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Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by busolayemi: 4:20am On Oct 29, 2013 |
B4 a woman will actually wake up one day and stat tinkin of gettin a piece of land and buildin on it without d hubby's consent....all is not well. And pls, dnt b so quick at condemnin the woman. As so not normal as it is, most times, its always d man's fault. If I discover that my man is the 'I'm not tinkin about tomoro type', I can do it.....especially if he has the money but he's not jst tinkin of tomoro...well, I may never tell him to move into the house...buh at least I'll b gettin moni frm it by renting it out....Dat myt even prompt him to stat tinkin of buuildin his own house too....Some men are jst funny with the way they spend....No thot for d future at all 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by LordReed(m): 6:34am On Oct 29, 2013 |
How does a man not give consent to something so enriching as a self owned house? Such a man needs his head examined. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by gemini35(m): 6:50am On Oct 29, 2013 |
Law-confessor:if she build d house wit ma name as head of d haux myt b aceptable if bdg, by d way hw a woman go supervice d buildin of a haux wit out d consent of d husband,is d husband slowpoke? Unless she,s d type that control d man, |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Lawconfessor(f): 8:00am On Oct 29, 2013 |
tintingz: it will be funny when both couple have misunderstanding or maybe divorce Misunderstanding somtymes- Yes. But biko, must every marriage end in divorce- young man? Whew!!! Ppl shud be positive for once. *yawns* |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Lawconfessor(f): 8:15am On Oct 29, 2013 |
gemini35: by d way hw a woman go supervice d buildin of a haux Nawa oo! See mentality. I am talkin abt money here Sweetie- COOL CASH to get a supervising civil eng. contractor. She'll merely go der at her leisure time. D huby dont hav to be a daft b4 d wife do such a fin. Pls wake up swty. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by joeekuns(m): 9:06am On Oct 29, 2013 |
Law-confessor: Now if that is so that means you would be presenting him with the CofO that bears his name right? You cannot present a birthday gift only to collect it back later on. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by lipstick1(f): 9:39am On Oct 29, 2013 |
What if she had the house before she married the man?. And where the man does not have any and the woman has?,so the man should not move in with her. Una worry o. I agree with the person who said CONSENT is the word,i dont think there is any good woman who will embark on such a mission with the approval of the man,once its a united happy family,no one does anything without the knowledge of ther other. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by ksbusari(m): 9:43am On Oct 29, 2013 |
It is nt normal in Yoruba culture bt it happens and i knw of one. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by tintingz(m): 10:31am On Oct 29, 2013 |
Law-confessor:I didn't say every marriage must end with divorce I only point out the risk of a wife using a whole house as a birthday gift to the husband, who knows what will happen after the house was given to husband. women should be careful when building a house for their husbands we are not in disney land where everything end with happy ending, this is reality |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by PurestBoy(m): 11:18am On Oct 29, 2013 |
gingerbread: @#80illion He has never had any meaningful contribution, all he does is to increase his number of posts |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by joe4christ(m): 11:47am On Oct 29, 2013 |
kulyie: abi o.they are waaaaaaaayyyyy toooo local. Are you married If you are, then your hubby don enter. Chai!!! |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Ohrydo: 3:46pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Kanwulia: As you can READ, the respondents are from the EAST-WEST connector of NIGERIA where women are too TIMID/LAZZZZZZZY to WORK WITH THEIR OWN BRAINS AND HANDS! Or where CHAUVINISTIC/SEXXXXIST and extremely LOCCCAL dudes are toooooo insecure to get married to SELF-MADE WOMEN!u mst b d most very useless woman i ave eva heard abt in dis earth, if we get 2 knw u, u mst b an arrogant nd shameless woman in ur husband house IDIOT. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Ohrydo: 3:52pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
kulyie: abi o.they are waaaaaaaayyyyy toooo local.bt why re u pple soo useless like dis... U re an indescriminate element 2 all human being, NONSENSE |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Emeralddeee: 5:52pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
A caring and loving husband should be supportive and happy if his wife builds a house with his consent since they are a family it is immaterial where the money comes from, everything they both own belongs to each other likewise the house. I wonder why some men get jealous when their wife earns more than them, I guess is an ego thing when you have a loving, loyal and trustworthy wife you shouldn't get yourself worked up cuz she earns more than you, most men would not want to stay in the house not because she didn't seek their consent, it's cuz their ego won't let them. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by bedazzled: 5:56pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
I do not see anything bad in a man living in a house built by his wife if they have a mutual agreement and understanding in their marriage then who cares what people out there think (of course all documents pertaining to the house should be "Mr n Mrs"). |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Emeralddeee: 5:57pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Ohrydo: u mst b d most very useless woman i ave eva heard abt in dis earth, if we get 2 knw u, u mst b an arrogant nd shameless woman in ur husband house IDIOT.sharaaap must you attack her That's her opinion, whatever happened to freedom of speech Why such gross insult 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
The reasons why a woman would build a house without her husband's consent include: (1) the man may tell her that the only way he can allow her build it is if she uses his own name in the C of O. Some men can be that jealous (2) the woman might be a victim of abuse so she can decide to build her own house so that she can have a good shelter in case d husband throws her out. (3) the man might try to dissuade her especially if he doesn't own his house yet. So the woman might decide to hide it from the man if the man is behaving like an enemy of progress. Some men see women as second class citizens and they treat them like trash. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by mufutau55(m): 2:35am On Oct 30, 2013 |
HELL NO. Never. Even if she had a house before I married her, I will not live under her house. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by tintingz(m): 5:13am On Oct 30, 2013 |
Emeralddeee: sharaaap must you attack her That's her opinion, whatever happened to freedom of speech Why such gross insultDid he insulted her Or told her the truth?? It seems you have not been reading that girl(kulyie) posts on NL. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Emeralddeee: 7:52am On Oct 30, 2013 |
tintingz: Did he insulted her Or told her the truth??I see, useless and shameless has become a compliment right I wonder why it's so easy for some people to reign insult on others . That's what savages do, not civilised people, he could counteract her opinion without reigning unnecessary insult on her. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Lemzkyd: 8:35am On Oct 30, 2013 |
And to think my Momsi wanted to build a house b4 she met my dad...I for no dey here ooo....#Thankful |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by nbright: 1:46pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
If she had a house before we met and I don't... Why won't I live in the house?. If we both had houses before meeting, we will choose the house that is conduicive to us and our future kids, proximity to our places of work, etc. If she didn't have a house before wet met and she wanted to buy/build a house, she'd have to notify me first before she buy/build... Afterall we are 1 in the sight of GOD... I am all for female empowerment as long as they respect their husbands and are faithful |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by Twinmama(f): 2:15pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Law-confessor:thanks jare, wat about women dat studied Civil Engineering, Elect elect, Architecture, Quantity survey etc. Dont mind those look down on women jare |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by ojiefi: 12:41pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
THIEF!!! THIEF!!! THIEF!!!! LAZY MAN !!!! LAZY MAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stan4b: If my wife will put my name as d owner of d house,den dere is no p. |
Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by ojiefi: 12:47pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
THANK YOU. YOU ARE A GOOD MAN. nbright: If she had a house before we met and I don't... Why won't I live in the house?. If we both had houses before meeting, we will choose the house that is conduicive to us and our future kids, proximity to our places of work, etc. If she didn't have a house before wet met and she wanted to buy/build a house, she'd have to notify me first before she buy/build... Afterall we are 1 in the sight of GOD... I am all for female empowerment as long as they respect their husbands and are faithful 2 Likes |
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