Having been on the receiving end in the past and having just witnessed my unfortunate twin brother getting 'dumped', at the ripe age of 30, will some of us ever learn why women dump men? Or are we doomed to forever try and unravel this great mystery in the hope of one day steering joyfully through calm, clear waters as some lucky ladys faithful.i want to know?

In my own point of view and with what recently happened in my relationship. Women dump men when some certain men behave so proud and disregard their babe's feelings anytime they are together,as if one cant do without them, Secondly if he womanises so much ( some babes cant overlook infidelity in their boyfriends) and lastly perhaps, if a suitor with more money/vision comes around to woo her for a more stable relationship wiht what you've been showing her , then she could change her mind and move on ( Ouch! dat hurts, but na so O!

Also, a hot tip, always listen to your gf when she airs her views even if you wont take to them. Inshort, always try and communicate constructively wiht her , even if you have a tight schedule send texts or calls if your job , do not create time to see her often. Inshort, treat her as you would want someonelse, especially your lover to treat you Just be good to her and if she's yours, fine and if not your wife is elsewhere hoping to meet you. Life is all about risk, even in relationships.

when there is no money

Money

money and Money

victorian:

In my own point of view and with what recently happened in my relationship. Women dump men when some certain men behave so proud and disregard their babe's feelings anytime they are together,as if one can't do without them, Secondly if he womanises so much ( some babes can't overlook infidelity in their boyfriends) and lastly perhaps, if a suitor with more money/vision comes around to woo her for a more stable relationship wiht what you've been showing her , then she could change her mind and move on ( Ouch! that hurts, but na so O!

thats the closest you came to the answer in all you wrote

what has vision got to do with it? abi the suitor na pastor or evangelist?

The way ladies reason these days there always signs sha so you have to be on the lookout for them so you do the dumping and not the other way round

A-40:

The way ladies reason these days there always signs sha so you have to be on the lookout for them so you do the dumping and not the other way round

Gbabe!!!!!

all this na long story. If a woman will dump you the handwriting would long have been on the wall . . .

davidylan*:

all this na long story. If a woman will dump you the handwriting would long have been on the wall . . .

People, that's why I love David. Preach it.

davidylan*:

all this na long story. If a woman will dump you the handwriting would long have been on the wall . . .

Not in all cases.

Girls are conceited! most times you are usually the last to know the girl is sick and tired of you its better to be on the offensive.Mr Niceguy does not work nowadays

Aren't we just good at pretence? Yawns!!!!

when a guy has no confidence,
when a guy speaks bad english,
when a guy has got a BAD atitude, (arrogance,rude,full of himself)
when a guy does not fit into my lifestyle, (was at a place once &this guy was staring at me and he seemed to have the swagger, i smiled back and minutes later he was picking his nose) u see my head rejects such people, 
Then ofcourse Money, Money, Money ( i earn my own money, but i still love it when i am pampered with gifts not to the extent of running the guy bankrupt o) afterall most women are natural  beauties but that sophistication you saw and pursued comes only from Grooming (from the bottle and it cost money)

TIP: Groom yourself, moisturise your body,nice perfume, pedicure,swagger,take a vocabulary lesson, and never do that she shld love me for me thingy, me should be the best u can be.
Go and never be dumped no more, 

the reasons y women dump men are numerous, but one which most guys never knew of is that of pretension on the part of the lady.
many ladies out there hanging out with guys they dont love or feel 4 D GUY, yea all they r doing is acting, they meet a guy nice looks finacially able etc,thou they dont feel anything 4 d guy, they decide to pretend and manage the guy until their heart desire shows up.
This is what makes it heart breaking 4 d guy cos he believes he has found a soul mate not knowing she is just managing him,n pretending all along not even complaining or wanting to make the guy a better person.
All she is interested in is that for the moment i have a guy that meets/supplies all my needs

horny4u
when a guy has no confidence,
when a guy speaks bad english,
when a guy has got a BAD atitude, (arrogance,rude,full of himself)
when a guy does not fit into my lifestyle, (was at a place once &this guy was staring at me and he seemed to have the swagger, i smiled back and minutes later he was picking his nose) u see my head rejects such people,
Then ofcourse Money, Money, Money ( i earn my own money, but i still love it when i am pampered with gifts not to the extent of running the guy bankrupt o) afterall most women are natural beauties but that sophistication you saw and pursued comes only from Grooming (from the bottle and it cost money)

see its not about confidence, speaking english , attitude or what hav u, this things can be changed or worked upon if you trully care about d guy, the bottomline is that the ladies r just pretending/managing d guys 4 d benefits accruable

horny4u:

when a guy has no confidence,
when a guy speaks bad english,
when a guy has got a BAD atitude, (arrogance,rude,full of himself)
when a guy does not fit into my lifestyle, (was at a place once &this guy was staring at me and he seemed to have the swagger, i smiled back and minutes later he was picking his nose) u see my head rejects such people, 
Then ofcourse Money, Money, Money ( i earn my own money, but i still love it when i am pampered with gifts not to the extent of running the guy bankrupt o) afterall most women are natural  beauties but that sophistication you saw and pursued comes only from Grooming (from the bottle and it cost money)

TIP: Groom yourself, moisturise your body,nice perfume, pedicure,swagger,take a vocabulary lesson, and never do that she shld love me for me thingy, me should be the best u can be.
Go and never be dumped no more, 

the above post is ON POINT to some degree.  i disagree with the money aspect. some women wouldnt give a flying toss if u had money or not. i believe most women like a guy that makes an effort.

But yes, u got to smell nice. there's something called deodorant. those toe nails got to be on point. how about those crusty looking sole? . . . . . etc etc etc

4 those men that keep saying money, money, money, i feel so sorry for u o, u r so ignorant.
as 4 me am not after money cos i got mine but my man must be generous. i believe that a woman should pull her weight in a relationship. i like to spend on my man but he must also want to do the same. from my experience with men, once a woman starts spending, d man becomes shameless and starts expecting it and this shouldnt be.
a man shouldnt expect a woman 2 pick d bills, if she truly loves u and can afford to, she will, sometimes. if not take her to where u can afford and do only what u can afford.

Money is very cold comfort on a bed at night.
A woman leaves when she feels he doesn't really love her.
Can you listen to her? Can you care for her to be enjoying relations too? Do you laugh together?
A woman who leaves a man that cherishes her is deserving of what she will receive.

Chose carefully. Chose from a Godly family.
If you chose a money hungry woman you will never hold her with any amount of money. If you chose a great beauty then she will be chased and offered after by others. There will always be someone handsomer than you.

You should chose a woman who has a good mother, Who loves the Lord, who knows how to love and enjoys a good laugh.

This woman will be a comfort and a helper for a soulmate for your whole life. As long as you keep your love precious for her and don't hunt around.

Look for a life partner not a piece of fluff to carry around and show off. It is arrogance that leads to poor choices.

frecklesnz:

Money is very cold comfort on a bed at night.
A woman leaves when she feels he doesn't really love her.
Can you listen to her? Can you care for her to be enjoying relations too? Do you laugh together?
A woman who leaves a man that cherishes her is deserving of what she will receive.

Chose carefully. Chose from a Godly family.
If you chose a money hungry woman you will never hold her with any amount of money. If you chose a great beauty then she will be chased and offered after by others. There will always be someone handsomer than you.

You should chose a woman who has a good mother, Who loves the Lord, who knows how to love and enjoys a good laugh.

This woman will be a comfort and a helper for a soulmate for your whole life. As long as you keep your love precious for her and don't hunt around.

Look for a life partner not a piece of fluff to carry around and show off. It is arrogance that leads to poor choices.

Perfect

1. No money
2. Lack of trust
3. No love

Money?

The late M.K.O had 26 legal wives and several concubines why? They all love him right?

WHy didnt anyone of them leave him despite the fact that he shares his love, care, cold nights, laughs with over 100 women?

Let me ask girls whom would you rather date Paddy Mike- Adenuga who is loaded or A-40 who is perpetually broke? sincere Answers pls!!

dayokanu:

Money?

The late M.K.O had 26 legal wives and several concubines why? They all love him right?

WHy didnt anyone of them leave him despite the fact that he shares his love, care, cold nights, laughs with over 100 women?

Let me ask girls whom would you rather date Paddy Mike- Adenuga who is loaded or A-40 who is perpetually broke? sincere Answers please!!

preach on pastor