striktlymi:
I neither smoke nor drink bear but if I have a habit that us not exactly socially desirable e.g smoking too much or getting drunk; I would appreciate, greatly, a lady who would help me come out of those socially undesirable behaviours.

A relationship that does not improve me as a person is quite futile. Though the lady is not responsible for changing me and I won't advice anyone to stay with another simply because of the hope of a chance but being blessed by such a person is a good to have.

thanks Bro....u have got a point.

Smartiegurl:
how about collecting ur stick of cigarette from u while smoking nd the bottle in ur hand? What u gon do about that?

That shouldn't bother anyone at all.
She doesn't go everywhere you go all day.

Truckpusher:
That shouldn't bother anyone at all.
She doesn't go everywhere you go all day.

it differs.....at least she wasn't there.

I shld quit a legacy (alcohol) passed from my father to me because of a girl I love? If I do, my papa go disown me. I dnt smoke but alcohol runs in d family's lineage. So if she loves me, she has to accept me for who I am. I can't hide it cos wen she comes to d family's home to visit, she ma go know say na brewery family she meet. It's hereditary and its not gonna stop in my lineage. Of dat I'm sure

undisputednesta:
I shld quit a legacy (alcohol) passed from my father to me because of a girl I love? If I do, my papa go disown me. I dnt smoke but alcohol runs in d family's lineage. So if she loves me, she has to accept me for who I am. I can't hide it cos wen she comes to d family's home to visit, she ma go know say na brewery family she meet. It's hereditary and its not gonna stop in my lineage. Of dat I'm sure

No offence.....do u get drunk after drinking?

Smartiegurl:
No offence.....do u get drunk after drinking?

Nope, was trained to hav a limit and stick to it. Dats y I dnt xceed my limits, wen I am dere, I'm done. I dnt abuse alcohol and takin it on moderation maks u a gud consumer.

Truckpusher:
That's not true

So true

undisputednesta:

Nope, was trained to hav a limit and stick to it. Dats y I dnt xceed my limits, wen I am dere, I'm done. I dnt abuse alcohol and takin it on moderation maks u a gud consumer.

is a good thing u don't misbehave under d influence of alcohol.....

I don't smoke but drink(frequently)..but hv meet 2 girls that always push me to smoke,when we go out with my friends,they will say u'r too gentle,see all ur friends are smoking why are not smoking..I just look at them and smile(dem nor knw say bad boy nor be by smoking,if e happen nw dem go knw hw far)

Joshrob:
I don't smoke but drink(frequently)..but hv meet 2 girls that always push me to smoke,when we go out with my friends,they will say u'r too gentle,see all ur friends are smoking why are not smoking..I just look at them and smile(dem nor knw say bad boy nor be by smoking,if e happen nw dem go knw hw far)

seriously? A girl would want u to smoke? Ilaugh...