fellow nairalanders, there is a guy who need ur view n advise on either to marry a lady frm polygamous family or not. He love the lady but anytime he remember her family he feels somehw about d future of d relatnship if they eventually marry. This guy is bornagain n d lady also but none of d lady's parents is bornagain. so, do u think he should marry her or not.

Ermmm....is he marrying the lady's parents of the lady herself?

So her parents being bornagain or not is now a criteria for marriage?

Tell yr friend to wait a few more years, he is not yet ripe for business, such immaturity would lead to 'had i known' syndrome

He is more concern about the polygamous nature of her family and not abt d bornagainism of the parent

hopebd: fellow nairalanders, there is a guy who need ur view n advise on either to marry a lady frm polygamous family or not. He love the lady but anytime he remember her family he feels somehw about d future of d relatnship if they eventually marry. This guy is bornagain n d lady also but none of d lady's parents is bornagain. so, do u think he should marry her or not.

@OP, the guy at this point in his life should have known what wants in a woman before contemplating marriage. Also, his maturity and priority levels should have been straightened up to a reasonable extent before thinking about marriage. However, my own take is that what ever he sees and encounters now and feels he can not live with it during marriage, he should not bother entering into the marriage. But if on the other hand, he feels he can handle and live with anything that is within the perimeter of the relationship before entering marriage, then he can decide to give the marriage a shot. But the bulk of the entire decision stops at his table because he is the one in the relationship and as such, has more real-time experience on the relationship.

If he is having doubts then he shouldnt.


dont marry anyone whose background you are not comfortable with, or cant handle.