Big, beautiful and inspiring

This is based on my past experience, so readers should not jump to conclusions.

If I am given a choice of a thin woman, a slim woman and a buxom woman (like Queen Latifah); I will choose the buxom woman).
Call her fat, but I prefer to call her big.
I find big and beautiful women more anatomically inspiring.
How?
Have you seen a big woman and a slim woman before an artist, and the artist can tell you that the contours and colors of the big woman have more depth than the slim woman.
A woman with more depth is more inspiring.

Have you been to a Nigerian Owambe party and you see these big beautiful Nigerian women in[i] Buba [/i] and Iro and shoes?
Have you seen the way heads turn to look at them?
Have you seen them dancing?
Gyrating and swaying their waist?
Gosh!
They are awesome.
And they know that they are ultra-sexy and sexier than the slim ones.

When dancing with the big woman, you can rest your hands on her booty and your hands will not slip away.
But when dancing with the slim woman, you have to hold her waist, because her booty is not large enough to rest your hands and appreciate the physical geography of the round buttocks.

Have you seen a big woman in a towel?
Wow!
I loved to see the one I spent 11 days and 11 nights with in Lagos in the 1990s.
I loved to see her in her towel going to the bathroom.
Then see her in her hot jeans shorts like the one the Jamaican X-rated singer Patra (Dorothy Smith) made popular in the early 1990s.

Next, see her in her night gown and you would be in Cloud 9 and finally watch her lying naked in bed and when you commence making love to her, you can keep going deeper and deeper for as long as you wish.
She has more depth, like a gold mine.
The rest is history.
Have you read the Song of Solomon?
The woman who inspired King Solomon to compose those explicit romantic words was a big beautiful woman and not a slim woman.

Even slim women develop goose pimples when this special breed of big women get close to their guys.

Ask the men who have seen the difference and they will confirm what I am saying.

Thank You

ok. ummmmmm im just in a state of shock wasnt really expecting ur post to be so graphic.
but i like your honesty tho

Big, Fat, phat, overweight, obese. . . .every wman is beautiful, in her own way.
But we've got to put it in mind, that it's also a health risk o. Not saying that slim peeps dnt have health risk too, buthmm
No yab me for this mater, because I'm telling the truth o.
i'LL RATHER SPEND MY TIME IN THE GYM, PLAYING SPORT, WALKING, JOGGING, and eating healthy food.
And it's easier for me to shop anywhere, for shoes, clothe, etc.
Being big is beautiful, but being slim is better. . . . my opinion sha

big is ugly and sad - thin in pretty and happy.

thin is insecure and deeply unhappy

I will say one man's meat is another man's poison, there are different shapes for everyone, and though, i respect and love the big sistas, but i will settle for petite, cos they are flippable, however more to grab on the bigger sistas too, so they arell cute and gorgeous

Ruby_Pearl:

Big, Fat, phat, overweight, obese. . . .every wman is beautiful, in her own way.
But we've got to put it in mind, that it's also a health risk o. Not saying that slim peeps dnt have health risk too, buthmm
No yab me for this mater, because I'm telling the truth o.
i'LL RATHER SPEND MY TIME IN THE GYM, PLAYING SPORT, WALKING, JOGGING, and eating healthy food.
And it's easier for me to shop anywhere, for shoes, clothe, etc.
Being big is beautiful, but being slim is better. . . . my opinion sha

lol, well said
but curvy is better

tope2000:

thin is insecure and deeply unhappy

. . . trying to find acceptance in the eyes of the world and unable to love herself just for herself

Big girls Rock!

tope2000:

lol, well said
but curvy is better

Lol! Who said you can't be slim and have the right curves in the right places
You wan borow mines?

HR.hotness:

. . . trying to find acceptance in the eyes of the world and unable to love herself just for herself

u talking to me??

Ruby_Pearl:

Lol! Who said you can't be slim and have the right curves in the right places
You wan borow mines?

true sha
borrow urs? why would i when mine is 2 die 4

Ruby_Pearl:

Big, Fat, phat, overweight, obese. . . .every wman is beautiful, in her own way.
But we've got to put it in mind, that it's also a health risk o. Not saying that slim peeps dnt have health risk too, buthmm
No yab me for this mater, because I'm telling the truth o.
i'LL RATHER SPEND MY TIME IN THE GYM, PLAYING SPORT, WALKING, JOGGING, and eating healthy food.
And it's easier for me to shop anywhere, for shoes, clothe, etc.
Being big is beautiful, but being slim is better. . . . my opinion sha

You can be big and healthy.

The ones in Nigeria are healthier than the thin ones.
Have you seen them working harder at Mile 12 and Oke Arin markets in Lagos?
Working in Lagos is enough work out.

Our own voluptuous women in Nigeria are the healthy types.
They do not eat junk food like the ones in the US or the UK.
Their regular workout is waking up at 5 am to do chores before going to the market or farm.
Most of them are not office workers.
They are traders and small scale busieness women.

They are just big and beautiful and healthy too.

Orikinla:

You can be big and healthy.

The ones in Nigeria are healthier than the thin ones.
Have you seen them working harder at Mile 12 and Oke Arin markets in Lagos?
Working in Lagos is enough work out.

Our own voluptuous women in Nigeria are the healthy types.
They do not eat junk food like the ones in the US or the UK.
Their regular workout is waking up at 5 am to do chores before going to the market or farm.
Most of them are not office workers.
They are traders and small scale busieness women.

They are just big and beautiful and healthy too.

Yes o, not like the UK or US.
But naija food is full of starch/calories.
Daily eating of naija food is not healthy o.
But you're right man! But I don't understand how those peeps work hard, walk constantly and still gain weight.
I spent a month in naija and lost over 10 pounds. That's why I love that country jare.

Its nice to hav a guy who appreciates the big women instead of critisizing em, am quite slim bt as an amen to this am heading 2 th fridge 4 a nice bowl of icecream!

@tope
hehehe, okay o, just don't come to me later on asking .
Just don't come asking to borrowing the curves those boys are lining up in front of me house for

Ruby_Pearl:

@tope
hehehe, okay o, just don't come to me later on asking .
Just don't come asking to borrowing the curves those boys are lining up in front of me house for

rofl
keep ur and lemme keep mine 2

tope2000:

u talking to me??

Nah, just expantiating on ur statement

HR.hotness:

Nah, just expantiating on your statement

oh ok
can u imagine the stupid girl thinking big is ugly and sad - thin in pretty and happy.

i call dem juicy or onion booty's, DAYUMN!!!!!!

chamotex:

i call them juicy or onion booty's, DAYUMN!!!!!!

why onion booty, do they make ur eyes watering??

chamotex:

i call them juicy or onion booty's, DAYUMN!!!!!!

ewww, am sorry.
It's depressing when I see peeps wiv cellulose on their arms, legs, and booty

I like 'em thick too. But what's the line seperating thick from fat?

Ruby_Pearl:

ewww, am sorry.
It's depressing when I see peeps with cellulose on their arms, legs, and booty

That's fat. There's a difference between thick and fat. Thick is big booty, full lips, nice thighs.

Fat is when they have a cleavage from th back, cant tell the diff btwn her chest n her back.

n-guage:

I like 'em thick too. But what's the line seperating thick from fat?

When everything is all jiggly n dropping

Ruby_Pearl:

ewww, am sorry.
It's depressing when I see peeps with cellulose on their arms, legs, and booty

true but if we don't have it now we would have it later when we have kids _{even tho i pray not 2}
what are going to do then, have surgery??

tope2000:

oh ok
can u imagine the stupid girl thinking big is ugly and sad - thin in pretty and happy.

i dont see how being happy is

~ being miserbale over every extra pound gained

~ starving urself sick becos u r trying to fit into a size 0

~ spending endless painfull hours in a gym

~ depriving urself of the finer foods so u dont gain a gram


I rock my curves, i knw how to dress them up and make a man drool.
You dont see me worrying and obsessing about what or when i eat. . . life is too much fun to be wasted on such crap

tope2000:

why onion booty, do they make u eyes watering??

U SEF GET ONION BOOTY. . . . . . . . DONT LET ME TAP ON DAT JUICY ASS OFF URS

Ruby_Pearl:

ewww, am sorry.
It's depressing when I see peeps with cellulose on their arms, legs, and booty

even some petite girl sef get celu. . . . . . . . as long as its not too much. . . . . . . . . . .but i'll still hit an onion booty with celu though

n-guage:

That's fat. There's a difference between thick and fat. Thick is big booty, full lips, nice thighs.

eh en!
Ok o. So which one is fat again? is it phat, big, obese? or what?
I can't keep up with their ever changing names

tammyswits:

Fat is when they have a cleavage from th back, can't tell the diff btwn her chest n her back.

Tope2000 o, the man wan ask yo how big your back booty is

HR.hotness:

i don't see how being happy is

~ being miserbale over every extra pound gained

some peeps do actually have high metabolism.
Me, when I choose to eat like crazy, it'll take a long while for me to gain weight.

HR.hotness:

~ spending endless painfull hours in a gym

ehrrrm, anyone that prefers to sit on the couch all dy needs to get their behind to the gym.
It's not only to loose weight, its good for the body.
Reduces health problems

LOL, Am cracking up, Hehehe!

Ruby_Pearl:

Tope2000 o, the man wan ask yo how big your back booty is

i know na, watch me and him

chamotex:

You SEF GET ONION BOOTY. . . . . . . . DONT LET ME TAP ON DAT JUICY ASS OFF URS

People with names like ur dont tap the booty of people like me

even some petite girl sef get celu. . . . . . . . as long as its not too much. . . . . . . . . . .but i'll still hit an onion booty with celu though

so true

HR.hotness:

i don't see how being happy is

~ being miserbale over every extra pound gained

~ starving yourself sick because you're trying to fit into a size 0

~ spending endless painfull hours in a gym

~ depriving yourself of the finer foods so u don't gain a gram


I[b] rock my curves, i knw how to dress them up and make a man drool.[/b]You don't see me worrying and obsessing about what or when i eat. . . life is too much fun to be wasted on such crap

Very well said
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