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Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by NEROSKY(m): 3:38pm On Oct 27, 2013
MISTAKES GIRLS MAKE THAT RUIN
RELATIONSHIPS
If the perfect boyfriend really did exist, every girl
has her own idea of what he would be like. But
the average guy is, well, just a guy. And often
times, girls make these common mistakes while
in a relationship with the “perfect” guy for them,
but end up losing him. Here’s a list of mistakes
that you want to avoid when you’re considering
a long-term relationship with that special
someone.

1. Trying to change your partner.

Sure, it would be absolutely amazing if he
changed that one little thing, and you would be
so happy, right?
Wrong.
Because what might be little to you, is actually
quite big to him. This will make your guy feel
like you don’t love him for who he is, and trying
to change him will only create a certain level of
resentment and maybe even raise some
concerns that he may not be able to fulfill all
your desires, and you’ll only love the person you
want him to be.

2. Thinking you’re not “good enough” for him.

We’re all human. And humans are not perfect,
and we probably will never be. But that’s the
beauty of life. Could you imagine how hard it
would be to maintain perfection your WHOLE
life? No matter how amazing you think your
boyfriend is, you should always feel that you are
just as amazing.
Put it like this: He wouldn’t be with you, or fight
with you to make it work, if you weren’t up to
par. Love is a very important part of any strong
relationship, and in order to love someone, you
must also love yourself.

3. Assuming he knows how you feel without
telling him.

Guys are not mind-readers. They won’t
automatically know how you’re feeling inside if
you don’t make even the slightest effort to
inform them. OK, so you don’t want to have to
verbally tell your guy that he did something
wrong, or that you’re sad about something else
that happened in your life.
That’s completely understandable.
But when you expect him to just know and get
mad at him for not understanding you, that’s
where the tension begins. Guys don’t enjoy
feeling helpless and confused. And if he has to
struggle to get you to communicate with him
clearly, he will eventually give up and look for
someone that is honest and straightforward.

4. “He’s my boyfriend. It’s his job to make me
happy.”

A good boyfriend should be doing everything in
his power to make you the happiest girl in the
world. However, you should not rely on anyone
else to supply you with happiness. At the end of
the day, it’s a choice that you make and not
something that can be given to you in exchange
for love.
Sometimes, you have to sit back and figure out
exactly what’s bothering you, and instead of
blaming your guy, try to share these feelings
with him. Give him a chance to help you cope
with these issues, because he probably won’t be
able to fix them (at least not all of them,
anyway.)
But if he’s supportive and wants to be with you
and cares about your happiness, this is usually
enough motivation for you to say, “Hey, I have a
good guy. Why should I worry about the things
that I can’t control?” You’d be surprised how
strong a relationship can be when you focus on
the positive aspects.

5. Believing that he just doesn’t want to talk
about anything.

It’s a known fact that women love to talk. But
believe it or not, guys are actually even more
sensitive than women! However, most guys
won’t just open up to anyone, even if you’ve
been in a relationship for a long time.
The mood, the environment, the situation —
things just have to be right.
He will talk to you about almost everything as
long as you understand how to make each other
comfortable enough to trust and communicate
on that level of intimacy. Yes, it sounds like a
lot of work, but relationships are all about
learning, understanding and appreciating the
efforts that you two make to create that special
bond.
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 27, 2013
On point

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Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 27, 2013
Ehn ehn
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by NEROSKY(m): 3:54pm On Oct 27, 2013
Harbosede02: Ehn ehn
Note & save that on your internal memory grin
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by zeb04(f): 4:01pm On Oct 27, 2013
All I see is mistake gals make,I ve neva seen mistaks guys make yl in reality all I see is gud guys tryin 2 make their patners happy

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Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by NEROSKY(m): 4:09pm On Oct 27, 2013
zeb04: All I see is mistake gals make,I ve neva seen mistaks guys make yl in reality all I see is gud guys tryin 2 make their patners happy

Believe me as soon as this post makes the front page, I will post that which you want, #NoSentiment tongue grin
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by toms55(m): 4:33pm On Oct 27, 2013
Your so so right! Number 3&5 are things my Gf does always nd it can be so so annoying..i'll ask her a question like 'wats wrong U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ nt sounding happy' and her response would be 'nufin' yet she won't stop sounding Τ̅ђat way angry angry

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Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by Nobody: 8:28pm On Oct 27, 2013
hmmm

Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by NEROSKY(m): 4:03pm On Nov 08, 2013
toms55: Your so so right! Number 3&5 are things my Gf does always nd it can be so so annoying..i'll ask her a question like 'wats wrong U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ nt sounding happy' and her response would be 'nufin' yet she won't stop sounding Τ̅ђat way angry angry
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by NEROSKY(m): 4:04pm On Nov 08, 2013
Why has this not gotten to fp?
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by Qsscruz(m): 9:57pm On Nov 08, 2013
Expecting him to buy what your father cannot afford... Most girls in relationships feel that their boyfriends are Jesus that would take care of all their needs forgetting that the lord helps those who help themselves..

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Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by njuwo(m): 10:26pm On Nov 08, 2013
Touching Story.
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by Odunharry(m): 1:26am On Nov 09, 2013
Qsscruz: Expecting him to buy what your father cannot afford... Most girls in relationships feel that their boyfriends are Jesus that would take care of all their needs forgetting that the lord helps those who help themselves..
falls 4m pawpaw tree
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by NEROSKY(m): 7:33pm On Nov 11, 2013
Odunharry: falls 4m pawpaw tree
Why not from trailer
Re: Mistakes Girls Make That Ruin Relationships by Cfans: 2:04pm On Nov 16, 2013
NEROSKY but u funny oo na u post say u be witch woman wey u wan kill ur family u funny o

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