Hi Nairalanders,

After a lady's heart is broken by a guy who jumps into the arms of another woman, claiming he is no longer sexually interested to her, Is it wise to have a platonic friendship with him at his own request or is it better to just forget him entirely?

hmm . i think if you two are mature enough to handle it, why not?

I would have to say NO!! he aint ready for no woman right now. let him hang with his boys for awhile. i mean you can let him know you are there but he is on the rebound.

just forget him.

whats the point in prolonging the heartbreak?

What! Hell NAH
Insult upon injury

the guy is a jerk, but he can be a great friend, right?

HCH3COO:

the guy is a jerk, but he can be a great friend, right?

maybe when i shave my head

@topic
forget him

HCH3COO:

the guy is a jerk, but he can be a great friend, right?

Mba, the dude needs to stay away from woman for a while. Because he is on the rebound. No matter how platonic you want to make it, he might not see it that way.

onyinye2:

Mba, the dude needs to stay away from woman for a while. Because he is on the rebound. No matter how platonic you want to make it, he might not see it that way.

there are people who break up on tuesday and find love on wednesday.

@ topic

Why isn't he buried yet?

I won't advice her to do that. Stay away from him.

HCH3COO:

there are people who break up on tuesday and find love on wednesday.

Rubbish. that is why they call it "On The REBOUND" i mean what might start as "platonic", will change. He is on the rebound so he might just be using the girl. And she thinking he actually likes her turns out that it was just mere infatuation.

ibkaye:

maybe when i shave my head

i wouldn't notice the difference

onyinye2:

Rubbish. that is why they call it "On The REBOUND" i mean what might start as "platonic", will change. He is on the rebound so he might just be using the girl. And she thinking he actually likes her turns out that it was just mere infatuation.

he might be on the rebound. he might be sincerely interested in the new woman.

HCH3COO:

i wouldn't notice the difference

lool

@ poster

How can you still be in love with someone like that? Or better still how can you still like being in love with someone like that?

HCH3COO:

he might be on the rebound.  he might be sincerely interested in the new woman.  

Oh Child' Play no he is not. Oka i have majority male friends. I know what you guys do. I see it. When you broke up with a girl, you are on the rebound. You are looking for a fast track "relationship" to cover up the hurt or thought of the previous relationship.

onyinye2:

Oh Child' Play no he is not. Oka i have majority male friends. I know what you guys do. I see it. When you broke up with a girl, you are on the rebound. You are looking for a fast track "relationship" to cover up the hurt or thought of the previous relationship.

you are generalizing. you are not for sure that he is like that.

@ Topic

Why not. I have two of my ex's who I am very close to. Infact they even go as far as telling me their current boyfriends. Although atimes I must confess that I still want to get some _{(If you know what I mean   )}

Okija_juju:

@ Topic

Why not. I have two of my ex's who I am very close to. Infact they even go as far as telling me their current boyfriends. Although atimes I must confess that I still want to get some _{(If you know what I mean )}

Who cares?

Answer the question and spare us your dramas!

Forget the Oloshi jo. . . .

He is looking for a way to have his cake and eat it.

HCH3COO:

you are generalizing.  you are not for sure that he is like that.

Blah Blah Blah doesn't change the fact that it aint love. maybe infatuation, but love. . . heck naw. I seen it multiple times.

A guy just got out of a relationship. Is a little down. Sees a chic into him. Uses her as a cover up for his previous relationship. says goodbye.

Okija_juju:

@ Topic

Why not. I have two of my ex's who I am very close to. Infact they even go as far as telling me their current boyfriends. Although atimes I must confess that I still want to get some _{(If you know what I mean   )}

Nna, stay on topic.

being friends with an ex doesnt work til you're entirely OVER him

and even then sef it depends on the situation for you to even accept being his/her friend. He left you for another person, why be his friend?

Okija_juju:

@ Topic

Why not. I have two of my ex's who I am very close to. Infact they even go as far as telling me their current boyfriends. Although atimes I must confess that I still want to get some _{(If you know what I mean   )}

play on nigga.  onyinye, this is a good example.  he remained friends with them.  not because he wanted to hit it.

onyinye2:

Blah Blah Blah doesn't change the fact that it aint love. maybe infatuation, but love. . . heck naw. I seen it multiple times.

A guy just got out of a relationship. Is a little down. Sees a chic into him. Uses her as a cover up for his previous relationship. says goodbye.
Nna, stay on topic.

onyinye, why are you so sure he's interested in her piece of meat? there are good guys out there too you know .

HCH3COO:

onyinye, why are you so sure he's interested in her piece of meat?  there are good guys out there too you know .

I have seen it tons of times. guys are so predictable.

HCH3COO:

play on nigga.  onyinye, this is a good example.  he remained friends with them.  not because he wanted to hit it.

That is not a good example. I'm talking about guys who JUST got out a relationship not years after. and besides he aint even over them. he can still get with them and use them.

HCH3COO:

play on nigga.  onyinye, this is a good example.  he remained friends with them.  not because he wanted to hit it.

I'm guessing you didn't read the last part

Okija_juju:

@ Topic

Why not. I have two of my ex's who I am very close to. Infact they even go as far as telling me their current boyfriends. Although atimes I must confess that I still want to get some _{(If you know what I mean   )}

ohhh! he did want some.

HCH3COO:

ohhh! he did want some.

As i said before, guys are so predictable.

onyinye2:

As i said before, guys are so predictable.

don't hate. we just know what we want.

onyinye2:

As i said before, guys are so predictable.

onyinye

ke kwanu?

I would forget about him entirely. . . . .feelings might start to reappear