Suppose your would-be spouse ditched you to marry someone else and then invites you to their wedding. Would you attend the wedding? (please vote in the poll above)

Well, if that should happen (which I do not pray for), I will not attend that wedding!

It would serve absolutely no purpose unless of course the relationship was amicably and mutually called off. But the word 'ditched' somehow suggests otherwise.

Well it depends if i have a REALLY HOT MAN with me then i might consider going to the wedding. i mean the guy must have invited me of course then i will decide if to go or not. but if he did not invite me i WILL NOT invite myself no matter if the new guy i am with is drop dead gorgeous. else i am so going to flaunt my man!!! I will go so that he does not become the winner. i will show him that i am still surviving and i am doing REAL GOOD without him!

Well it all depend on how the relationship ended up. but if he/she did not invite me , then no need being there.

If I am "ditched" then invited by my ex to her wedding, I will simply see it as the "salt" being added to the "injury"... I WILL NOT ATTEND!

hmnn i really agree with chigzy...... my going for the wedding is gonna be for a purpose..it's got to be me with my drop dead dude attending.. so my EX- can see how well am doing . the fact that he's getting married that day.. doesn't mean am lonely...i need to flaunt my dude.

Well, If I am invited I will attend, because to me I believe God has a reason for that and to also show him/her that with and without him/her I am doing fine.

If am invited to the ceremony, and we break up on mutual agreement, I would definitely attend, and with present too.

I will if I get an invitation.

I will certainly attend with my newly found love who will be prettier and better than her in all ramifications.
And I will inform would be wife about it.
All to my former lover's shame.

If i love her never but if i dont love her ill probably escort her o the aisle and give her away in happiness

Hmmm ... attending the wedding of my ex who dumped me is in two different ways. Firstly, I can only attend the wedding if we are in a good terms. There are some ex's that even when they dump you you are still friends though it may not be easy. But if we are not in a good terms I won't attend the wedding because it might bring back all the sad memories.

You know love hurts at times and it's not easy to get over it when someone dumps you. But at the same time, let's be realistic: if a guy should dump me I'll carry on with my life because love is not a do or die affair. Not all relationships lead to marriage, so it has to end one day.

Lastly, we should try to put everything aside if we are hurt and carry on and you and the ex can still be best of friends. So if my love should dump me then I will take it as if we are not meant for each other and I can attend his wedding. We should always take life very simple!

for what?! so that people can stare at me and whisper behind my back while comparing my anatomy with the bride's. lailai!

legs pls dont go and embarass us there o!! for those of us saying we will go for the ceremony! we sure have qualities that will make pple compare the bride to us but they will be forced to rain abuses on the guy for leaving a big fish like us for a toad like her

u oinly go there if u have wat it takes

fine pinky how come she is the one in white and not you or did you even get close to getting into a white dress with the guy? the basic thing is if he is not worth the effort why waste precious time to make an impression on someone who apparently does not matter any more? i for one would have better things to do with my drop-dead-gorgeous dude

legs:

fine pinky how come she is the one in white and not you or did you even get close to getting into a white dress with the guy?

O My!!!! i am not in white with him doesnt mean i am not going to be in white with my broadchested dude... i might even me married b4 the silly thing that left me thinks of taking a bride to d altar.............u never can tell.. i might need to show my ring to all the amebos at the ceremony..i surely cant be too busy to flaunt my goodness & happiness around there o!!

shallar1:

If am invited to the ceremony, and we break up on mutual agreement, I would definitely attend, and with present too.

I dont think the word ditch signifies a mutual parting of ways.

Pinky:

legs link=topic=166.msg4401#msg4401 date=1118300144:

fine pinky how come she is the one in white and not you or did you even get close to getting into a white dress with the guy?

O My!!!! I am not in white with him doesnt mean I am not going to be in white with my broadchested dude... I might even me married b4 the silly thing that left me thinks of taking a bride to d altar.............you never can tell.. I might need to show my ring to all the amebos at the ceremony..I surely cant be too busy to flaunt my goodness & happiness around there o!!

believe me pinky you can be that busy

Piky if you loved that dude you wouldnt even want to be in the state he's getting married talkless of going to the church . Pinky on this one i totally disqualify you, inshort fear no go allow you try am

legry:

Pinky on this one I totally disqualify you, inshort fear no go allow you try am

legry i am laughing my head out here.........

An ex that ditched me? Hmmm! Attending his wedding will depend on a number of things:

1. Time interval between when we parted and the wedding - time they say, heal wounds. I do not really see me attending my ex's wedding 2 wks after he ditched me. The healing process varies from individual to individual so what could take you 2wks to get over,could take another one month.

2 How the relationship was called off and the circumstances surrounding same.

3 The extent of our relationship! If the guy had proposed and wedding plans were already in place, friends and family had been informed and all hands were on deck for the wedding and suddenly....... what on earth are my doing there? Not attending doesn't mean i do not wish him well! The best i can do is call him up and wish him a blissful marriage.

Having said all, i do not pray to be the reference point in this kind of scenario but if my ex ditched me, I just must forgive him, yes its hard but its possible. Everyone must covet the spirit of forgiveness as there may be times when ur loved ones would hurt you (either deliberately or otherwise). Then, i'd move on in life! Nothing should prevent you from moving on in life after a major dissapointment or disaster!

Which brings me back to our popular topic in the forum: "Keep Yourself chaste" You can imagine how much more painful it would be if the guy had slept with me a million and one times? I would certainly feel used wouldn't i?

Why would you let so much good food pass by? I mean, come on, "good" food is good. I'll definitely attend the wedding [reception], eat as much "good" food as possible, congratulate the couple, and move on with my life.

shockreaction:

Why would you let so much good food pass by? I mean, come on, "good" food is good. I'll definitely attend the wedding [reception], eat as much "good" food as possible, congratulate the couple, and move on with my life.

Shake me jare!
correct man....

no way man..., food..?, he or she will thank God that she dumped you,
seeing you without shame eating in his/her wedding. no way, infact never!!!!, especially if i loved you,
i can't see myself attending your wedding, hopefully we could meet some other place
but i have to be sure i am better than you then, ie better than the way you left me...

why should i ,never i wont attend the wedding.

i will go but wit a more fine man wit me so i make his eyes water..plus i dont hav feelings 4 him no more so screw him

I saw this on the[b] Sun newspaper website.[/b] I would go to the wedding but of course, i must be invited and i must have a Hawt (hotttttt) man with me. I don't care how we broke up..whether it hurt me badly or not. I'll go as long as i was invited and i have a hawt man to go with.

yea gurl..tell it to em!

bad gurls(girls)

u gatta show him wat he has been missing

hehe..

hot-angel:

I saw this on the[b] Sun newspaper website.[/b] I would go to the wedding but of course, i must be invited and i must have a Hawt (hotttttt) man with me. I don't care how we broke up..whether it hurt me badly or not. I'll go as long as i was invited and i have a hot man to go with.

I agree wiv that Newspaper o.It either that or i go Looking very exotic and irresistable.
not becos i want him back but cos i want him to feel jealous and wish he was still wiv me.