u can still c a virgin male if not abused or molested by maids when little.
Also it depends on your up-bringing,the family background n what u want as an individual.
some people both male n female wants to experience sex early while others won't want sure.
If u want to say about bathroom stuff like a girl mentioned, it happens to both gender but the only tin is that male accepts theirs while females deny theirs after which they hide inside n execute pretending nothing happened.
Its natural that both gender has the orgy but depends on Haw u controll it. A guy might go for a girl while some girls who tell themselves the truth also go for a guy while the pretenders go for a vibrator or artificial d***k which they buy on a high rate.