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Mister Dan: I started dating this chick right from my university days. Been a lot of ups and down but right now she doesn't seem like the right choice of a future partner cos of her crazy ways. i would be committing myself to a long life of pain and regrets if i toe that path. Pls how do i make the separation easy on her? Confused dude

You didn't know of her crazy ways for 1,2,3,4,5,6 & 7years.
SMH for you.
NB
Do unto others that which you will want them to do to you.
I ain't advocating that you should marry her by fire or force. Mba.
But watch your back after taking that decicion to take a walk.

If your only excuse is her crazy ways........it simple, av a mature discussion wit her abt It and am sure she wil mak d necessary adjustment..........communication is vital

PS:
Abeg y u no notice d crazy ways all des years, abi one new babe don show wey dey confuse u?

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Mister Dan: You wont understand till you get into my shoes.... this is a girl I caught cheating with a married man when she was serving which she claimed was as a result of loneliness....

.hmmmnn. I advice u leave her. Cheating is wot i cant stand

O.p has probably found a new, potential, wifey n suddenly she has stopped bin good enuf f him.
After 7 years

O.p abeg get real. Call her n tell her d truth. .

Don't know y some of nukkas like making guys out t be heartless jerks..not saying u are
Not saying u aren't either

Mister Dan: You wont understand till you get into my shoes.... this is a girl I caught cheating with a married man when she was serving which she claimed was as a result of loneliness.....

Hmmm..
Ok then..
But u should 've left her then..y wait till now
It just makes u out as wicked n inconsiderate
I.m.o sha

Mister Dan: You wont understand till you get into my shoes.... this is a girl I caught cheating with a married man when she was serving which she claimed was as a result of loneliness.....

In what year of the relationship did you catch her cheating? And why didn't you leave then?
I think this is a case of looking for any justifiable reason to take a walk. Bro, you need not justify anything. Afterall we don't know you.

Mister Dan: You wont understand till you get into my shoes.... this is a girl I caught cheating with a married man when she was serving which she claimed was as a result of loneliness.....

bros why did u throw in the towel as at then....

m not cajoling u to marry her but for u to av hold on to 7 years of someones life and u just tell her its over just lik dat i feel is not very gud.

and when u sucessfully do, just watch ur back..

but the issues u say u av with her, av u talked to her abt it.. and if u av did she show any atom of change??

is she making any conscious effort to change...

but as they say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

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Mister Dan: Ddnt leave then cos I thought I could forgive her misdeeds. I did and I think it gave her more nerves.....
I believe in second chances till they are messed up

Bro, it's your life. So live it the way you want. You already made up your mind, so why not man up and do the needful.

MissLirusehn: .hmmmnn. I advice u leave her. Cheating is wot i cant stand

and who in Lord Rahi's family is Mislirusehn?? LMfAO. Ur Siggy calls for suspicion.

Mister Dan: Ddnt leave then cos I thought I could forgive her misdeeds. I did and I think it gave her more nerves.....
I believe in second chances till they are messed up

Listen, no need for long story.

Just call off the engagement since you aren't interested anymore, and both of you go your separate ways.

Unless of course, you've got a hidden agenda up your sleeves.

lirusehn: and who in Lord Rahi's family is Mislirusehn?? LMfAO. Ur Siggy calls for suspicion.

lol. U madt gan o. No b only Rahi's family na poseidon's family

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MissLirusehn: lol. U madt gan o. No b only Rahi's family na poseidon's family

na u call poseidon join o. I nor dey joke with marine spirits. Buh wait o wotz d meaning of ur Lirusehn?

lirusehn: na u call poseidon join o. I nor dey joke with marine spirits. Buh wait o wotz d meaning of ur Lirusehn?

dnt tell me u scared o?

MissLirusehn: dnt tell me u scared o?

oya. Aint scared am bold. Answer ma questn ist.:/

you are annoying. You didnt notice in the first few years that she has crazy ways and you want to break up with her after 7 years?
Na this kind thing dey motivate chic to pour hot water on a guy

@ OP. Its pointless entering a marriage with baggages u can't cope with. Pls exit quietly by becoming less visible after telling her u want out and why it won't work. A long courtship is not a guarantee 4 a successful marriage. Thereafter retrieve all ur belongings, prayer harder n watch ur back. All d best.