Even though a penis is controlled by the
nervous system, it also has a mind of its own.
Erections can occur at random due to some
impulses firing from the brain during sleep and
that is why most mornings, men experience
‘morning glows.’ The penis is turgid without a
prior sexual arousal trigger. In fact, the penis
does not need the man’s brain before it
climaxes. It is basically the function of the
penis than the brain of the man. Orgasm
actually starts with the spine; the signal to
ejaculate is the result of muscle contractions
in the spinal cord and pelvis, not the brain. But
amazingly, simple things like having a rough day
at work can lead to a man not gaining an
erection for a week.
On average, adult penis typically measures
between four and six inches when flaccid and
six to nine inches when erect. So typically,
most joysticks are created equal in almost all
men. Human penis still weighs and looks bigger
than that of other animals. Many men worry so
much about the look of their penis but the
truth of the matter is curves are common in
penis. The vast majority of joysticks lean ever so
slightly to the left or right when erect (you
are probably just too distracted to notice).
However, some bend so dramatically (or curve
up or down) that having sex is almost
impossible. This is known as Peyronie’s Disease
and it happens when the penis doesn’t expand
evenly during a hard-on.
The structure of the penis does not help men
to finish slowly; rather they are programmed
to finish quickly. So wives, don’t take it
personal. One of the purposes of intercourse
for men is pleasure, then procreation. In fact,
85 per cent of men think of pleasure first
before procreation while having sex.
Penile rupture is very real; it tends to happen
mostly during vigorous sex and also overly
enthusiastic solo action like masturbation.
Most men who have experienced this
unthinkable breakage always report hearing a
cracking noise, followed by excruciating pain.
It is always advisable to get treatment on time
because an untreated fracture can lead to
permanent erectile dysfunction (ED).
Penis size, thickness and shape are not genetic.
joysticks are actually formed in uterus when the
male hormones are in active service. joysticks
have a ‘seam’ as all men have a line going down
their penis and over their testicles. It’s more a
‘seam’ on the underside of the penis. It forms
when the foetus is in the uterus. In women, the
seam becomes the inner lips of the vagina. In
men, the seam encloses the urethra along the
length of the penis. joysticks contrast in colour
to other body parts; joysticks are generally
darker in colour than the bodies they hang
from. Why? It’s part of the sexual maturation
process. Every penis experiences a degree of
shrinkage on a daily basis, especially when it is
very cold. In other words, cold weather and
cold water are a penis’ mortal enemies. A
typical testicles need to be warm to
effectively make sperm and testosterone. So
when you stay too long in a chilly air-condition
room on a daily basis, try to take a ten
minutes’ walk in a warm environment away from
the cold. But there is no correlation between
penis size and shoe size, hand size or wallet
size. And the worst exercise for the penis is
masturbation. Masturbation is not healthy at
all. Smoking isn’t just bad for your lungs; it is
also bad for the penis. It’s no secret that
smoking clogs the arteries, including those
that fill the penis with blood, especially at the
initial stage of ejaculation. This means the
joysticks of smokers may have a harder time
rising to its full potential at the occasion of
sexual activities. Also, men will go limp if they
drink too much.
Men really do get ‘blue-balls, technically called
‘prostatic congestion which is caused by
‘trapped’ blood in the testicles. It has been
discovered that a lukewarm shower or aspirin
will also do the trick. With a vasectomy, a man
can still be a father because some sperm cell
can still hang around, ready, willing and able to
cause a woman to be pregnant two weeks post
operation. So, it’s important to use some kind
of protection until your family doctor says the
coast is clear.
Please note that if an erection comes on and
refuses to go away, this is not a miracle, but a
medical emergency. This means that the blood
flow that causes an erection doesn’t eventually
leave the penis. Serious complications can
result, like blood clots and some major
damage.
Questions and Answers
Should I or should I not?
Seven months ago, my wife of 11 years
suddenly left my home unannounced with my
seven-year-old last child. I was so worried I
had to report the case to the police who after
series of searching, eventually discovered that
she actually moved to the house of one of my
church members, a wealthy business tycoon.
This became a court case and when she was
asked why she left without traces, she said it
was on the basis that I do not satisfy her
sexually. Now, she is begging to come back.
Should I take her back? Her insatiable sexual
craving has been a big issue since the inception
of our marriage. I can’t satisfy her even if I
over try.
Peter Ajukochi
This is a case of libidinal mismatch leading to
unfaithfulness, I think you both can still sit
and talk things over. There are quite a lot of
things to do together when couples’ sex drive
do not match. Amazingly, every human being
has untapped sexual potential in us. If she has
been complaining from the outset of your
union, what have you done to rectify the
situation? Bear it in mind that your low desire
affects your wife immensely; so you must
stretch yourself to take time to enhance your
libido. This will bond the two of you together
the more and grant you some discoveries about
your own sexuality. Take quality time to
discover your wife’s sexual peculiarities. It is
very wrong and unethical for your wife to
abandon her matrimonial home in search of a
momentary pleasure. But I would also plead for
your forgiveness. Since she has discovered her
mistakes, I am sure she will make it up to you.
Please take her back and in future, don’t
ignore her complaints.
Why should I be careful about semen
analysis?
I have done quite a number of semen analyses,
yet I can’t make my wife get pregnant. Why
should I be careful about semen analysis or
continue to carry out the same test?
Matins Matins
Are you sure you are carrying out the
necessary test? Frankly speaking, semen
analysis is not a measure of fertility; rather,
it is a measure of sperm production and sperm
delivery. So, a single semen analysis really
does not mean everything is normal or
abnormal. It just means there’s normal
production, normal delivery of sperm. Most
men, when there are concerns about fertility,
will be told to get a semen analysis. It is a
good thing but it is important that if a man has
concerns over fertility, he has at least two and
probably three separate semen analyses, each
one after three days of abstinence, each
about six to eight weeks apart. And then, and
only then, can you say you have successfully
completed the test.
Is it advisable to send a spy after my
partner?
If a husband or wife notices some suspicious
moves, activities and behaviour in the life of
his or her partner especially sexual life, Is it
advisable for the suspecting partner to send
spies to get adequate information before
taking necessary action, If no, why?
Simian Jubilee
I do not think it is a wise idea. One thing is
certain, there is nothing hidden that will not
be revealed over a period of time. And from
observation, when you are not too sure of
something, it is either you patiently wait for a
proper timing or you wisely confront your
spouse. And if he or she denies the
confrontation, you can just keep your calm.
Things will definitely reveal themselves sooner
than you think. But if you start sending spies
here and there, searching for information,
digging up stories, you may end up destroying
the very thing you want to protect. Where
mistrust, doubt, and suspicion reign, every air
that blows is a potential danger bomb.
Can erectile dysfunction prevent pregnancy?
Apparently yes but this depends greatly on
the degree and level of the erectile
dysfunction challenge. If it is a chronic
erectile dysfunction, it has 75-83 per cent of
preventing pregnancy, especially when the
erection is not hard enough for effective
ejaculation or when the man ejaculates just at
the tip of the vagina. If it is an acute erectile
dysfunction [ a sudden event of either
premature ejaculation or quick ejaculation],
there may be a likelihood of the man being able
to impregnate his wife when the man is
treated on time.
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