I have read that if a person wishes to wait until after marriage to have sex, that the relationship is more likely to work if they refrain from doing anything oher than kissing.

The reason being that anything past, puts more pressure on the two to refrain from intercourse, and the temptation will increase and sex will become a bigger issue.

However, a part of me thinks the poor guy/gal, not only has to refrain from intercourse but from 'touching' as well? That 'come on now, give him/her a lil' break'.

Even guys have told me that anything other than kissing is likely to make achieving such a relationship harder.

OPINIONS??

You really are worried about this arent you?

Those that have done everyhing before marriage and ending up in successful marriages n ko? Are they super humans

Really it's all about the people in the relationships

what is the intention? 4 the relationship to seek its course or suffer a TKO? don't kiss now, and find out, or kiss and tell me if i'm not a professor,

Ummm

Kissing alone is enough to start the so called demise u are talking about. But I dont think the success of a relationship is dependent on that.

Other fins are involved

@Poster


All na lie!!

Brash!:

@Poster


All na lie!!

meaning, explain plzzzzzz

e be liek all una dey speak in parable.

Whatever

@ Post

I think you are right. If they truly want to keep sex till after marriage then they should avoid some things.

Eclairs:

Ummm

Kissing alone is enough to start the so called demise u are talking about. But I don't think the success of a relationship is dependent on that.

Other fins are involved

Well that's what I believed, but when I came on this forum looking for help, all I got was a bunch of people telling me; "so you thought you could have your cake and eat it" "do most things but then draw the line at sex" "you tempted the guy" "how is a guy supposed to hold back when everything else is acceptable" "by involving anything other than kissing you catalysed the demise of your own relationship" so after hearing those comments of course I thought, maybe I was missing something. I always thought that it depended on will power and the individual, so amma stick with that idea from now on!

Definately, avoid some things.

Kissing huh? But wouldn't that lead onto many other things eg. caressing etc and the something else, the cyle continues

if you kissed me you would change your mind.

HCH3COO:

if you kissed me you would change your mind.

Conceited Much!!!

@post
I see nothing wrong with kissing. Kissing is just kissing. Caressing. . . well that truly depends.

HCH3COO:

if you kissed me you would change your mind.

Dreams are good for the mind

onyinye2:

Conceited Much!!!

if you want a bite all you gotta do is ask.

ibkaye:

Dreams are good for the mind

this dream is beyond your reach ibukun. comot jare.

HCH3COO:

if you want a bite all you gotta do is ask.

Bite of what?

I don't see anything wrong with kissing, was discussing about the line drawn after kissing,

topup:

I don't see anything wrong with kissing, was discussing about the line drawn after kissing,

please don't say that. he must have been a terrible kisser. those knee bending kisses are enough to unwrap your clothes jor.

@topup
Of course you have to draw the line. That is why when i enter a relationship, i tell the guy upfront what the boundaries are and to respect them. Im cool with kissing, and maybe a wee bit of caressing

HCH3COO:

this dream is beyond your reach ibukun. comot jare.

who is ibukun?

onyinye2:

@topup
Of course you have to draw the line. That is why when i enter a relationship, i tell the guy upfront what the boundaries are and to respect them. I'm cool with kissing, and maybe a wee bit of caressing

please tell me more . what parts of your body do you like caressed.

ibkaye:

who is ibukun?

you.

HCH3COO:

you.

for ya mind abi

Water boy, you is FREAK!!!! im just jiving.

~aceticacid giggles~

str8 and direct

Joseph6:

str8 and direct

str8 should not be in your vocabulary jare. goatfucker.

Joseph what do you know? you probably haven't even had your first kiss.

kissing leads to bleeping. . . . end of story

chamotex:

kissing leads to bleeping. . . . end of story

I dont agree to that ohhh. . . Not all of us would end up that direction.

its not true. if both are commited to seeing the relationship work they will . . . sex or not.

@ poster
All this one na story[b]SEX[/b] or no SEX KISSING or no KISSING if a relationship will work it will work. end of story