Mba m o! Na Revenge I want abeg.

zeb04: Y do men think they can cheat and get away with it? U expose ur wife to different kind of infection and tink she should be okay with it coz it is your pologamous right. This is d dumbest shit of the 21st century. And to the ladies whi have settled In their mind that their husband we cheat on them..... Kudos 2 u. I marry for love and many other things so I won't take it likely from my husband if he cheats on me cz I know I can NEVA EVA cheat on him, I wil divorce his sorry ass....am not broke nd I ve enlighten parent who knows that cheating iscrossing the line. This is the 21st century nobody needs to die enduring a cheating husband.

The Internet is the greatest invention of all time. ..... There is reality, and then there is the Internet.

Even then, it's baffling how deluded/naive/self-deceiving some people can be here.

pro01:
The Internet is the greatest invention of all time. ..... There is reality, and then there is the Internet.
Even then, it's baffling how deluded/naive/self-deceiving some people can be here.

ok uncle

pickabeau1: @kuly
Hmmm....as I always say...... to each his or her own....we only live one

exactly.to each his own o.God forbid that it is male drama , hypertension or vaginal infection caused by a third leg that has no control that will kill me

God forbid it,i jump am pass.

zeb04: Y do men think they can cheat and get away with it? U expose ur wife to different kind of infection and tink she should be okay with it coz it is your pologamous right. This is d dumbest shit of the 21st century. And to the ladies whi have settled In their mind that their husband we cheat on them..... Kudos 2 u. I marry for love and many other things so I won't take it likely from my husband if he cheats on me cz I know I can NEVA EVA cheat on him, I wil divorce his sorry ass....am not broke nd I ve enlighten parent who knows that cheating iscrossing the line. This is the 21st century nobody needs to die enduring a cheating husband.

Anybody marrying this one will definitely cheat. If you cannot get your tenses or spelling right, how can you get it right in the sack and elsewhere? And na dem get shakara pass, see am ' I wil divorce his sorry ass'

Mynd_44:
Eye? I no put eye ooooo. I just wanna shine the Congo

Not my kulyie.

Some ladies be running their mouth like Tap

BoboYekini: Not leaving the marriage but being unfaithful, of course you know you'd best cover your tracks damn good. But he...he can always bring in a second wife.

of course,it is allowed.he can even bring ten,afterall the quoran says 'me' lo lohun wi.e.g meji,meta,mefa,mejila,but dont be deceieved that all your kids are yours.as you are bringing them inside the house,you are not the only one shinning the congo.there is nothing like adultery again.little do male polygamist know that they are indirectly practicing open marriages without them realising.

Their pickin go don reach university level before he realises only one or two out of his eight kids are his.the woman go turn am to folorunsho.na you go dey help your wifes boyfriends take care of their children .na you be the financial sponsor.abi you never hear of woman wey dey preggy for her husband wey still dey go her boyfriends house for adding or touch up to the preggy.husband go pour im own isshh,boyfriend too go pour im own issh for inside.make una dey there dey deceieve una selves .many polygamous men dont know they are like care takers..i laugh in kanwulias voice.

Mu che che che. Infact,i like the yoruba proverb that says boshey ngbon nile oko,loshey ngbon nile iyawo.

Go and do your research well.even in monogamous homes,e never sure for the man talkless of polygamous homes.infact,that one na good breeding ground and easy place to mix products of love children with papa children.the man no go know who is who,them go even do big naming ceremony for on top another man pikin that was a product of one bumping and griding when daddy wa travelled.na today

BoboYekini: Guy, why u dey always put eye for my woman?

na wa o.all this small small boys.una matter don tire me

BoboYekini: Not my kulyie.

spare me pleaseee

I bliv in second chances. If the cheatins is purely physical nd d work of d devil , I can forgive!

Yes, some cheating are better than others.

Cheating with my best friend/sister/maid is unforgivable!
Cheating on our matrimonial bed is utter rubbish!
Cheating continuously is not acceptable!
Cheating in the public, the type dt everybody knows and dey keep laffing at me on the street is stupidity!

Cheating faaaaarrrrrrrr away from home with a classier woman than I an under pressure, after which u come back home to tell me yourself with more than enough remorse, I can forgive that! And even forget! I can be dt forgiving! I bliv pple make mistakes!

Mynd_44:
Eye? I no put eye ooooo. I just wanna shine the Congo

you will shine it when obama becomes the acn chairman

alutacontinua: I bliv in second chances. If the cheatins is purely physical nd d work of d devil , I can forgive!

Yes, some cheating are better than others.

Cheating with my best friend/sister/maid is unforgivable!
Cheating on our matrimonial bed is utter rubbish!
Cheating continuously is not acceptable!
Cheating in the public, the type dt everybody knows and dey keep laffing at me on the street is stupidity!

Cheating faaaaarrrrrrrr away from home with a classier woman than I an under pressure, after which u come back home to tell me yourself with more than enough remorse, I can forgive that! And even forget! I can be dt forgiving! I bliv pple make mistakes!

Cosign!

kulyie: you will shine it when obama becomes the acn chairman

Wahala person.

When you get to that bridge. . .YOU CROSS IT or YOU DROWN!

While I cannot swear on anyone's behalf however
Any woman that says she will forgive
Because of the kids bla bla ,loves her hubby too much bla bla,doesn't want to raise children alone blah bla bladdy da ,probably has a certified philandering husband / was raised by a father that cheated on their mother blatantly and she took him back
I can't love him more than I love my very own self

That is my own opinion

That is the only reason a story will be told about a man cheating right on top of her own bed sheets and she talks of forgiving

Lilimax:
Some will even quote a verse from the Bible to support their divorce claim.
They lack understanding I'll say because to err is human and to forgive is divine.
We always offend God daily but he still forgive us so why can't we forgive our spouse?

Forgiveness does not mean you have to stay in a situation. You can forgive someone and not have to stay with them. If they cheat once, they WILL do it again. As a matter of fact, when you catch them it is likely not the first time. I don't understand people who think forgiveness means you have to go along with something, be complicit in it. If he/she gets away with it once, they will continue. The next thing you know they bring home STDs and STIs. Also their immorality affects the entire family. Is this the kind of person you want influencing your children. Of course forgive them. That does not mean you have to continue living with them.

Clears throat

* thread unfollowed*

Kokobebi: May I ask about women from our part of the world who don't reside there?Any polygamous rites then?
Truth is in our neck of the woods,they do not ever leave their homes,but a trend is emerging where they engage in extracurricular activities..Any thoughts on that sir?

Who would want to marry multiple men when you can chop and clean mouth?

Yes he actually is sooo 1950sssss...you are such a smart kid.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2535282/Women-better-having-affairs-We-cover-tracks-Sexpert-TRACEY-COX-says-wives-playing-away-ever.html

I know dailymail is rubbish reporting but I wonder if it's the same phenomenon inNija

That is actually a welcome trend IMHO
If a woman has a philandering man,let her get a small action on the side kwa
Cunny man die,cunny woman bury am

texanomaly:

Forgiveness does not mean you have to stay in a situation. You can forgive someone and not have to stay with them. If they cheat once, they WILL do it again. As a matter of fact, when you catch them it is likely not the first time. I don't understand people who think forgiveness means you have to go along with something, be complicit in it. If he/she gets away with it once, they will continue. The next thing you know they bring home STDs and STIs. Also their immorality affects the entire family. Is this the kind of person you want influencing your children. Of course forgive them. That does not mean you have to continue living with them.

Infact a man who not only cheats but goes to the extent of having the other woman climb my own matrimonial bed and leave her juices on the same bedsheets I sleep on has shown me the ultimate disrespect a woman can ever get from a man.
It is worse that physical abuse IMHO
That marriage is over for good

You know why I will not stay with a cheater?
No one is 100% careful,certainly not cheaters and no protection is 100% efficient
Every once in a while he won't wear rubber even if he were the careful type that's why the mistresses turn up pregnant
For that singular reason,I will have nothing to do with him
I love my life too much to put it in the hands of an untrustworthy man who doesn't care about my safety or that of his children ( certainly doesn't care about his either)
For those quoting the Bible on this,God gave us commonsense and expects us to use it

Do you know how many faithful wives got HIV from their husbands?
Why then should any woman talk of forgiveness and staying with a known cheating spouse

Sissie: Save what marriage? Stay married to a shameless adulterer?

He had no respect for her, he didn't just commit adultery he did it in his own house. SMH.

Divorce him, and marry a better man, your kids won't grow up without a father figure, except you doubt your chances of re-marrying.

Gbam!

BoboYekini: Anybody marrying this one will definitely cheat. If you cannot get your tenses or spelling right, how can you get it right in the sack and elsewhere? And na dem get shakara pass, see am ' I wil divorce his sorry ass'

. spelling and tenses? is dat the reason u are cheating on ur wife ?ur case is critical.

Baby mama:

Infact a man who not only cheats but goes to the extent of having the other woman climb my own matrimonial bed and leave her juices on the same bedsheets I sleep on has shown me the ultimate disrespect a woman can ever get from a man.
It is worse that physical abuse IMHO
That marriage is over for good

You know why I will not stay with a cheater?
No one is 100% careful,certainly not cheaters and no protection is 100% efficient
Every once in a while he won't wear rubber even if he were the careful type that's why the mistresses turn up pregnant
For that singular reason,I will have nothing to do with him
I love my life too much to put it in the hands of an untrustworthy man who doesn't care about my safety or that of his children ( certainly doesn't care about his either)
For those quoting the Bible on this,God gave us commonsense and expects us to use it

Do you know how many faithful wives got HIV from their husbands?
Why then should any woman talk of forgiveness and staying with a known cheating spouse

If we had more women like you and the others on this thread in reality, men will actually cheat less. A lot of women don't know yet but there are a contributing factor to their husband cheating.

If your husband knows he can easily beg/bully his way out of something, he won't see anything bad in going ahead to do it. If a man sees that his wife will forgive him if he begs enough or he can just use his kids as an excuse.

In fact he can come up with the argument that it was the devil sef

kulyie: spare me pleaseee

Come jor baby girl.

BoboYekini: Come jor baby girl.

smh

Phew...u put it out there.....

Do you think women enable men as cheats...

alutacontinua: I bliv in second chances. If the cheatins is purely physical nd d work of d devil , I can forgive!

Yes, some cheating are better than others.

Cheating with my best friend/sister/maid is unforgivable!
Cheating on our matrimonial bed is utter rubbish!
Cheating continuously is not acceptable!
Cheating in the public, the type dt everybody knows and dey keep laffing at me on the street is stupidity!

Cheating faaaaarrrrrrrr away from home with a classier woman than I an under pressure, after which u come back home to tell me yourself with more than enough remorse, I can forgive that! And even forget! I can be dt forgiving! I bliv pple make mistakes!

pickabeau1: Phew...u put it out there.....

Do you think women enable men as cheats...

Not to me, but they do 100%

bukatyne:

Not to me, but they do 100%

No problem, then in that case maybe women should be less accomodating and dump men at the sign of infidelity
However has it really worked in the West? That is the question

There is so much serial marriage which to me is akin to having multiple partners in a legal sense

pickabeau1:

No problem, then in that case maybe women should be less accomodating and dump men at the sign of infidelity
However has it really worked in the West? That is the question

There is so much serial marriage which to me is akin to having multiple partners in a legal sense

Not up for debate today but except if you are telling me men have no self control that they must cheat, I don't see why an adulterous partner should not be divorced if the other partner deems fit?

Do you know why men keep cheating openly? Why madams keeping beating househelps, why employers keep misbehaving? why politicians keeping robbing us blind?

Because there has been no consequences in times past

You dont have to sound defeatist
We agree that conseuqnces will act as a major deterrent especially in the status cheats group

The bible allows for divorce in the event of infidelity

Eventually it will sink in

bukatyne:

Not up for debate today but except if you are telling me men have no self control that they must cheat, I don't see why an adulterous partner should not be divorced if the other partner deems fit?

Do you know why men keep cheating openly? Why madams keeping beating househelps, why employers keep misbehaving? why politicians keeping robbing us blind?

Because there has been no consequences in times past

pickabeau1:

No problem, then in that case maybe women should be less accomodating and dump men at the sign of infidelity
However has it really worked in the West? That is the question

There is so much serial marriage which to me is akin to having multiple partners in a legal sense

I love this argument. You just said that the leaving a cheating a dog thing did not work in the west as it has not changed the men from cheating and has resulted in multiple marriages etc. Cool

Has our method of praying for the man to change, reporting him to the family or pastor and taking everything by the woman changed anything here? What has been the result of that?
More men think it is okay to cheat and disregard their wife's interest everyone. The society displays the husband's cheating with the "Just thank God for your own, at least you have a husband" speech and send the woman home miserable and at risk of catching an infection. This has created depressed mothers who raise kids in a really bad way.

I have seen a lot of women who have never cheated their whole life. Are religiously upright and pray regularly but are infected with one STI or another via their husband

pro01:

The Internet is the greatest invention of all time. ..... There is reality, and then there is the Internet.

Even then, it's baffling how deluded/naive/self-deceiving some people can be here.

So someone saying I will never cheat on my husband or I will marry for love is deluded/naïve/self-deceiving?

SMH at the kind of women you surround yourself with