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| Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by dannydaniels(m): 11:27am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Please my fellow NL I need advices please.....am a guy from an average family and A̶̲̥̅๓ still i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ school so A̶̲̥̅๓ not working...M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ girlfriend is also i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ school but due to the strike issue....she has been working i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ one big company of her rich family friend...she ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ Paid ℓi̶̲̥̅ke̶̲̥̅ 50k monthly and she has enough access †☺ their money...because the man trusts her and likes her a lot...she has up †☺ 200k i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ her account..but the problem ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ A̶̲̥̅๓ not working and M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ parents aint helping matters...S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ A̶̲̥̅๓ damn broke...but I have dis feeling of askin her Fø̲̣̣я money but I dunno h̶̲̥̅̊ o̶̲̥̅̊ ϖ....ȋ̝̊†̥ ȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ look A̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ if A̶̲̥̅๓ a parasite...because av neva bought her things and moreova she has anything she needs....just yesterday she called M̶̲̅ε̲̣ and told M̶̲̅ε̲̣ that I'll ß̲є̲ escorting her today †☺ buy a new fon....her boss gave her 30k Fø̲̣̣я a new fone..since the one shez using has problem.....though I KϞ☺ω A̶̲̥̅๓ the one supposed †☺ provide the fone...but I feel somehow...and also going there with her I need †☺ pay the transport fares †☺ the plce but mehn A̶̲̥̅๓ damn broke...M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ main problem ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ H̶̲̥̅̊ o̶̲̥̅̊ ϖ I can start askin her for money...Fø̲̣̣я the fact that shez M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ gf...or ȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ ȋ̝̊†̥ look A̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ if A̶̲̥̅๓ a goldigger |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by dannydaniels(m): 11:31am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Pls I need answers...N̶̲̥̅̊☺ insults please....A̶̲̥̅๓ not forcing anyone †☺ comment please,..........MOD's please I wish I can get replies fast |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by borntobegr8t(m): 11:36am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Nigga, u no get girlfriend again, the Oga at the top don dey sample her, she wants to buy a new fone,I can guarantee u, u wont have her new numba .#speaking from experience # |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Lumpyy(f): 11:36am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Hmmmm,how sure are you dt its her boss dt gives her dt much money?then is she aware of your financial status?u dont need to ask before she gives you if she knows you are broke oo! |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by demelza: 11:41am On Nov 21, 2013 |
You want us to tell you how to ask for money from your girlfriend? Whereas you have never given her anything before. Kai! |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Be content with what you have! You can also look for a job if you need money that badly! Leave your girlfriend and her money alone! |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 21, 2013 |
So??wat do u want us to do abt it?if u aren't hapi dat ur gf is richer dan u,then dump ha,watz d gurl doin wif sum1 lyk u sef?mtchewwu |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by borntobegr8t(m): 11:47am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Harbosede02: So??wat do u want us to do abt it?if u aren't hapi dat ur gf is richer dan u,then dump ha,watz d gurl doin wif sum1 lyk u sef?mtchewwuI have neva seen a nice comment from this babe before,  this is serious  3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by deflover(m): 11:50am On Nov 21, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: guess hate is the middle name from dem gals as expiring date dey near  |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by dannydaniels(m): 11:51am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Please...its not A̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ if I don't wanna work, but A̶̲̥̅๓ helping M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dad i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ his shop.he's a trader S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I can't leave M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dads shop and start working,and d worst part ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ That I can't swerve M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dad..everything ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ Been taking account of...S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I don't have any means of income... Harbosede02: So??wat do u want us to do abt it?if u aren't hapi dat ur gf is richer dan u,then dump ha,watz d gurl doin wif sum1 lyk u sef?mtchewwuPlease...its not A̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ if I don't wanna work, but A̶̲̥̅๓ helping M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dad i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ his shop.he's a trader S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I can't leave M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dads shop and start working,and d worst part ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ That I can't swerve M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dad..everything ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ Been taking account of...S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I don't have any means of income... |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:57am On Nov 21, 2013 |
dannydaniels: Please...its not A̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ if I don't wanna work, but A̶̲̥̅๓ helping M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dad i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ his shop.he's a trader S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I can't leave M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dads shop and start working,and d worst part ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ Contentment, dude! Be content with the little you have. Besides, i bliv ur parents give you the basic things you need...what do you need the money for anywayz? Just assume ur gf doesn't av the money, won't u survive? And yes,asking her for her money makes you a gold-digger! |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Dygeasy(m): 11:58am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Harbosede02: So??wat do u want us to do abt it?if u aren't hapi dat ur gf is richer dan u,then dump ha,watz d gurl doin wif sum1 lyk u sef?mtchewwuBose Kai! What Is Always Wrong With You? You Just Take Everything Nad Turn It Upside Down. Which Part Of The Post Don't You Understand? born_to_be_gr8t:I Tire. I Try To Imagine How She Does Her Face While Posting A Comment. If She's Like This In Real Life Odikwa Risky. You Must Not Cross Paths With Her.*runs out of thread* |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by demelza: 11:58am On Nov 21, 2013 |
dannydaniels: Please...its not A̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ if I don't wanna work, but A̶̲̥̅๓ helping M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dad i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ his shop.he's a trader S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I can't leave M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dads shop and start working,and d worst part ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋What if this girl never had that job, what will you do then? You come here complaining of being cash-strapped, since you have survived this long without any aid, why dont you continue the formula! Leave this girl and her money alone. If you really need money, you would look for a way to get it abi are you not a guy? Stop using your parents as an excuse. |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Dygeasy: Bose Kai!wetin i do nw??d guy na olojukokoro!jst tryin 2 let im knw |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by UjSizzle(f): 12:08pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
So a man is considered a gold digger for asking his gf for money and a girl isn't when she's doing the asking. #Noted. OP, i think you are only uncomfortable with this because you have never given her a thing. So pls tell me, why do you want to start benefiting from her when you have never extended the same privilege to her? I find that quite selfish. That her folks are rich doesn't mean you can't even give her a toothbrush. It's not what item you buy that matters, but the thought that matters. At to your dilemma, just tell her you are broke. I have male friends who tell me the same and i give them money and buy them lunch...no biggie. She's your girlfriend, let her know you have nothing on you. Get a job of your own. Your dad survived while you were away in school. You could help him after work hours or in the weekend...no one will hold that against you. You are simply a man trying to find his own way. And please DO NOT make it a habit of asking her for money, your pride is at stake here. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:16pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Can't even read what the OP wrote.  Wonder why he'd be designing his post when he needs help. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Dygeasy(m): 12:33pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Harbosede02: wetin i do nw??d guy na olojukokoro!jst tryin 2 let im knwKai! You Tho |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Smartiegurl(f): 12:49pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Ok, just tell her....sweetheart please i need some money. She won't hesitate at all to give u some cash. Werey!! U dey design ur post make we pity you abi wetin! Be a man buddy! |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by toria1980(f): 12:54pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
@Op u are a gold digger, ole olojukokoro..u jst want her to give u money for no reason? I swear i want to knock dat ur head dat is not correct! Is men like u dat live on women woman. Wrapper,u have not bought her anything before and u wnt. To ask her for money, What is d that industrious baby doing a lazy boy like u self? Well i trust dat in no time she will dump ur dome ass where its belong |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by toria1980(f): 12:56pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Harbosede02: So??wat do u want us to do abt it?if u aren't hapi dat ur gf is richer dan u,then dump ha,watz d gurl doin wif sum1 lyk u sef?mtchewwu 100 likes |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by sauceEEP(m): 1:33pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
can't even read what the op spewed up there.  |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by EejaNla01(m): 2:14pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Nawao, see the rxns from ladies above ,When we say guys should work and pray hard to be atleast "ok",its some of your fellow guts that ill first castigate you, Op,be contentment with what you have,you can only ask her to assist you on congent and important situations,strive and be a better Man. And the oga @ the top giving her money for phone.  |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by dannydaniels(m): 2:34pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
(For those who ddnt understand the 1st post)Please my fellow NL I need advices please.....am a guy from an average family and am still in school so am not working...my girlfriend is also in school but due to the strike issue....she has been working in one big company of her rich family friend...she is Paid like 50k monthly and she has enough access to their money...because the man trusts her and likes her a lot...she has up to 200k in her account..but the problem is Am not working and my parents aint helping matters...so am damn broke...but I have dis feeling of askin her for money but I dunno how....it will look as if am a parasite...because am not used to buying her things and she dosent ask me for anything....not even rechargecard and moreova she has anything she needs....just yesterday she called me and told me that I'll be escorting her today to buy a new fon....her boss gave her 30k for a new fone..since the one shez using has problem.....though I know am the one supposed to provide the fone...but I feel somehow...and also going there with her I need to pay the transport fares to the plce but mehn am damn broke..my main problem how I can start askin her for money...For the fact that shez my gf...or will it look as if am a goldigger.(This version is for those whu were not seeing what was posted)......please its not as if I don't buy her things....its just D̶̲̥̅̊aτ̲̅ I don't do it often |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Rummenigge(m): 3:18pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: So a man is considered a gold digger for asking his gf for money and a girl isn't when she's doing the asking. #Noted. |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:59pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
What the OP said is not wrong,but just the way he said it(Makes him sound puerile).I help out my male frnds wen I can,no biggie dere All dese ladies bashing him nw will stil come nd preach gender equality lata on.. If a girl can ask fr money frm a guy,den y can't d guy ask fr money frm his babe? Op as long as u don't make it a habit,den u can.Na wa for ur babe sef she shld be sensitive enof 2 knw u're broke nd help out. Pls no one shld quote me nd say sh!!t...U wnt like my response Peace 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: Nigga, u no get girlfriend again, the Oga at the top don dey sample her, she wants to buy a new fone,I can guarantee u, u wont have her new numba .#speaking from experience #
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| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
idnoble135: Can't even read what the OP wrote. |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Ugom38(f): 4:36pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
the post and the op needs help,who writes lyk dis in dis generation and expects ansas.ewu  |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by UjSizzle(f): 4:45pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
It's a blackberry thing. |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by Sharingan: 4:50pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Dat ur gf sef eh.Am sure she obviously noticed the OP was broke bt decided to turn a blind eye to it.Simple things like "babe am sorry i no call u,i no gt airtym 4 fone,even i neva recharge sinc lastweek" should be enough i suppose....she rather would smartly laugh and go,"how was ur day?" like she dont already know your day was terrible..she doesnt seem to care enough to notice you're broke.BTW your gf should nt really ask 4 anything b4 you give her sometin,cos am sure if u had as much as bought her #50 tissue it wouldnt b so awkward to ask her for some kinda assitance.. |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by yemmit90: 5:15pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Relationship Is not for the broke or jobless guys. @op, you sef dull. You don't need to ask her for money, just tell her you're broke, and if she like you she would offer to give you some money. |
| Re: Help!!!!!...i Need To Start Benefiting. From My Girlfriend by ednut1(m): 5:30pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
sorry u no get gf, oga don shine her puci tire |
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