HR.hotness:

I recently had a friends sister stay with me and I never had the urge like i did with her, to throw someone out of my house. . .

It started with a days visit, she said she was in Lagos and i offered to take her out for lunch, i had a few errands to run and so we spent d whole day driving around and finally ended up in my house. I was to meet up with friends at a bar that night and i invited her to tag along even tho it wasn't her scene. she was bored and agreed to join us, needless to say the evening was awkward as she doesnt drink or smoke and cld not wrap her head around the fact that fun for us was just hanging out. she kept complaining about how boring the evening was, how she would rather go clubbing and meet men who would spend money on her. i did warn her about what the evening would be like but she didnt seem to mind so i spent the later part of d evening trying to prevent her from saying sothing that would upset my friends.

the evening ended on a peaceful note and i was relieved, afterall she'll be leaving the next day right? WRONG!

by the time i woke up (i am not an early riser) her weekend bag was in my house and she had made herself right at home. I didnt complain, its a big house and i assumed she was going to do her thing and not interfer with mine. how wrong i was again. ther was no food in the house and i ws too lazy to cook, so i asked a friend who was on his way to see me to pick up summin from a fastfood place, he said he was broke and wouldnt be able to bring much, which i understood. my dear friend then decided to place an expensive order and worse still didnt say thank you when the meal arrived. instead she complained about how bland d food was and didnt even hav the courtesy to wait for d poor boy to be out of ear shot.

by the 3rd day everyone in my house was sick of her, she complained about everything, the water, the mattress, the food. . . name it and she had summin negative to say about it. she kept going on and on about how bored she was, she everyone to drive her everywhere and wouldnt say thank you when u've gone out of your way to drop her off somewhere, complained about traffic (like that was anyones fault). . .

we finally had an argument and she packed up her stuff and left!

ok so this was another rant but really i was raised largely in Nigeria and it is ingrained to be hospitable and go out of your way to make your house guests comfortable but what do u do when u have a house guest that can't be pleased

mesmya:

fling them out,one hand

mesmya:

fling them out,one hand

mesmya:

fling them out,one hand

One two one two shap shap

mesmya:

fling them out,one hand

HR.hotness:

I recently had a friends sister stay with me and I never had the urge like i did with her, to throw someone out of my house. . .

It started with a days visit, she said she was in Lagos and i offered to take her out for lunch, i had a few errands to run and so we spent d whole day driving around and finally ended up in my house. I was to meet up with friends at a bar that night and i invited her to tag along even tho it wasn't her scene. she was bored and agreed to join us, needless to say the evening was awkward as she doesnt drink or smoke and cld not wrap her head around the fact that fun for us was just hanging out. she kept complaining about how boring the evening was, how she would rather go clubbing and meet men who would spend money on her. i did warn her about what the evening would be like but she didnt seem to mind so i spent the later part of d evening trying to prevent her from saying sothing that would upset my friends.

the evening ended on a peaceful note and i was relieved, afterall she'll be leaving the next day right? WRONG!

by the time i woke up (i am not an early riser) her weekend bag was in my house and she had made herself right at home. I didnt complain, its a big house and i assumed she was going to do her thing and not interfer with mine. how wrong i was again. ther was no food in the house and i ws too lazy to cook, so i asked a friend who was on his way to see me to pick up summin from a fastfood place, he said he was broke and wouldnt be able to bring much, which i understood. my dear friend then decided to place an expensive order and worse still didnt say thank you when the meal arrived. instead she complained about how bland d food was and didnt even hav the courtesy to wait for d poor boy to be out of ear shot.

by the 3rd day everyone in my house was sick of her, she complained about everything, the water, the mattress, the food. . . name it and she had summin negative to say about it. she kept going on and on about how bored she was, she everyone to drive her everywhere and wouldnt say thank you when u've gone out of your way to drop her off somewhere, complained about traffic (like that was anyones fault). . .

we finally had an argument and she packed up her stuff and left!

ok so this was another rant but really i was raised largely in Nigeria and it is ingrained to be hospitable and go out of your way to make your house guests comfortable but what do u do when u have a house guest that can't be pleased

HR.hotness:

I recently had a friends sister stay with me and I never had the urge like i did with her, to throw someone out of my house. . .

It started with a days visit, she said she was in Lagos and i offered to take her out for lunch, i had a few errands to run and so we spent d whole day driving around and finally ended up in my house. I was to meet up with friends at a bar that night and i invited her to tag along even tho it wasn't her scene. she was bored and agreed to join us, needless to say the evening was awkward as she doesnt drink or smoke and cld not wrap her head around the fact that fun for us was just hanging out. she kept complaining about how boring the evening was, how she would rather go clubbing and meet men who would spend money on her. i did warn her about what the evening would be like but she didnt seem to mind so i spent the later part of d evening trying to prevent her from saying sothing that would upset my friends.

the evening ended on a peaceful note and i was relieved, afterall she'll be leaving the next day right? WRONG!

by the time i woke up (i am not an early riser) her weekend bag was in my house and she had made herself right at home. I didnt complain, its a big house and i assumed she was going to do her thing and not interfer with mine. how wrong i was again. ther was no food in the house and i ws too lazy to cook, so i asked a friend who was on his way to see me to pick up summin from a fastfood place, he said he was broke and wouldnt be able to bring much, which i understood. my dear friend then decided to place an expensive order and worse still didnt say thank you when the meal arrived. instead she complained about how bland d food was and didnt even hav the courtesy to wait for d poor boy to be out of ear shot.

by the 3rd day everyone in my house was sick of her, she complained about everything, the water, the mattress, the food. . . name it and she had summin negative to say about it. she kept going on and on about how bored she was, she everyone to drive her everywhere and wouldnt say thank you when u've gone out of your way to drop her off somewhere, complained about traffic (like that was anyones fault). . .

we finally had an argument and she packed up her stuff and left!

ok so this was another rant but really i was raised largely in Nigeria and it is ingrained to be hospitable and go out of your way to make your house guests comfortable but what do u do when u have a house guest that can't be pleased

she was bored and agreed to join us, needless to say the evening was awkward as she doesnt drink or smoke and cld not wrap her head around the fact that fun for us was just hanging out

KarmaMod:

would it have been better for you if she smoked and drank with you guys evehn though it's NOT what she does.  Everything else aside I think you were only wrong wityh this one event. Should have suggested something you'D all enjoy. .

KarmaMod:

Did you say "I'm going out with friends to drink and smoke" or "I'm going to hang out with friends"

Cayon:

Speaking another language in front of someone who doesn't understand it is just as rude as whispering into someone's ear in front of them. Having someone in the room and intentionally leaving them out of a conversation is bad manners. Period. My brother and his wife does that all the time even though they speak fluent english. And its even worst when one or two friends drop by.

Peace

KarmaMod:

Did you say "I'm going out with friends to drink and smoke" or "I'm going to hang out with friends"

Beefcake:

Wow, sounds like the ungrateful type. I assume that she was from out of town. What I don't understand is why she was crashing at your place and where was your sister all this time??

Laurnetta:

@ topic

I think its bad manners for people especially women to drink and smoke in front of other people, more importantly other people who do not share in your bad habits.

Laurnetta:

@ topic

I think its bad manners for people especially women to drink and smoke in front of other people, more importantly other people who do not share in your bad habits.

syren:

@ poster

I know, it's so hard being a good hostess. 

I mean what do you do with a guest who constantly farts in your presence?

I'm really suffering here