Hi, everybody, i hav a problem, in fact i am not with my self here now, i just call my girl and she we not talk to me, is just like somebody is close to her, what do i do

relax boy, did y'all have any arguments?

well, firstly i need to Correct u bout Sumtin i saw in Ur post

i just call my girl and she we not talk to me

that Statement is wrong! the Correct thing is

I just Call[b]ed[/b] my gurl and She[b] would[/b] not talk to me.

Is that Clear??

lol @ rhoda, na wa

Call her and ask her @ topic

well, now, back to the topic,

it doesnt really mean She's seeing Someone else, She could just have been busy Or Sumtin, this is nothing to worry bout, really, it's not So just Chill Out and welcome to nl

U shouldnt Use the angry icon Considering the fact that this is your first post

@j-girl

rhoda, i ain't beefin u no more, okay baby!

Rhodalyn:

it's doesnt really mean She's seeing Someone else, She could just have been busy

'It doesn't' not It's doesn't

Rhodalyn:

Or Sumtin, this is nothing to worry bout, really, it's not So just[b] Cill [/b] Out and welcome to nl

Cill out? It's Chill out.
Is that clear?

You see nobody is above mistake. Rhoda, I'm just joking with you.

i just called her again and the phone is switch off, you can see

then go and see her, she might be busy

Lmao Skidoc U're paying me back in ma own Coin innit??

Chinda

I personally think U're Over-reacting tell me, U keep On Calling her continously innit that is gonna be real annoying! I Understand why she's Switched Off her fone, gurls hate it when U guys do that, Or at least Ur gurl and i do!! my boyfriend Used to do the Same thing and i got real pissed, it's really really annoying!

Once again, just Chill Out, she aint gonna leave ya it's just probs ya Calling too much is disturbing her

chinda75:

i just called her again and the phone is switch off, you can see

wats ur probs cant u go visiting who knows may be u hav offended her.

search ur self man

Some nigga is making her feel she's in cloud 9, she doesn't want to be disturbed.

Olumide7:

Some nigga is making her feel she's in cloud 9, she doesn't want to be disturbed.

wats d meaning of dis

all he means is that Some Other dude is f^^king her

that reminds me of afeni - brutally honest

u may have offended her, thats one point of view. I like to believe u called her and she just couldn't talk, If u have not had a quarell or something, ans she's old enough to talk with her boyfriend in the presence of family, Then she was definitely with someone else. Otherwise she should have a really good reason why she couldn't talk.
Nairaland girls will most likely take sides with the girl and ask u to chill out, But u need to look at it from all angles, and knowing the girl best, u will be in the best position to tell what would've been the case.

Best of luck!  

do  u Bleep her so so hard?
if not,then some other guy is fucking her hole .
if yes,she's relieving u of d stress n engaging someone.

abeg free d girl bo!!!

dremoney:

do u mess her so so hard?
if not,then some other guy is fucking her hole .
if yes,she's relieving u of d stress n engaging someone.

abeg free d girl bo!!!

sory "i mean Bleep not MESS".

THANK YOU NAIRALANDERS, u never fail to put a smile on my face, even when i am in the middle of a horrible day, i love ya'll

Now back to the topic, maybe she is frontin', is there something she wants that you have not been giving her?, ATTENTION, LOVING, TLC, etc, maybe this is her way to get ur attention, and boy oh boy has she got it!

or MAYBE she might actually be genuinely BUSY

I SOMETIMES DISLIKE THE WAY GUYS THINK THEY CAN HAVE A LIFE, BUT THE GIRL'S LIFE SHOULD REVOLVE AROUND THEM, LIKE ITS OK FOR U TO BRUSH HER OFF THE PHONE, BUT ITS NOT OK FOR HER TO DO IT, maybe she's just giving u a taste of ur own medicine

and believe me hun, if ur babe has half-a-brain cell, she no go answer ur call sef, if she were cheating on u. Infact, she go switch ooff the phone, hell i do it, (not when im cheating-cos i dont cheat), but if i am somewhere i know my guy wont be happy me being there or i dont want to be disturbed, d phone goes on silent/off, afterall my answerphone, says SORRY I AM UNAVAILABLE, IF ITS URGENT, LEAVE A MSG I WILL CALL U BACK

u r not married dats y ppl break up

sorry didnt read d thing but i get u but men r just show off in it d girl just ve 2 know wat she wants from em i guess

whitelexi: u may have offended her, thats one point of view. I like to believe u called her and she just couldn't talk, If u have not had a quarell or something, ans she's old enough to talk with her boyfriend in the presence of family, Then she was definitely with someone else. Otherwise she should have a really good reason why she couldn't talk.
Nairaland girls will most likely take sides with the girl and ask u to chill out, But u need to look at it from all angles, and knowing the girl best, u will be in the best position to tell what would've been the case.

Best of luck!  

I'm a girl on here and I for one believe that if the girl is ignoring the guy it's wrong and shouldn't be done. If the guy really cares then it will send him into a state of panic thinking that she is cheating or does not wish to be with him anymore.

My solution is one of three options. Give the girl a bit of space, go round and talk to her and find out the problem or end it. I'm not supporting the third option but it is one. Good luck

Rhodalyn: well, firstly i need to Correct u bout Sumtin i saw in Ur post



that Statement is wrong! the Correct thing is

I just Call[b]ed[/b] my gurl and She[b] would[/b] not talk to me.

Is that Clear??

j-girl:
then go and see her, she might be busy

givin a head, right?