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Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Kanwulia: 7:54am On Nov 13, 2013 |
Go to ALL RADIO,TV, NEWSPAPER OUTLETS AND YOUR CHURCHES TO MAKE THE ANNOUNCEMENT public! Simple!!!! Trust moi, people will be too busy gossiping to ask you questions. Let the aso-ebis be consolation GIFT! PAY EVERYONE THAT HAS COLLECTED aso-ebi. Pay all musical, catering, fashion, church and souvenir vendors ALL THEY ARE DUE!!! Then treat yourself to a SOLO HONEYMOON! I would! Better to call it off NOW, than walk into a life of misery ahead! |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by baralatie(m): 8:53am On Nov 13, 2013 |
ipasco: That may not be completely ruled out but technically its beyound that.dont cancel dat wedding!calm down! |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by ifyalways(f): 8:56am On Nov 13, 2013 |
Chinwem:Yes, ofcourse, cancellation fees apply. OP should get atleast 50% refund from the events center,refreshment (cake,drinks and food). @OP,how far? If you happen not to get refund from your wedding planners we could convert this to a Christmas party for the less privileged. There's a fortune in every misfortune. Contact me if its do-able. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by baralatie(m): 9:29am On Nov 13, 2013 |
baralatie: |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by ipasco: 9:40am On Nov 13, 2013 |
Its already canceled, just asking hw to go about breaking The news baralatie: |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by baralatie(m): 10:28am On Nov 13, 2013 |
ipasco: Its already canceled, just asking hw to go about breaking The newsplease accept my apologis.it must av been a hard decision.take heart! it is well! |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by chineloSA(f): 10:36am On Nov 13, 2013 |
ipasco: Its already canceled, just asking hw to go about breaking The news Since its cancelled, then its easy.Send your parents na, to the girls parents. Give them a letter for her parents and ask them to ask their daughter to explain what happened. Don't go there yourself, initially. Let her explain first Have a " BIG CHEER ME UP" party afterwards All the best |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by samocci012: 3:11pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
My broda OP to b honest don't cancel d wedding go ahead wt it once u r tru file for d devorce sikina no skin pain and den give ur reason for d devorce no go let ppl wey don plan to come eat rice n chicken vex for u ooo God go help u |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by packman: 3:11pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
11 Kanwulia: Go to ALL RADIO,TV, NEWSPAPER OUTLETS AND YOUR CHURCHES TO MAKE THE ANNOUNCEMENT public! Simple!!!! [size=20pt]I FEEL YOU BRO.... GO TO DSTV HITV....MYTV SATELITE FACEBOOK NAIRALAND TWITTER LINDAIKEJIBLOG E.T.C AND MAKE THE ANNOUNCEMENT[/size] ;DD ;DD ;DD ;DD |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by MsNas(f): 3:15pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
samocci012: My broda OP to b honest don't cancel d wedding go ahead wt it once u r tru file for d devorce sikina no skin pain and den give ur reason for d devorce no go let ppl wey don plan to come eat rice n chicken vex for u ooo God go help uWhat the hell did you just write? Is this English or French? Damn OP, since the wedding is off....just do the honorable and inform her parents yourself. Give them that last respect and take time to answer their questions. Trust me, they will ask a LOT of questions, so brace yourself for that. Inform every other person you invited about the cancellation via sms, as someone said, they will be too busy gossiping to ask you questions. As per the Aso Ebi part, I doubt if anybody will ask for a refund for that. I personally won't as I can still wear the material other times. Pele Sogbo? |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by 4reigningqueen: 3:19pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
why not try bulk sms, i heard its cheap. |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by itodoho(m): 3:25pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
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Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
let it be a parent to parent thingy. Don't go talking to her...She would never understand. The decision to cancel is best known to you and your God. A broken relationship is better than a broken home. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Fadelex(m): 3:28pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
na wash joor... this is a copy and paste story from Linda ikeji blog... even Linda form d story just to drive traffic to her blog... **back to my garri and kulikuli** |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by PrinceJustice(m): 3:43pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Hope you have not paid her Bride Price? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by MissOpe(f): 3:48pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
OP. I feel u can still sort out your issues with you Ex-Fiance..... except If it's the case of Infidelity.....I don't Think cancelling the wedding will be a good Idea as I suppose U've invested a whole lot into that relationship...Cheers |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by braine(m): 3:53pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
I desperately want to know what broke the wedding• 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by funshybam(m): 4:14pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
chineloSA: very good suggestion. I'm also faced with a similar situation with my baby mama... the gurl too refused to communicate with her people....still on it though, but this was the same advise I got from my counsellor.... It made alot of sense 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Kjking(m): 4:14pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Sumtyms i wonder wat courtship is meant for? Bro, its simple, d same way u invited them shud be the same way u un-invite them. Let her also do same to the people she invited |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by anselm791(m): 4:16pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Honestly am I the only one itching to know what really happened? I mean op proposed, sent out IVs, asoebi and just decides to end it? Well as to your question, just click 'options' then enter 'cancel'. Lol. What were you expecting? If you're smart enough to propose then cancelling shouldn't be a problem. |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
ipasco: From a male readerI know how you feel bro. I once dated a rabid dog and nearly married her. Thank God my eyes later got cleared. I suggest you go with your parents, uncles or whoever you went with for introduction, and announce the cancellation. Don't be a boy about this, doing it by yourself is a good way to start. Atimes I wonder if what we have today are ladies or chameleons |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
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Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by ruffhandu: 4:30pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
If you have a reason not to walk into a marriage, it is better you call it off, even if it is 30mins before the priest joins you in matrimony, than think of divorce. It is God that has delivered you from this. It is honorable you inform her people, if you cannot man that face-to-face, do it over the phone. Better you explain your reason, but if you cannot man up to that too, then say something like "please am too overwhelmed (or look for another grammer according to your mood) to utter this, please ask her, she will be in a better position to explain". If for any reason you couldn't conclude the talk with them (especially the father), so long as you've registered your intention, you may blank out, let them do the research. Call your tightest friends and inform them. If you feel responsible for all your contacts you had sent SMS to, send another SMS and say something like "am sory to in4m u dat my wedding has bn shifted, u'll b informed of d new date". Invite them when you're finally getting married. Let me not talk about how you'll recover some recoverables since you only want to know how to cancel for now. God give you the strength and courage to sail through such difficult times. |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
He probably realized the girl he wants to marry is a wh*ore! |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by ruffhandu: 4:59pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
engineerd: He probably realized the girl he wants to marry is a wh*ore! Most likely. |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by shikenosa: 5:03pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
U guys are jez advisin without even findin out wat actuali hapnd...how person go offer solution wen hin no sabi problem...u guyz dnt even knw if d girl is innocent...naso una go spoil d girl life wit una yeye advise 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by jendy126: 5:08pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
So sad,dnt knw wht to say |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by Wallade(m): 5:25pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
You seem to need psychological evaluation. Why do you want to cancel the wedding, I can only advice when I can excuse your reasons. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by emilyone(f): 5:54pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
OP could you please tell us why you want to cancel your wedding 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by begwong: 6:19pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Just draft another counter letter of wedding cancellation and give everyone you had earlier given the invite. Dont forget to send same to the media houses that aired your invitations. |
Re: How Do You Cancel A Wedding You Have Already Paid For? by nannymcphee(f): 6:22pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Pls when going over to her parents house, go with able bodied men or plain clothes police, just incase they want to act funny. Regardless of who was at fault it's a shame to both families so u can't tell how they will react pls it will be beneficial for the house to know what happened, so that one can learn, but I hope it has nothing to do with these events In apr, u posted this www.nairaland.com/1267302/quick-expulsion-weak-sperm-pls In may, u posted this www.nairaland.com/1277940/dear-nairalanders-no-desire-sex in all, your greatest challenge will be the physcological effect of a cancelled marriage coupled with ur ability to bounce back |
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