Helo frnds. Pls I nid ur advise on ds isue that has caused me sleepless nights. I hav bin dating this young girl for 2 yrs now. In Sept this yr, she said we shld get married nxt yr or atmost in 2015. I told her I wont be redy and we parted. She came bak last wik apologizin and we startd all over again. The prblm nw is dat ystday she called that shes confused. She said she'd acepted a proposal wen we seperated bt came bak 2 me havin realisd my ril lov 4 her. Nw she said she dosnt want 2 hurt eithr of us dat shes confused. Wat shld I do plz? Is it posibl 2 lov a guy she met jst 2 months ago dat much, or has she bin seein him all d while we're 2geda?

Looks to me like u don't av a girlfriend. If she really loves u, choosing between u two wouldnt be a problem.#justmytot#

the new guy has giving her his big D aka Big bura so the thing is confusing her cuz the guy knows how to do it better than you

Barryp: Helo frnds. Pls I nid ur advise on ds isue that has caused me sleepless nights. I hav bin dating this young girl for 2 yrs now. In Sept this yr, she said we shld get married nxt yr or atmost in 2015. I told her I wont be redy and we parted. She came bak last wik apologizin and we startd all over again. The prblm nw is dat ystday she called that shes confused. She said she'd acepted a proposal wen we seperated bt came bak 2 me havin realisd my ril lov 4 her. Nw she said she dosnt want 2 hurt eithr of us dat shes confused. Wat shld I do plz? Is it posibl 2 lov a guy she met jst 2 months ago dat much, or has she bin seein him all d while we're 2geda?

I can see you are quite young hence not yet ready for the intricacies of a relationship. Conserve your energy for your studies and also take to sports as a means of blowing out those excess energies you would have channeled through your third leg. You get your own lady at the right time..

bennyraz: the new guy has giving her his big D aka Big bura so the thing is confusing her cuz the guy knows how to do it better than you

Funny. Abeg shes stil a virgin o. Guyz, shes bin calling since last nyt bt I refused 2 pik. Jst dnt knw wat 2 tell her. I cant adopt ds strategy 4 2 long though, dats why I nid ur hlp

Barryp: Funny. Abeg shes stil a virgin o. Guyz, shes bin calling since last nyt bt I refused 2 pik. Jst dnt knw wat 2 tell her. I cant adopt ds strategy 4 2 long though, dats why I nid ur hlp

whats so hard for her to choose between you and the other guy? As for me, i will tell you to let her go. Since she is still confused, she left and came back. She will one day leave u again. Guy use ur head

Barryp: Helo frnds. Pls I nid ur advise on ds isue that has caused me sleepless nights. I hav bin dating this young girl for 2 yrs now. In Sept this yr, she said we shld get married nxt yr or atmost in 2015. I told her I wont be redy and we parted. She came bak last wik apologizin and we startd all over again. The prblm nw is dat ystday she called that shes confused. She said she'd acepted a proposal wen we seperated bt came bak 2 me havin realisd my ril lov 4 her. Nw she said she dosnt want 2 hurt eithr of us dat shes confused. Wat shld I do plz? Is it posibl 2 lov a guy she met jst 2 months ago dat much, or has she bin seein him all d while we're 2geda?

She wants to get married SOON. If you don't get ready SOON, she'll leave you again!
You both must be on the same page to be able to work something out!

Barryp: Funny. Abeg shes stil a virgin o. Guyz, shes bin calling since last nyt bt I refused 2 pik. Jst dnt knw wat 2 tell her. I cant adopt ds strategy 4 2 long though, dats why I nid ur hlp

well,she is not a virgin!
She is receiving serious enlightment programe and as a result she is confused.

I,don't think she's a virgin abi guy you be learner??
she's desperate for marriage you need to withdraw from her.
you need to withdraw from her not because you wanna avoid her passing her desperation on you but because you need to obey the gent's rule

when another man is with your woman, don't struggle for her but let him keep her

before you do that, consider the fact she's straight forward... Those kinda ladies are hard to come by.

Guy, if you really love this babe you would do well to convince her why you should be her man. The choice is up to her. Sidetalk: And some feminists complain men have too much power

Tnx pple 4 ur advice. Well, I jst spoke with her 2 ask her several questns. She insisted dat she loves me diply. Also, 4rm her responses, its obvious dat d only cord btw her and my rival is MARRIAGE. Anoda advantage d guy has over me is d fact dat both of dem are in d same state while am far away. Hopefuly by xmas, I shall see her face 2 face.

That's the problem you face when you date village girls, them want marry quick because its tym!

Barryp: Tnx pple 4 ur advice. Well, I jst spoke with her 2 ask her several questns. She insisted dat she loves me diply. Also, 4rm her responses, its obvious dat d only cord btw her and my rival is MARRIAGE. Anoda advantage d guy has over me is d fact dat both of dem are in d same state while am far away. Hopefuly by xmas, I shall see her face 2 face.

Bro step back and look at your situation for a second, if she loves you deeply will she be considering spending the rest of her life with another man who she just met? Apart from jokes, the guy is probably blowing her, how sure are you that she is a virgin? especially since this is all happening while your away in another state, most likely she cheated on you, is cheating or about to cheat, as she has stated by saying how confused she is. I suggest you dump her and cut off contact with her....how can any self respecting man fight for a girl who uve been in a relationship with for 2 years and now wants to leave you (to get married) to a guy she met 2 months ago? dump her asap

JayFK:

Bro step back and look at your situation for a second, if she loves you deeply will she be considering spending the rest of her life with another man who she just met? Apart from jokes, the guy is probably blowing her, how sure are you that she is a virgin? especially since this is all happening while your away in another state, most likely she cheated on you, is cheating or about to cheat, as she has stated by saying how confused she is. I suggest you dump her and cut off contact with her....how can any self respecting man fight for a girl who uve been in a relationship with for 2 years and now wants to leave you (to get married) to a guy she met 2 months ago? dump her asap

d guy no understand say dat d girl dey collected 2 shts so tey she begin confuse.
(becoz 4 phone she be virgin).d guy don sofa!

Alryt guyz, I appreciat all ur coments. They av been of tremendous help. @least I nw see tins 4rm a different perspectiv. I dey travel December go cut my share b4 finaly sayin UHURU! Lol