I love my girlfriend very much, i mean this cos iv had countless number of women b4 she came along and its been bliss since. we have been dating for close to a yr now and both parents know and approve the relationship. However, i have a feeling that she has an induced love towards me perhaps because the effizy etc i showed(and still do) during the time i was asking her out, the extremes i got to to make her happy etc, and that she deep down inside doesnt love me "as much as i do".She cuts the pix of a mum's girl but she keeps secrets alot. most tins i discoverd about her later were thru hearsays which she wud confirm, but i cudnt understand y she neva opend up despite hw much i mite have askd her b4. she just came back from a vac and while she was there, kept mute about wot was appening until i asked her and she then admitted "pressures" from guys. a particular one she claimed was her friend thru out the vac sent her a txt which i stumbled upon saying he cudnt sleep without saying gudnite to her. id eralier seen many pixs they snapped 2geda etc. She had previously done a lot that space wudnt permit

a lot i feel bothers on the fact that i showed her too early in the relationship that i was serious about her, iv a feelin if id treatd her like the "other girl" tins mite be different. im finding it difficult to trust her cos a part of me tells me she's just playing along prob cos everyone says "we are such a perfect match" and im seriously thinkin of looking for another woman. i tink iv come a long way to know when a woman is trully in love with me, the symptoms are all the same everywhere, love i believe has one language,

she doesnt seem to speak it!

Ahoy Pyr8te, You have said it all she obviously doesnt love you the way you love her.But give her a second chance and talk about hw you feel to her if she gives 2 cent about you then she will calm down and be serious.