tintingz: Preach on sister

Abeg help me tell them(wannabes) that a monogamous home is not a guarantee of a happy home.

Goldenboy007: What do women want exactly? You fight man

He screams at you - Na wahala, He is evil and a bully.
He keeps quiet - Na wahala, He's insensitive and keeps malice.
He stands and look when you abuse him mercilessly- He is mumu and coward, not man enough for you!
He returns your abuse with a stinging slap - Devilish and evil, divorce a potential wife killer.

So it is easier for you to make a resolution not to beg him again rather than to make a resolution not to offend him again?

Take note of this, men have different ways of resolving issues within themselves, whether you beg him or not he needs that time to resolve the issue within himself before he can resolve with you. Men are generally analyst, they need to analyze the impact of that your so called "simple offence" before they can move on, some do it in shorter time and some take longer. Some of you women would intentional repeat a behavior you have been corrected about thinking what it takes is just to say "sorry" and you would now complain he is not accepting your apologies. You can go ahead to stop begging him, when that time comes you would discover that it was easier to beg than to hold a 40 days fasting and prayer in Shiloh or RCCG camp for a failing marriage.

FCBee:

My friend, shut up! Is it right for him to give her the silent treatment just because she spoke her language? N even threaten to slap her? If na me, e don meet him match. Because i will cook n leave it on the table, lock myself up in d room n ignore him very well. We go enter 3 weeks on top this one. E neva see anything.

Mynd_44: Childish husband. He drops money for food and refuses to eat. Smh

shoerack6:
The most annoying thing is that he understands this dialect, but can't speak well.

Dannylux: Silence treatment is a very cruel approach to matters not to mention family matters. If he can't listen to you, I believe there's someone he listens to. That should be your voice for now.

tintingz: Yeah many women don't like polygamy in terms of sharing their husband with other women, but alas woman are now embracing polygamy as it is the solution to some women in our society eg the widows, divorcee, singles. There are many happy polygamous home as you think there is not, I'm brought up from a happy polygamous home , Many polygamous home are better than that of monogamy home take a look at Isaac in the bible with his only one wife what happened at the end?
A monogamous home doesn't guarantee a happy home, there are worst monogamous home.

Mohammed(sa) as been receiving revelation before he married Ashia(ra), this Hadith only show the unique honor given to Ashia(ra) for her purity and noble character

Ewuro707:

Sisi Socolate, we need to talk. What's up?

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Yes, Allah honoured Aisha by sending Islamic revelations to Muhammed whenever they were romancing on her bed.
Allah didn't even consider that the bedroom partiality made the other wives sad. No.
He so much loved Aisha's purity and noble character that he choose no other time than the time when she and Muhammed were doing bedroom antics to send down quranic revelations

nyt3237:

You must have done something bad to this gentleman. Giving half baked information like this can not solve your problem. You need to apologise for any wrong you must have done to him. I know surely you must done something bad if not how can he just decide not to talk to u. I advice you better change your attitude especially if u the nagging type or the type that compare and contrast your hobby with other men or the type that always complain .goodluck to u

Chillisauce: If something is not working try other methods.

Begging is not working, try ignoring.
Nagging is not working, trying keeping quiet.


Maybe wear red pant and bra to seduce him, if it didn't work, your husband is cheating

Bantino: If you offend him, ensure that you appologise accordingly. If the cause of your misunderstanding is not your fault, ignore him for a while, ensure you prepare his food even when he refuses to eat.

If you guys don't have kids yet, wear some skimpy cloths at home, and try so many ways of seducing him without talking to him.

Walk out of the bathroom unclad most times, he may behave as if he's not noticing your moves, just continue. To break him, at night, just pretend to feel cold and tell him to hold you, beleive me, he will gladly hold you and from there one thing leads to another.

When you guys are done making love then you can have a 'brief discussion' with him concerning his attitude, Bleep him after the discussion then sleep off. If you get it right, he will change with time and learn how to talk issues over.

Bantino: If you offend him, ensure that you appologise accordingly. If the cause of your misunderstanding is not your fault, ignore him for a while, ensure you prepare his food even when he refuses to eat.

If you guys don't have kids yet, wear some skimpy cloths at home, and try so many ways of seducing him without talking to him.

Walk out of the bathroom unclad most times, he may behave as if he's not noticing your moves, just continue. To break him, at night, just pretend to feel cold and tell him to hold you, beleive me, he will gladly hold you and from there one thing leads to another.

When you guys are done making love then you can have a 'brief discussion' with him concerning his attitude, Bleep him after the discussion then sleep off. If you get it right, he will change with time and learn how to talk issues over.

dayokanu:

Basically you are in a Polygamous marriage.

You cant demand 100% attention from your husband when he has other wives. Or what do you expect the other wife to do?

he needs separate room for each wife or do you want him to put you all in one room?

shoerack6: Hello house,

Whenever I have disagreement with hubby, he'll decide not to talk to me. He won't eat my food and also will not sleep on the same bed with me. I'll have to beg and beg before he finally decides to talk to me.
I'm so sick and tired of his attitude. I tried discussing with him that we should look for a better way to resolve issues but he said he doesn't want to discuss anything with me.
We are presently not talking and have promised myself that this year, no more begging and begging. Have apologised to him like thrice since yesterday, i've sent him messages apologising even though I know that i've done nothing wrong.
Now i'm always in my room because even when I go to where he is, he'll stand up and leave d place.
This is killing me inside. Don't know what to do.
Pls mature advice only.
Mod pls I don't want this thread on front page.

andromida:

He asked you to leave his presence. Like head girl and principal.

Beync: Smh. What kind of a husband wil pick offense just becos I communicates wit my sis or relation who is not even livin with us in a language he doesn't understand? Sorry to say this, he's insecure, immature and needs growing up.

shoerack6: Hello house,

Whenever I have disagreement with hubby, he'll decide not to talk to me. He won't eat my food and also will not sleep on the same bed with me. I'll have to beg and beg before he finally decides to talk to me.
I'm so sick and tired of his attitude. I tried discussing with him that we should look for a better way to resolve issues but he said he doesn't want to discuss anything with me.
We are presently not talking and have promised myself that this year, no more begging and begging. Have apologised to him like thrice since yesterday, i've sent him messages apologising even though I know that i've done nothing wrong.
Now i'm always in my room because even when I go to where he is, he'll stand up and leave d place.
This is killing me inside. Don't know what to do.
Pls mature advice only.
Mod pls I don't want this thread on front page.

Beync: Smh. What kind of a husband wil pick offense just becos I communicates wit my sis or relation who is not even livin with us in a language he doesn't understand? Sorry to say this, he's insecure, immature and needs growing up.