My mum came to visit us in the US lately. I am the only son of my mum and I have siblings in different states in the US. When my mum was in the kitchen, my wife said she should get out of her kitchen that she was using all the utensils to make noise. She was rude to my mum in my presence and I just couldn't take it all in. I slapped her and warned her never to be rude to my mum. She packed out of the house and told me to choose between my mum and her. My mum can go and stay with my other siblings but I want my Mum too in my house. Wat will anyone out dere have done ?

Good move brotha. Nothing good can come out of a woman that has the gut to hurl insults at her MIL.

banji100: My mum came to visit us in the US lately. I am the only son of my mum and I have siblings in different states in the US. When my mum was in the kitchen, my wife said she should get out of her kitchen that she was using all the utensils to make noise. She was rude to my mum in my presence and I just couldn't take it all in. I slapped her and warned her never to be rude to my mum. She packed out of the house and told me to choose between my mum and her. My mum can go and stay with my other siblings but I want my Mum too in my house. Wat will anyone out dere have done ?

u did the right thing,and let your mom stay, she can go, well she will come back if she is really yours,but accept her back

banji100: My mum came to visit us in the US lately. I am the only son of my mum and I have siblings in different states in the US. When my mum was in the kitchen, my wife said she should get out of her kitchen that she was using all the utensils to make noise. She was rude to my mum in my presence and I just couldn't take it all in. I slapped her and warned her never to be rude to my mum. She packed out of the house and told me to choose between my mum and her. My mum can go and stay with my other siblings but I want my Mum too in my house. Wat will anyone out dere have done ?

. Left to me I don't think u should hit a woman no matter wat she does. Men should learn that it is wrong to lay hand on the opposite sex

@Bastien and talon05 tanks 4 understanding while @adedoyin64 would u have done d same thing or would u av any1 treat ur mother dat way?

adedoyin64: . Left to me I don't think u should hit a woman no matter wat she does. Men should learn that it is wrong to lay hand on the opposite sex

Gbam, your wife is your 2nd mother. Don't beat her.

Your mum will come and go. Dont let her overstay like 1 or 2 weeks so they don't start fighting over too much familiarity. Women are territorial beings.

okpara ugo:

Gbam, your wife is your 2nd mother. Don't beat her.

Your mum will come and go. Dont let her overstay like 1 or 2 weeks so they don't start fighting over too much familiarity. Women are territorial beings.

. @ okpara ugo: share ur idea what would u have done if u were to be in my shoes.

If it weren't for that woman who was "making noise with the kitchen utensils" she wouldn't have a husband. I do believe it was a slap well deserved

Mondisweets: If it weren't for that woman who was "making noise with the kitchen utensils" she wouldn't have a husband. I do believe it was a slap well deserved

nodding my head

ty-tymer:
nodding my head

whats the for?

Mondisweets: whats the for?

for that surprising comment from a feminist.

Just kidding

Lmao I'm sure that slap must be so hot to warrant her to sign out.

Next time don't lay your hands on her but mehn! She was rude! You should have calm the issue down then later in your closet, you trash it out!

By the way, where is she from? I guess she ain't a Nigerian, especially a Yoruba lady? Is she?

As for your mama, make she too learn not to disturb people's peace. That's not her own kitchen! .


I know many will criticize this post! catch me if you can.

ty-tymer:
for that surprising comment from a feminist.

Just kidding

you clearly understand nothing about feminism

Mondisweets:
you clearly understand nothing about feminism

really? Lol.

Anyway, I was kidding.

ma.d because she insulted ur mum u hit her .........

ty-tymer:
really? Lol.

Anyway, I was kidding.

okay

Yes it was wrong to slap your wife. Basically u idolize ur mum but ur wife is a nobody.

Yes, it was wrong of ur wife to be rude to your mum but your mum should not cook for you when ur wife is around. Do u not know the implications of your wedding vows? Forsaking all others? It didn't say forsaking all others except your mother. Right from your wedding day, the bond between your mum and u is broken. You belong to another.

ur wife asked u to choose between her and ur mom and u chose ur mom? U didn't handle the situation maturely. Nobody should ever take the place of ur wife but I'm not saying she should be rude to you or your family.

U beta look for her, make peace and all of u should settle with ur mum and then after a couple of days ship her off to the next sibling.

P.S the prayers of husband and wife goes up to God faster than husband and mother!

Did u not say u stay in america? If I were ur wife I would have had u arrested for domestic violence

@ sapphire86 takes alot really helpful comments and everyone thanks. Latest update she is back and all is settled and has promised not to do that again i said also promised not to lay hands on her again. Thanks once again 4 d comments

austine4real: ma.d because she insulted ur mum u hit her .........

Haba put yourself in my shoes wat will u av done[color=#006600][/color]

banji100: @ sapphire86 takes alot really helpful comments and everyone thanks. Latest update she is back and all is settled and has promised not to do that again i said also promised not to lay hands on her again. Thanks once again 4 d comments

You got lucky!

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softsparkyy: Women should learn how to tolerate one another. since your mum is not staying forever she would have ignored and let the old woman be. Everybody will get old one day you know.

Thanks alot u re rilly on point

If it was my wife,i wll call in2 d bedrum& caution,or correct her on d spot...u knw nt all women are tolerant