“Trini men no good girl, go get yuhself a German or some Nigerian doctor. They go treat you real, real nice!” This used to be the rhetoric in Trinidad a few years ago. But now.. It seems the tables have been turned around because as it stands now, Trinidadian women cheat as much as the men.

I took a day trip to Trinidad yesterday and found out first hand how bad the situation was. A friend who took me around told me him and his wife have a mutual understanding: "I have a girl on the side that I see everyday, and so does she. Everything is rosy in our marriage. What she does, I don't need to know and the same goes for her". I was so dumbfounded to hear something like that come from a married man's mouth. I'm sure he saw the shock on my face and followed with, "This is Trinidad! You horn me and I horn you back. Simple and short. It's a normal thing around here" (Horn means cheat on)

I decided to do a little more digging around and realised that sex in Trinidad is no longer a taboo topic among family members and everyone seems very open about it. Even the ladies. Sextoy stores are booming with majority of the sales coming from the ladies... being open about your sexuality is no longer taboo for women.
Whorehouses are scattered all around the island with most of their customers being locals and expatriates bringing women from all over the world to sell their 'goods'. Women from Guyana, Columbia, Jamaica, etc... prostituting their selves for as little as $50 in what is known as the 'package deal' whereby a customer gets a room, condom and the woman all inclusive.

It kind of made sense after I had heard all the wild stories about the Trini carnival and how people let loose and do all sorts of scandalous things on the streets. The women wear the skimpiest costumes and grind on any and every man. It doesnt matter is she is single or not, everything goes during carnival.
I also heard of married women going out to clubs and whining on men while their husband is out with his girlfriend on the side. Or even women giving out their numbers to men discretely while she's at the club with her man!
Maybe this explains the AIDS epidemic in the Caribbean or not, but immorality reigns supreme in Trinidad.

190: Nigerian women get PHD for inside

Trinidad women get Bsc

Nigerian women fit date 5 different guys inside the same room - they wont know

Guidette:
Lool, true sha. But at least it is still coded things. In trinidad it is out in the open. Nobody gives a fuck_ anymore. Saddening.

190:

Thank God for africa then

if it gets to that stage in Nigeria, Na to pack bag stroll enter Ghana

Guidette:

I think Trini women are one of the most beautiful women in the world, but I don't think it justifies the amount of infidelity I hear among couples though. But I am happy about the equality of things. In Naija, it is a different story. In my opinion, the men cheat a lot more than women. What do you think?

190:

Nigerian women fit date 5 different guys inside the same room - they wont know

Mondisweets: how often has this happened to you?

from what you taught me - i'd say everyday

olumaxi: Pls,can i get a bus going to trinidad from oshodi?