The best way to revenge is not to be like the person who caused the pains but instead let go and let God,though feelings of the pains make you want to revenge, perhaps it has a left a permanent scar that triggers a very fresh memory of the person who caused d pains and now you are in d position to revenge cos to u, revenge is justice, u feel revenge wil make u get ur own pound of flesh, come to think of it, will revenge heal d wound?, will it ease the pains?, will it remove d scar? Will it reverse time? No it wont, instead revenge will only start another chain of revenge that can run from one generation to another. If Jesus were to be in your shoes, will He revenge?. I pray that God will heal the wounds of the past that causes pains for our now and d future, amen. maranatha...He cometh soon.