As a follow up to my last post 81 Ways To Win Your Husband's Love https://www.nairaland.com/1485194/81-ways-win-husbands-love, I deem it necessary to share this too.

I wish to state that the content of lists such as this are just suggestions, and not binding on any one and may not work in all circumstances. The last post was seen as too long and as subjecting the wife to the husband.

But can tips on a successful life contract be too long?

Someone's comment suggests that she cant fake/act most of the points suggested just to please her husband. But when the marriage is head for the rocks, we would be forced to even over act the 81 points.

NOW EVERY RESPONSIBLE MAN SHOULD READ THIS:

Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
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Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.(But Yours is just awesome)

Love her…when she looks disheveled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change. Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her.... when she is not in the mood to be with you in bed.. She is only keeping you for a more pleasurable one next time

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new clothe anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive carefully. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both of you

Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!

?Love her…When there is no reason to love Her, the love her Most JUST BECAUSE SHE IS YOUR WIFE

All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.

• Treat the women well!!!
May Allah bless us all and make all the husbands treat their woman right! AMEEEEN