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Niqqa u high on adrenaline rush kai even intimate urge men u need God this new year to kill the spirit of homo sapien.

I heard dat in 1970.

Bro, you had better start fasting and praying that God will deliver you.
Be a better christian.
#TeamNap#

Maybe you are just shy around the opposite sex because you don't know what to say to or handle yourself around them in the context of a relationship that goes beyond friendship.

Maybe you are comfortable around guys like you because you know there isn't any expectations beyond friendship.

Except you have a strong desire to jump one of your male friends bones and you aren't telling us, I'd say you are fine.

Kennito90: I heard dat in 1970.

you heard wat?

Vessi: Bro, you had better start fasting and praying that God will deliver you.
Be a better christian.
#TeamNap#

i did not tel u am suffering from a kinda spiritual attack or something else so wats d deliverance ish all abt?

Hug guys To the extent of initimate surge?... Hmmmm... No doubt about it, ure gay!

TVT KOKO: i did not tel u am suffering from a kinda spiritual attack or something else so wats d deliverance ish all abt?

vessi is ryt..u need deliverance. Run to the church.

TVT KOKO: It's 2014 already and i don't see any reason why i should keep lying to my self abt my sexuality.


I am well in my early 20s and i sure noticed dat i tend to become an introvert when in the gathering of ladies. No matter how hard a lady tries to talk to me,or keep up a conversation,i just do feel irritated or to end that conversation. But reverse is d case when talking to a guy like me.

I've got plenty of female friends but never had anything to do with them even a kiss but except a hug and that is always by force. But contrary to that, i've willingly given myself to embrace other guys to the extent of having intimate urge.

Pls i posted this just to share ur own opinion and not for some unwarranted insults. Tank u

It is okay...feel free to express yourself and live the life you want to live..Identifying who you are is the first step to getting out of the web of life.Find the courage to express yourself. I wish you all the best..However,since you are not sure if you are gay or not,I will advice you seek help (psychological help)..Don't forget to use the CD,you have many years ahead of you.

deeptesting:

It is okay...feel free to express yourself and live the life you want to live..Identifying who you are is the first step to getting out of the web of life.Find the courage to express yourself. I wish you all the best..However,since you are not sure if you are gay or not,I will advice you seek help (psychological help)..Don't forget to use the CD,you have many years ahead of you.

tanks but wat u mean by CD

Truth is no body is born gay,environment and what we choose to belief make us who we are,and mind you gays her not irritated by females,they just don't fantasize about them
So you need to do a lot of soul searching and I think you're having an anxiety disorder or very shy.
And again nobody is born gay,the media are only lying to us,and the science can't dissect feelings so they also lie!

Blue Scholar: Truth is no body is born gay,environment and what we choose to belief make us who we are,and mind you gays her not irritated by females,they just don't fantasize about them
So you need to do a lot of soul searching and I think you're having an anxiety disorder or very shy.
And again nobody is born gay,the media are only lying to us,and the science can't dissect feelings so they also lie!

thanks very much 4 this

@OP

Nobody is born homosexual and Sisi made salient points too.

You might just be nervous about being with a girl romantically.

Treat such urges as you would treat an urge to sleep with your neighbor's hot wife or steal your parent's doe. It is a temptationand letting it over cone you is were the sin is.

Stay clear from any homosexual known to you. They will drag you down with them.

It is well.

Have a prosperous new year

TVT KOKO: tanks but wat u mean by CD

Condoms for anal sex since it's obvious that's the first thing that comes to ignoramus brains when they hear anything homo. I concur with his post tho.

OP Gay men love women's company and aren't irritated by females either.

'Nobody is born homo' = that's the mystery yet to be solved, till then we should let nature take its course & stop playing God.
Candy-Magic Johnson certainly never wished such 'affliction' on her son after all the gay traits he displayed from his toddler years up. ( 'sissy boy syndrome').

OP, I'd say seek professional help.

Am thinking of what to say! But whatever it is @op, d feeling isn't right. Pls seek help now that you can. I wish u well and i pray u find a lasting solution to it.

I do really appreciate the comments. Tanks alot

TVT KOKO: It's 2014 already and i don't see any reason why i should keep lying to my self abt my sexuality.


I am well in my early 20s and i sure noticed dat i tend to become an introvert when in the gathering of ladies. No matter how hard a lady tries to talk to me,or keep up a conversation,i just do feel irritated or to end that conversation. But reverse is d case when talking to a guy like me.

I've got plenty of female friends but never had anything to do with them even a kiss but except a hug and that is always by force. But contrary to that, i've willingly given myself to embrace other guys to the extent of having intimate urge.

Pls i posted this just to share ur own opinion and not for some unwarranted insults. Tank u

You may not be gay.

Perhaps, you have anxiety around women because you feel there's more of an expectation from you when around them and due to your 'introvertedness', you don't feel you can meet up. But around guys, there is no added pressure and your mind is now starting to feed you with ideas. Making you take the path of least resistance?

The fact that you feel some attraction to the same sex doesn't make you gay necessarily. There are many heterosexuals that even take that further and experiment with same sex relationships and they are not gay.

Is there any experience that led to your difficulty relating with women? If so, look into that and deal with it first. I don't know where you live but seeing a professional psychologist would be helpful to address your ?anxiety/?fear/?inadequacies around women.

TVT KOKO: It's 2014 already and i don't see any reason why i should keep lying to my self abt my sexuality.
I am well in my early 20s and i sure noticed dat i tend to become an introvert when in the gathering of ladies. No matter how hard a lady tries to talk to me,or keep up a conversation,i just do feel irritated or to end that conversation. But reverse is d case when talking to a guy like me.
I've got plenty of female friends but never had anything to do with them even a kiss but except a hug and that is always by force. But contrary to that, i've willingly given myself to embrace other guys to the extent of having intimate urge.
Pls i posted this just to share ur own opinion and not for some unwarranted insults. Tank u

ignore what others have told you - you are as gay as fück!!! embracing men & getting intimate urges? you need a boyfriend, mate!

coogar:

ignore what others have told you - you are as gay as fück!!! embracing men & getting intimate urges? you need a boyfriend, mate!

Funny but bitter truth. All the behaviours he exhibit reeks of 'gayish' tendencies. He can overcame it thou, since he is yet to start doing his fellow men , there is hope

i want to send ur story to a blog, OP. Can I?
Please reply.

AdoraAmadi: i want to send ur story to a blog, OP. Can I?
Please reply.

is my story so interesting to that extent? Well, do whatever pleases u

Don't let d devil lie to u like he has lied to some that they were born with one kind of sex orientation etc. Don't even permit such thought. Neither should u indulge in lust towards ladies. Just b normal & expect to have a fiance and to marry. TRY and build friendships with ladies