One thing I have been capable to put across to my readers, particularly in this column is that the primary needs of husbands as well as wives differ due to the way God wired them. For a man, his greatest require is respect, while for a woman, her greatest need is love. The complaints of wives about their husbands not being caring or giving them attention is simply a cry for love. While on the other hand, the husbands’ remark that ‘Are you talking to me like that?” is a cry for respect. It is their failure to meet each other’s needs that often lead to issues between husband and wife - See more at:http://classicunit.com/?p=232