Are we men that cunny or cruel..... A lady came to my shop yesterday looking for flat screen monitor adaptor with a guy and i i told them that i don't have. The lady started crying heavily, saying that she won't leave my shop and if she gat home, her husband will kill her today..... I was totally dumbfounded that why, she said she will die in my shop than going home without the adaptor. I told the lady that men are not like that but the guy that followed her to my office said i ain't know are husband. But i sent them to another shop to search for it. After they left, i started wondering what kind of treatment the young lady might have been having since she marry her husband. And this lady is not up to 25years......

you are a man.....u should answer the question yourself.. Could you be that mean and cruel?

I'm not and i'll never be. May God help me not to be

Some definitely are cruel but most ll treat you the way you treat yourself.

Not all men. I have certainly met some very decent guys

Not all men are mean and cruel.
Some can not even kill a fly.

Well there are a lot of cowards in this world that like to take out their frustrations on those weaker than them, and unfortunately for women they're naturally (physically) weaker than men, that's why most of the time they are the ones that suffer domestic abuse in the hands of their cowardly partners.

A Nigerian man for you. No surprise there!
He would prolly kill her.
No hope for women in Nigeria I swear!

Vidamia: Are we men that cunny or cruel..... A lady came to my shop yesterday looking for flat screen monitor adaptor with a guy and i i told them that i don't have. The lady started crying heavily, saying that she won't leave my shop and if she gat home, her husband will kill her today..... I was totally dumbfounded that why, she said she will die in my shop than going home without the adaptor. I told the lady that men are not like that but the guy that followed her to my office said i ain't know are husband. But i sent them to another shop to search for it. After they left, i started wondering what kind of treatment the young lady might have been having since she marry her husband. And this lady is not up to 25years......

There's obviously more to this story than meets the eye.

Maybe she knew he had a mean steak about him but yet, went ahead and married him for money, damning the consequences? And now the consequences have come to haunt and bite her in the bum?

Or maybe, they had an argument and in her fit of rage, destroyed the adaptor? So the man's told her not to return back home without one? (seems to be the most likely story, else why didn't he go get it himself?)

I dont know about men i know about myself

https://www.nairaland.com/1541775/alleged-pepper-thief-stripped-tortured

The lady maybe married to one of the guys who tortured two poor women for something you cant write about -Pepper-
Watch the video and tell us why the poor woman should not be scared of her life

^^ That was jungle justice meted out to women accused of stealing pepper and clothes.

Sad thing is that their accusers / attackers are no better and are probably even bigger thieves. Backward mindset - no wonder the country fails to progress with people exhibiting such mentality.

Anyway, back to @topic: If the lady in question has got a husband like one of those animals, then why remain in the union in the first place?

Vidamia: Are we men that cunny or cruel..... A lady came to my shop yesterday looking for flat screen monitor adaptor with a guy and i i told them that i don't have. The lady started crying heavily, saying that she won't leave my shop and if she gat home, her husband will kill her today..... I was totally dumbfounded that why, she said she will die in my shop than going home without the adaptor. I told the lady that men are not like that but the guy that followed her to my office said i ain't know are husband. But i sent them to another shop to search for it. After they left, i started wondering what kind of treatment the young lady might have been having since she marry her husband. And this lady is not up to 25years......

Bros, U shoulda do Tatafo by digging deeper to ask what the Husband woulda do so as to yearn us how cruel he could have been !


Op, Find the woman and ask her how cunny and cruel her husband ?

Maybe That would be the Fifth Flat screen the woman don spoil so ?

Efemena_xy: ^^ That was jungle justice meted out to women accused of stealing pepper and clothes.

Sad thing is that her accusers / attackers are no better and are probably even bigger thieves. Backward mindset - no wonder the country fails to progress with people exhibiting such mentality.

Anyway, back to @topic: If the lady in question has got a husband like one of those animals, then why remain in the union in the first place?

what those beasts did to that woman is even a 100 times worse than the stealing she commited.

It is only in africa that they correct wrong with wrong by brutality e.g the new trend of stripping women naked.tufffiiiiaaaaaaaa to the kkkkkkwwwaaaaaa

donroxy: Maybe That would be the Fifth Flat screen the woman don spoil so ?

Not funny.

So why am I laughing??

Efemena_xy: ^^ That was jungle justice meted out to women accused of stealing pepper and clothes.

Sad thing is that her accusers / attackers are no better and are probably even bigger thieves. Backward mindset - no wonder the country fails to progress with people exhibiting such mentality.

Anyway, back to @topic: If the lady in question has got a husband like one of those animals, then why remain in the union in the first place?

Have you thought that she got away lightly because she is a woman?

Imagine if it was a man they caught in that circumstance

The Aluu 4 there wasnt even any evidence they stole anything before they were brutally murdered

In the area of jungle justice its rare to see a woman lynched whereas for men any shout of thief next thing na to find tyres and petrol

If a woman steals worst thing they can do is strip her naked or beat hardly would they kill her

^^ Doesn't make it right or acceptable though.

And there have been instances (which I've read about) where the female victims lost their lives or where the male victims survived their ordeal. I haven't got links for those here, neither do I care to go trawling the net for those despicable stories.

Bottom line here is this: two wrongs will never make a right, nor does anyone have the right to take the laws into their hands - no matter the perceived crime(s) of the accused.

dayokanu:

Have you thought that she got away lightly because she is a woman?

Imagine if it was a man they caught in that circumstance

The Aluu 4 there wasnt even any evidence they stole anything before they were brutally murdered

In the area of jungle justice its rare to see a woman lynched whereas for men any shout of thief next thing na to find tyres and petrol

If a woman steals worst thing they can do is strip her naked or beat hardly would they kill her

So?

Aluu was universally condemned. So should this.

Nigerians are generally cruel to all people and not targeted at womenfolks

In most cases women get off lightly when they commit the same offence

^^ Dayo, this isn't a male versus female war nor is it about who got off lightly or not.

There is never an excuse for jungle justice and any form of violence should be strongly condemned, irrespective of gender.

dayokanu: Nigerians are generally cruel to all people and not targeted at womenfolks

In most cases women get off lightly when they commit the same offence

That was getting off lightly?

soul_glo:

That was getting off lightly?

Compared to the Aluu thats getting off lightly oo

OP,amebor is not your career,try something else biko which kain half,infact quarter gist be dis?

I don't know all men but the men I know are neither cruel nor cunny.

dayokanu:

Compared to the Aluu thats getting off lightly oo

Aluu4 was just a bloody tragedy. Still gives me sleepless nights. Nobody has found these ladies yet. I am pretty sure they will have serious injuries if that bottle she was sodomized with was actually filled with pepper. She will have serious burns internally. She needs medical attention or she could suffer forever with those injuries.

Generally ppl are wicked in Nigeria.

What happens in Aluu happens almost on a daily basis in most big Nigerian cities

We are inherently wicked. Abi is it not where househelps are designed with razor blades because they steal one spoon of milk?

Its the Nigeria we find ourselves in. Where few r stealing billions in broad daylight yet walks free.

This kind of jungle justice happens all d time.
That's d mentality.

May God us from this kind of animalistic behaivours.

dayokanu: Generally ppl are wicked in Nigeria.

What happens in Aluu happens almost on a daily basis in most big Nigerian cities

We are inherently wicked. Abi is it not where househelps are designed with razor blades because they steal one spoon of milk?

Dayo pls don't even go there.
Anytime I c threads on housegirls, I weep for naija.
Forget church or mosque.
We r very wicked.
Hv been wondering why.

Abeg Dayo & YPP: make una nor dey use the word 'we' take describe all those inherently wicked acts. 'We' is an all-inclusive word and I nor dey part of them.

Use 'they' instead.

soul_glo:

Aluu4 was just a bloody tragedy. Still gives me sleepless nights. Nobody has found these ladies yet. I am pretty sure they will have serious injuries if that bottle she was sodomized with was actually filled with pepper. She will have serious burns internally. She needs medical attention or she could suffer forever with those injuries.

I don't think any words can ever, ever describe how painful that ALUU tragedy was. Could't watch the video to the end. 1 minute was more than I could stomach.

Dear God! And the boys' poor mothers...

yellowpawpaw:
Dayo pls don't even go there.
Anytime I c threads on housegirls, I weep for naija.
Forget church or mosque.
We r very wicked.
Hv been wondering why.

Thats Nigeria for you. Nigerians are creatively wicked. If they design punishment method for you. You go fear.

What Americans call bullying or torture is like visiting father Xmas when you compare what happens in nigeria

in secondary school seniors would tell you to fill a basket with water, use spoon to fetch water, push the picture of a car till it starts or impregnate the picture of a woman

There was a JS1 boy who was made to lie down and put his penis in ant hole for peeing in bed

Efemena_xy:

I don't think any words can ever, ever describe how painful that ALUU tragedy was. Could't watch the video to the end. 1 minute was more than I could stomach.

Dear God! And the boys' poor mothers...

Efe the truth is that Aluu isnt the worst I have seen either in real life or on the web.

The worst ever was the child witches saga. Children who did absolutely nothing or worst case were sucking their thumbs, sleep walking, murmuring in their sleep or chewing their mouth were accused of being witches drinking blood and eating flesh

What was done to them is better imagined. Yet the woman Helen Ukpabio is walking freely in the country today

the day I watched it on youtube my eyes were flooded