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18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by succyreal(m): 8:54am On Jul 03, 2014
The following 18 secrets will help you know and understand your man very well and will surely leads to a lasting and fruitful relationship.

1. Men Will Talk About Feelings
It may be easier for your man to talk about feelings indirectly. Ask what he'd do during a romantic weekend. Or what he thought the first time he met you. His answers will reveal how he feels and bring you closer.

2. Men Say "I Love You" With Actions
Some men prefer to express their feelings through actions rather than words. Your guy may say "I love you" by fixing things around the house, tidying up the yard, or even taking out the trash -- anything that makes your world a better place.

3.Men Take Commitment Seriously
Men have a reputation for being afraid to commit. But the evidence suggests men take marriage seriously. They may take longer to commit because they want to make sure they are onboard for good. In a survey of currently married men, 90% say they would marry the same woman again.

4.He Really Is Listening
When you're listening to someone talk, you probably pipe in with a "yes" or "I see" every now and then. It's your way of saying, "I'm listening." But some guys don't do this. Just because a man isn't saying anything doesn't mean he's not listening. He may prefer to listen quietly and think about what you're saying.

5. Shared Activities Form Bonds
Men strengthen their relationships primarily through shared activities more than by sharing thoughts or feelings. For many men, activities like sports and sex make them feel closer to their partner.

6. Men Need Time for Themselves
While shared activities are important, men also need time for themselves. Whether your guy enjoys golf, gardening, or working out at the gym, encourage him to pursue his hobbies, while you make time for your own. When both partners have space to nurture their individuality, they have more to give to each other.

7. Men Learn From Their Fathers
If you want to know how a man will act in a relationship, get to know his dad. Some say men learn about their relationship role by watching and listening to their fathers. How they are with each other and how the father relates to the mother can predict how a man will relate to his wife.

8. Men Let Go Faster Than Women
Women tend to remember negative experiences longer and may have lingeringfeelings of stress, anxiety, or sadness. In contrast, men are less likely to dwell on unpleasant events and tend to move on more quickly. So while you may still want to talk about last night's argument, your guy may have already forgotten about it.

9.Men Don't Pick Up on Subtle Cues Men are more likely to miss subtle signals like tone of voice or facial expressions. And they are especially likely to miss sadness on a woman's face. If you want to make sure your guy gets the message, be direct.

10.Men Respond to Appreciation
Showing appreciation for your guy can make a big difference in the way he acts. Take parenting. Studies show that fathers are more involved in care-giving when their wives value their involvement and seethem as competent.

11.Men Think About Sex ... A Lot
OK, so maybe this one is no secret. The majority of men under age 60 think about sex at least once a day, compared with only a quarter of women. And that's not all.Men fantasize about sex nearly twice as often as women do, and their fantasies are much more varied. They also think more about casual sex than women do. But thinking is not the same as doing.

12.Men Find Sex Significant
It's a myth that most men think sex is just sex. For many, sex is a very important act between two committed people. And just like most women, men find sexual intimacyto be most satisfying in the context of a committed relationship. One reason is thatlong-term partners know how to please one another better than strangers do.

13.He Likes It When You Initiate Sex
Most guys feel as though they're the ones who always initiate sex. But they also like to be pursued and wish their partner wouldtake the lead more often. Don't be shy about letting your guy know you're in the mood. Initiating sex some of the time may lead to a higher level of satisfaction for both of you.

14.Guys Aren't Always Up for Sex
Men, much to many women's surprise, aren't always in the mood for sex. Just like women, men are often stressed by the demands of work, family, and paying the bills. And stress is a big libido crusher. When a guy says, "not tonight," it doesn't mean he's lost interest in you. He just means he doesn't want to have sex right then.

15.Men Like Pleasing Their Partner
Your pleasure is important to your man. But he won't know what you want unless you tell him. Too many women feel uncomfortable talking about what they likeand don't like. If you can tell him clearly in a way that doesn't bruise his ego, he'll listen. Because he knows he'll feel good if you feel good.

16.Guys Get Performance Anxiety
Most men get performance anxiety on occasion, especially as they age. Your guy may worry about his physique, technique, and stamina. If you can help him learn to relax and stay focused on the pleasures of the moment, sex will become less stressful.

17.Men May Stray When Needs Aren't Met
If a man doesn't feel loved and appreciated in his relationship, he may turn elsewhere for satisfaction. For one man, that may mean burying himself in work. Another may develop a fixation on sports or video games. And some men cheat. To avoid this, partners need to work together to meet each other's needs.

18.He's Vested in You
Most men realize there's a lot to lose if a long-term relationship goes sour -- not just each other's company, but the entire life you've built together. If you're willing to work to strengthen your marriage, chances are your man will be, too.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by dkronicle(m): 9:10am On Jul 03, 2014
Waiting for 18 secrets women want men to know. I pray this topic makes fp

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by succyreal(m): 9:23am On Jul 03, 2014
dkronicle: Waiting for 18 secrets women want men to know. I pray this topic makes fp
soon it will come up am working on that " secrets women want men to know"
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by KillerBeauty(f): 9:34am On Jul 03, 2014
Okay

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by crackhaus: 10:00am On Jul 03, 2014
With reference to number 16, I used to have mild bursts of performance anxiety when I was a lot younger (mid-teens)....this was until I grew up and realized it's not government work and I don't get paid for it undecided

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by UjSizzle(f): 10:07am On Jul 03, 2014
Oh, well embarassed There is a lot we need to learn about each other.

Thanks OP, can't wait for the women version cheesy


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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by UjSizzle(f): 10:09am On Jul 03, 2014
crackhaus: With reference to number 16, I used to have mild bursts of performance anxiety when I was a lot younger (mid-teens)....this was until I grew up and realized it's not government work and I don't get paid for it undecided
grin Lmao! You don't think satisfying your babe is worth being anxious over? tongue

*Note to self* Crackhaus is not eligible.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Acidosis(m): 10:19am On Jul 03, 2014
This again shows that women are better cheats


3.Men Take Commitment Seriously Men have a reputation for being afraid to commit. But the evidence suggests men take marriage seriously. They may take longer to commit because they want to make sure they are onboard for good. In a survey of currently married men, 90% say they would marry the same woman again.

Most married women prefer their ex boyfriends.
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by crackhaus: 10:33am On Jul 03, 2014
uj_sizzle:
grin Lmao! You don't think satisfying your babe is worth being anxious over? tongue

*Note to self* Crackhaus is not eligible.
I'm as eligible as they come... and Yes, I can't be anxious over satisfying my girl sexxually...definitely not at this point in my life.
I believe it's called confidence bebe grin

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by LMAyedun(m): 10:43am On Jul 03, 2014
Okay!!!
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Nobody: 10:43am On Jul 03, 2014
Every woman knows men like sex now.
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by adanduka: 10:44am On Jul 03, 2014
Why would a man be fixing things around the house to say I love you. He should say it and then fix things too to drive home his confessions.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Damalex4luv(m): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2014
Nothing like the word love again in the mind of the guys nowadays. All we want is s.....x. And the girls want money in exchange for their p...nny.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by saasala(m): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2014
Oya ladies, I want you to read the 10 secrets men are keeping from you. Read it here: http://www..com/groups/romance/forum/topic/10-secrets-men-keep-from-women/

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Busuyib(f): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2014
Noted.
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by xynerise: 10:47am On Jul 03, 2014
Seriously, this is becoming boring undecided

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by slap1(m): 10:48am On Jul 03, 2014
I like the 'showing love' part. Some girls think saying 'I love you' means you actually do. It's not my nature to keep reciting 'I love you.' I'd rather show it.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by TearsOfTheSun(m): 10:48am On Jul 03, 2014
Busuyib: .
Damalex4luv: K

At your age.. tongue

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Aitee1: 10:49am On Jul 03, 2014
Una don start dis una men and women thread again undecided
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Gentlemimi2: 10:49am On Jul 03, 2014
Point 6....same way ladies and women need time off too. Time off from crying babies,demanding husbands and family. But does anyone think so? No! They say it is irresponsibility. You must be dedicated.....bla bla bla. Women,pursue ur hobbies too...

Point 7...learn,ladies! If his father is violent to his mom....*sneezes*

Point 8 and 9...no time to say no time. While we are carrying beef,the guy is thinking of making dough for himself. Keep trying to give hints,he's thinking of scoring up some owu. Money tins on point.

In summary,men love sex. To hv a successful relationship,think like a man,act like a lady and ..........

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by dre11(m): 10:50am On Jul 03, 2014
Am so guilty of that number 9
i no sabi decode cluecrycry

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by justi4jesu(f): 10:50am On Jul 03, 2014
dkronicle: Waiting for 18 secrets women want men to know. I pray this topic makes fp

Your prayer has been answered, now put your offering and bless the Pastor grin tongue
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Inkredible(m): 10:51am On Jul 03, 2014
crackhaus: With reference to number 16, I used to have mild bursts of performance anxiety when I was a lot younger (mid-teens)....this was until I grew up and realized it's not government work and I don't get paid for it undecided
hahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahhaahahahahaha U for continue na! U wan die join am?

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Nobody: 10:52am On Jul 03, 2014
No. 14 is a BIG FAT LIE.
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Lordabas: 10:53am On Jul 03, 2014
Well now that all our "secrets" are out....lets all just go have a beer.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Nobody: 10:53am On Jul 03, 2014
Noted! Same goes 4 us as well

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by kay9(m): 10:53am On Jul 03, 2014
adanduka: Why would a man be fixing things around the house to say I love you. He should say it and then fix things too to drive home his confessions.

You cant eat your cake and have it; either i say i love you, or i fix the tv......

... And going by your comment, i think i'll rather fix the tv. cool

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by crackhaus: 10:54am On Jul 03, 2014
Inkredible: hahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahhaahahahahaha U for continue na! U wan die join am?
I wonder...and na me go still lose valuable nutrients undecided

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by Inkredible(m): 10:54am On Jul 03, 2014
But Op how do u know all these things and their factual stand. R u a researcher? Or u just guessed or rather assumed. Ok, maybe u opied and asted. Fill in the gap.
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by nerodenero: 10:54am On Jul 03, 2014
...and every woman hates sex!!!
Amusaopeyemi: Every woman knows men like sex now.
Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by b3llo(m): 10:55am On Jul 03, 2014
Abeg this kind topic is getting stale.

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Re: 18 Secrets Men Want Women To Know by EzePromoe: 10:55am On Jul 03, 2014
undecided

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