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Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by faithugo64(f): 8:26pm On Jul 11, 2014
A friend told me sometime past that spending for your guy is totally wrong and will make you loose your respect in a r/ship. How true is this?is it wrong for a girl to buy things for her partner as a form of appreciation or to make him happy
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jul 11, 2014
I just pushed a girl outta my lifej cus of same greed; how will u feel if u keep spending on someone n he/she nvr 4 1ce reciprocate kind gestures? Will u as a human feel happy about dat?
See; no body wants anoda parasite on him/her; I do,k( have an issue buying things for people, buh wen it is nvr reciprocated, den I have an issue; n trust me I wnt want such kinda greedy people around me!!! Many ladys are just so greedy; life is nvr 1 sided....

(I was very pained seeing this topic; I just maintained my cool, to give this comment; appreciate it)

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Swot26(m): 8:38pm On Jul 11, 2014
Is like pouring water in an empty basket there,allow ur guy to spend on you....guys heart are hard like rock,dey fall in love to whom they love........,,,,,,,we are bad oooo grin
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by fuckshit: 8:40pm On Jul 11, 2014
there's not FÜCKING wrong
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2014
No biggie buying things for the guy as long as he's buying too.

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 11, 2014
there is nothing wrong spending on your guy,,,,you can spend on anyone you like its your cash
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by dytbabe: 8:47pm On Jul 11, 2014
Same way its not wrong a guy spending for a lady
Bt the only wrong thing is if u take that partner for granted

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by manutdadex(m): 8:51pm On Jul 11, 2014
when you spend or do too much for a guy dat is nt ur husband instinctively we widraw all our affections, its a risky game but some guys are worth it but very rare! From a guy!
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 11, 2014
faithugo64: A friend told me sometime past that spending for your guy is totally wrong and will make you loose your respect in a r/ship. How true is this?is it wrong for a girl to buy things for her partner as a form of appreciation or to make him happy
It depends... for me I see nothing wrong in buying gifts for your lover. if the lady is independent good if she isn't then that's a topic for another day.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Smartsyn(m): 8:57pm On Jul 11, 2014
Op please rephrase the topic thus " Buying boxer and singlelets for a guy in a relationship, right or wrong? "

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Tallesty1(m): 9:02pm On Jul 11, 2014
Expect nothing if you don't give anything, Guys's eyes don open.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jul 11, 2014
Women would always want to eat their cake and have it.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by STENON(f): 9:15pm On Jul 11, 2014
I dnt buy things for Him alone, I also buy some stuff for his room mate.


The conclusion is jst that some will never appreciate your effort in their Life.....

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by dre11(m): 10:50pm On Jul 11, 2014
That ur friend nah miser?and thief

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Dygeasy(m): 10:57pm On Jul 11, 2014
dreyjacs:
It depends... for me I see nothing wrong in buying gifts for your lover. if the lady is independent good if she isn't then that's a topic for another day.
Don't derail. We're not talking about the financial capabilities here.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Dygeasy(m): 10:59pm On Jul 11, 2014
Raymondenyi: I just pushed a girl outta my lifej cus of same greed; how will u feel if u keep spending on someone n he/she nvr 4 1ce reciprocate kind gestures? Will u as a human feel happy about dat?
See; no body wants anoda parasite on him/her; I do,k( have an issue buying things for people, buh wen it is nvr reciprocated, den I have an issue; n trust me I wnt want such kinda greedy people around me!!! Many ladys are just so greedy; life is nvr 1 sided....

(I was very pained seeing this topic; I just maintained my cool, to give this comment; appreciate it)
We should appreciate you venting your anger on this thread?

Thank you o. undecided
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 11, 2014
Dygeasy: We should appreciate you venting your anger on this thread?

Thank you o. undecided

LOL.. Now that's what I call - expression. @ bolded. grin
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by faithugo64(f): 11:12pm On Jul 11, 2014
Dygeasy: We should appreciate you venting your anger on this thread?

Thank you o. undecided
seconded!

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 11, 2014
For me, I won't ever try such AGAIN.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by freecharles(m): 11:59pm On Jul 11, 2014
MzMariah: For me, I won't ever try such AGAIN.

why, whats bad in that??
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by manutdadex(m): 12:04am On Jul 12, 2014
STENON: I dnt buy things for Him alone, I also buy some stuff for his room mate/ best of friends.....


The conclusion is jst that some will never appreciate your effort in their Life.....
u dont av to pls someone b4 dey love or respect u...all i av to say is u went too far,buyin gifts for him is nt wise and buyin for frnds and roomy u went too far. Bad bizness!
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 2:01am On Jul 12, 2014
MzMariah: For me, I won't ever try such AGAIN.
Eyaaaah but Mariah you know you can't change who you are.
Likewise me, I have said to myself so many times that I will never spend my cash on any nigga again but guess what?




















We cant change who we truly are.

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by zicoraads: 4:02am On Jul 12, 2014
Nothing wrong in it.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by STENON(f): 5:15am On Jul 12, 2014
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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by STENON(f): 5:18am On Jul 12, 2014
[quote
author=manutdadex]u dont av to pls someone b4 dey love or respect
u...all i av to say is u went too far,buyin gifts for him is nt wise and
buyin for frnds and roomy u went too far. Bad bizness![/quote] Accepted!....
The truth is that I dnt always visit someone empty-handed.

What I'm trying to say is that, If i shld pay him a visit and mt his
frnds/room mate with him.......Is it bad in sharing wot you brought(not
expensive things, bt sometin like snacks, drinks, etc) with them, or
you shld jst greet and forgt abt them?
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by xtervaganza(m): 5:45am On Jul 12, 2014
MzMariah: For me, I won't ever try such AGAIN.
once a maga is.......
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:00am On Jul 12, 2014
Dygeasy: Don t derail. We're not talking about the financial capabilities here.
didn't derail. read my post. let me explain: I said for me I see nothing wrong in it. but if the lady is financially independent fine if she isn't then its a different story. most girls here are broke that's the major reason they depend on guys for every little thing and they have only sex to offer in return.

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:35am On Jul 12, 2014
freecharles:

why, whats bad in that??
No its not bad honestly.
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:36am On Jul 12, 2014
xtervaganza: once a maga is.......
undecided
Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:39am On Jul 12, 2014
softsparkyy:
Eyaaaah but Mariah you know you can't change who you are.
Likewise me, I have said to myself so many times that I will never spend my cash on any nigga again but guess what?




















We cant change who we truly are.
Yes dear, we can't change who we are that's why relationship is a no tho area for me now. I don't know why I'm like this, I've tried so hard to be stingy but it never worked. mum says its who I am.

I'm not saying its bad to spend on your guy o, why is he your guy and he also spends for you but some are just not worth it. babe you know my story na? embarassed I no spend again shikena grin

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:43am On Jul 12, 2014
zicoraads: Nothing wrong in it.
There is nothing wrong with it. there are guys who are worth it and some who don't worth it.

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Re: Spending For A Guy In A R/ship,right Or Wrong? by xtervaganza(m): 7:21am On Jul 12, 2014
MzMariah: undecided
talk na

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