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Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by COOLWATER(m): 3:04pm On Aug 06, 2008
i still cant believe i am getting the jitters about finally getting married.

Although i gat no choice but i dont know if i am really ready for it.

Is this right?
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by sistawoman: 3:13pm On Aug 06, 2008
We all get cold feet right before.
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by outlaws(m): 5:43pm On Aug 17, 2008
cool

If you are not ready, you are not ready unless some lady is going to drag you to the alter.
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by yongbabe(f): 7:59pm On Aug 17, 2008
what do u mean u have gat no choice??
Iz someone poiting a gun 2 ur head and askin u 2 get married?
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by nawah1: 4:20pm On Aug 18, 2008
spare urself! if u dont want to be married, dont be.
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by sistawoman: 10:06pm On Aug 18, 2008
Is someone forcing you to marry?
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by benincitys(f): 12:48am On Aug 19, 2008
how old are you?
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by Shaz(f): 2:49am On Aug 19, 2008
sistawoman:

Is someone forcing you to marry?

I dont think that is the case - most people get the jitters cuz they feel their status changin' - more responsibility and all that thingz
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by chikito1(f): 6:22pm On Jan 19, 2009
You sound like you have been forced into getting married!!!!!!!

Who made the decision, you?

If you were sure you would not get the jitters man.

N:B Also what excatly are you scared of, the lady, having children, responsibilities, the whola package or there is someone

else?

Please expantiate. : smiley
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by MrCrackles(m): 6:24pm On Jan 19, 2009
It certainly does, i cant wait to feel mine! grin
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by TOYOSI20(f): 9:33pm On Jan 19, 2009
Now that u realize that ur problem is half solved so to speak. . . .dont go in to marriage except u are entirely ready

otherwise u'll be so out of it it'll make ur head spin!! undecided
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by chamotex(m): 12:00am On Jan 20, 2009
Me too. That word "Marriage" scares me
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by SeanT21(f): 12:39am On Jan 20, 2009
Take it cool!!
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by Taken(m): 5:42am On Jan 20, 2009
no worry, everyone get the jitters and cold feet. Just make sure u two love each other true true.
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by spikedcylinder: 10:24am On Jan 20, 2009
If you are not ready, you shouldn't be getting married. Its unfair to you and your wife to be.


chamotex:

Me too. That word "Marriage" scares me

It should. You are only but 12 years old. wink tongue
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by JJYOU: 10:28am On Jan 20, 2009
everyone even at the alter
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by jamace(m): 3:29pm On Jan 21, 2009
Calm down brother. It happened to me. I t is natural. Just go ahead and marry but make sure you do your due dilligence on your madam to be. Don't rush into marriage. Let it be your decision to marrry. I wish you the best of luck!
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by JJYOU: 10:24am On Jan 22, 2009
jamace:

Calm down brother. It happened to me. I t is natural. Just go ahead and marry but make sure you do your[b] due dilligence on your madam to be.[/b] Don't rush into marriage. Let it be your decision to marrry. I wish you the best of luck!
chei due dilligence on madam
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by meexteriox(m): 4:17pm On Jan 22, 2009
@ poster
Man's second childhood begins when a woman gets hold of him.

Really, try to be explicit, what is giving you the jitters, because, if you are
not convinced within you before taking that walk, you are in hot soup.
Re: Marriage Gives Me The Jitters! by temi4rea(f): 12:39pm On Jan 23, 2009
@poster
Theres nothing to be scare abt its natural.

The married ladies knw better when u talk abt jitters b4 marriage because its like promoted from bulk teller to the branch manager.

So brother mi,its natural, just be urself.

This is when u need ur friends the good and bad ones around to always cheer u up and get u busy wth sm,

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