Mondisweets: im not naive i just wanted to know if you have dated a man who doesn't use his third leg to make decisions and runs away from the consequences of his actions thats all

chineloSA:

All men do. But I take control of my relationship form the beginning

Mondisweets: does a woman get pregnant without having sex with a man? How is it being selfish when she is not the only one engaged in the sexxx? I'm not too sensitive... Okay have u been in a relationship with a man who doesn't think with his dicck before?

Mondisweets: i guess you are judging from the ones you have encountered its cool. Okay now i understand why you reason that way

Triciana gal:

Thank you, women are indeed our our worst enemies. So 2 adults have unprotected sex and someone is trying to put the blame on the woman alone like the man has no brain. By the way in today's world the women with kids outside marriage also get married later like their male counterparts. Ultimately it takes 2 to bring a child into this world and once a couple has unprotected sex and it results in pregnancy their is little a woman can do except she is proposing abortion which is worse. Making excuses for men not thinking is crap because the same way he can end up with an unwanted baby is the way he can end up with STDs , so abeg both the men and women need to be smarter.

chineloSA:

All men do. But I take control of my relationship form the beginning

I don't use emotions to make decisions, I use my head. I have never had a man running away from me. I am always the one to run away from a man.

NOT all MEN think with their "thing" --- definitely not me honey!

Inasmuch we all like it , thinking with it is rather too extreme.
Generalisations and stereotypes such as these makes women vulnerable to men antics.

Since they "assume" such generalisations to be true , they play the victim

chineloSA:

A man does not hold a gun against your head and ask a woman to make a baby with him. You still have your right to exercise. Good you said both of you are adults, so as a woman use your adult brain. If you don't want a baby don't make a baby If you don't want an STD insist on a condom. A man will always make silly suggestions, that does not mean comply and later on come play victim.

chineloSA:

I guess its your "selective understanding" I also read naivity in you.

Its your life, you will learn

Triciana gal:

Thank you, women are indeed our our worst enemies.

BarryX: NOT all MEN think with their "thing" --- definitely not me honey!

Inasmuch we all like it , thinking with it is rather too extreme.
Generalisations and stereotypes such as these makes women vulnerable to men antics.

Since they "assume" such generalisations to be true , they play the victim

Mondisweets: i have been with a fair share of bad men before, until i found someone who is good, at first i always thought he was too good to be true and every single time i always thought that he was trying to deceive me by being nice until i realised he genuinely is nice call it being naive but that man makes me happy every single day. He isn't one of those guys who when u argue with will leave you to be with another woman because he thinks you nag, he is that guy who is willingly to work things out, even when I'm the one who is wrong, he puts his pride aside and we discuss how we can avoid the same thing from happening.
Not all man think with theirs assses and not all men run away from their responsibilities. Once you have a good man to show you this, you will be able to understand

chineloSA:

A man does not hold a gun against your head and ask a woman to make a baby with him. You still have your right to exercise. Good you said both of you are adults, so as a woman use your adult brain. If you don't want a baby don't make a baby If you don't want an STD insist on a condom. A man will always make silly suggestions, that does not mean comply and later on come play victim.

chineloSA:

Good for you

BarryX: I agree with this ! Women should be more assertive and expressive not being gullible

Mondisweets: make sure your "wife material self" ends up with a man who deserves you

chineloSA:

Are you a "HE" or "HE/SHE"

I'm a HE that likes a real SHE

BarryX: I'm a HE that likes a real SHE

chineloSA:

Thank God, I was beginning to doubt

Doubt my gender
I've a handful pack down there well aligned like a dietery banana and two apples ONLY for a honeypot

So proud of it !!

BarryX: Doubt my gender
I've a handful pack down there well aligned like a dietery banana and two apples ONLY for a honeypot

So proud of it !!

chineloSA:

U dey craze

Is your banana and apples working well well? HE/SHE got them too.

Talking of Naturals here

BarryX: Talking of Naturals here