she even intend to come to my house tomorrow. I feel she is still kinda into me and i'm still in her mind, but i can't say what she is upto.

The above signs show that she is still majorly into you and if you play your cards well then she will be yours you might even start with some FWB things first before things progress to the higher level. Try to seduce her, Become very close to her, know her in and out and then try to give everything about your interactions, the illusion of romance.

Excelboi: Guys, im now crazily in love with her and all i need is how to get her back to be mine cos i'm loosing my mind cos of dis. The conscience is gettin much as i have apologised to her to forget the past... Help a brother here...

Don't be a fool brother, all that crazy love stuff will put you in trouble.. Use your head here and not your heart, if the girl sees that she can now starts taking you for a ride because you now love her crazy then she will never give in to your advances. Don't make the mistake of being the guy who will allow her to walk all him because he thinks that it will bring him closer to her heart no..