Miner13:

I know you like to comment to a situation like this.

Let me standby to see how you will crucify the lady

freakcin: Call it off. All u've seen is a tip of the iceberg. . . more is yet to come!

freakcin: Call it off. All u've seen is a tip of the iceberg. . . more is yet to come!

Elli-dude:
Things change with time you know..

flying dutchman: Waka Now! And been bpld enough to stand by your words. Emissaries will come pleadj g, threatening. Family will been divided over tge issue. But stick tp ur guns

Elli-dude:
Funny i say!!

It won't happen...

Baby mama:


No it's not too late
The period of courtship is for you to get to know yourselves and decide if this will work
This man has shown you what being married to him will be like
He is immature
Call it off now
Your first hunch is right,don't allow anyone talk you out of it
Since he has anger issues you may not want to do this while you are with him and his people,they may hurt you
Go back to your own comfort area and call him from there and tell him it is over after you have informed your parents.

Leo Adewale: If you guys are engaged, MY PERSONAL OPINION is that it's late. My opinion is based on the fact that Joseph and Mary (Jesus' earthly parents) were engaged as at the time Mary conceived, yet Joseph purposed to divorce her secretly. Shey you get?

Elli-dude:
I'm not married but i can still say something..

Marriage is a life issue..And before you engage in such, you must have known your PRESAGED PARTNER like in and out..

You rushing into marriage is something i detest most especially with the little time you spent together...

I suggest both of you guys sit and talk about this..Query him and as him if he really know what he's doing..Take this beyond your level..Share this with sagacious persons around you..

Know from him if he truly loves you..If he gives you a comfortable reply, watch him carefully..He might be faking it..Draw conclusions on your observation..For sure you're grown enough to know what's love and what's not..

But in all be vigilant so you won't fall into the wrong hands..Thanks.

numdes: Thanks babymama. I'm following your post on making love and raising a family. I'm a huge fan

numdes: No engagement, just introduction. No bride price or nuffin yet. plus no kpesusing.......was waiting till the wedding night......

kulyie: @op when choosing mr right note that

numdes: He says he loves me...even my family, everybody keeps telling me that he really loves me. They say that may be the only way he knows how to show it

Ashabie: And you have tried in correcting all these to no avail? If yes its not too late to me as a person...marriage is a life time institute, and its not meant to be endure.

numdes: Thanks . I appreciate your advice! I was really scared to post this topic........i was afraid of the bashing i would get...but i really need the advice...ive been talking to myself for days now, ive been googling to find similar scenarios and when i couldnt sleep yesternite, i just had to post this topic.....thanks again.

numdes: I have tried countless times, everytime i correct him, he goes back again and calls someone else. The last straw for me was when he call my best friend and started telling her all sorts. Meanwhile this guy still calls me everyday to profess love. What kind of two-faced person is this?

numdes: He says he loves me...even my family, everybody keeps telling me that he really loves me. They say that may be the only way he knows how to show it

numdes: It has already started happening........everybody tells me i'm not getting younger, i'll be 28 this year. so confused.

mgbeketoto: It is up to you.
It can be pretty irritating to deal with such a 'juvenile' who can't act like a mature human being.
You accepted a marriage proposal without getting to know the dude in question. . . TO SOME EXTENT AT LEAST?

WOW!!!!!

I wonder what made you do a thing like that?
Next time, get to know the individual before jumping in HEAD FIRST!



Sounds like a social misfit. Either you be patient and work with him. . . or quit! No marriage comes easy.
HA!!!! It is too WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too early for this kind of behavior. . . he might get abusive in the future.

RED FLAG!!!!!

Ujujoan: Lol . . . Kulyie has discovered a new way of telling stories.

@ Poster . . . It's NEVER too late.

People walk out of their marriages and you are here talking about engagement.

No bride price have been collected, not documents has been signed . . . Please don't even think about it.

I know you might be worried about what people will say, but it's your life not theirs'.

If you marry him, you'll live with his alone . . . not them!

numdes: Hi, guys! I've been dating a guy from afar(long distance relationship). I know him personally but we've not really spent time together coz of distance. I'm in Lagos and He's in Abuja.
He always appears to be this very quiet, gentle and loving person.
And he proposed to me immediately so we really didn't date.
He came with his family for introduction.
Then I travelled to spend some time with him and. His people.
I saw a very different side of him. Anger, lying, badmouthing me to his family and he kept calling my people to report me for little things that we can easily deal with as a couple.
I'm fed up, I'm calling of this wedding, my question is: is it too late after introduction? I really need matured advice. Thanks

Mr Aboki:



I sense alot of lies in this story..


Dont ask me why..

kulyie: why

Mr Aboki:

kulyie: really

No!!


Send me that babe pin for inbox..

D_BestDoc:
Jenny in my second post i stated clearly that the guy is being immature, i can't dispute that. Now talking about your hubby, you should remember that people react to and handle things differently.Nobody is saying she should remain in the relationship if she can't handle what she's getting, my point is the next guy's reaction to whatever it is that causes the problems(assuming the Op has a part to play)might be different and more dangerous.

Btw the Op knows the answer to her question, even marriages involving kids are called off how much more an engagement. If she is 100% sure the guy is the problem, i don't think she would have given it a second thought.

Mr Aboki: No!!


Send me that babe pin for inbox..

Mr Aboki: No!!


Send me that babe pin for inbox..