I have dated this girl for like 6months now, we both love each other, i love her so much, am the busy type, but recently before she traveled she demanded for a new phone, so i said i will get it for her before she comes back from travel, but the day before she traveled i came back from work so early like 11am so that we can stay together tru out that day and even spend a night 2geda before she travels, but after like 2hrs with her she said she was going out to see a female friend who was calling, so she went out and never came back until 8pm in the night, even before she came back that late i called her she said she's at home, so i went to check for her in her place bc she told me now dat she's in her house packing her loads and to my biggest surprise she wasn't at home even her younger sis said she has not seen her since she came back from school dat day, so I called her again asking her if i can come around to her place and help her out with what she was doing, she SAID NO that i should not worry that she will soon be coming to my place.. and before now i have been suspecting some strange calls she normally answers, she is not normally comfortable to talk with those callerz in my presence.

now while i was stil in her place I called her she said she as on her way to my place, to cut the long story short, i came to my place and met her outside, i asked her while she was outside waiting cos she has her own key to my house, she said NO dat she's rushing that i should come and escort her to her elder sister's place that that is where she gonna to sleep before traveling the next morning, I said OK, dat we should go inside and she refused so I dragged her inside, we went inside. i took her fone to check, checking tru her bbm, whatsapp and i found out she been doing some naughty tinz, using one particular guy for her DP, and chats like when are they going to see and when is the guy going to give her the remaining money and naughty stuffs like that...after raw questioning she admitted she went to rita lori (a hotel and bar) with that her female friend. hmmmmmmm

so I caught her... she cried and begged that night.... even when she traveled she was stil calling begging, now i have forgiven her and i have learnt my lessons, but recently she no longer calls, no flashing, no call me back msgs, am the one calling and whenever I call her, her only question is "HAVE YOU GOTTEN THE PHONE FOR ME'"? so now I have realized that her major concern now is the phone i promised her cos she will soon be coming like next week.

pls fellow nairalanders what do i do cos i really love her but its seems she don't want to change.... i almost bought an S4 for her yesterday in computer village which i returned back after thorough reasoning's, i decided to not buy the phone until she comes back so I can see her reactions and if its the phone thats stil delayin her to take off then i will know....


PLEASE YOUR SINCERE SUGGESTIONS WILL BE HIGHLY APPRECIATED COS AM EMOTIONALLY CONFUSED RIGHT NOW NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO.... Cos the way she answers me on phone are no longer the way she used to talk with me.... should i just let go.... but its not easy... but how do i let go ?

Fish wey don dry nor dey let bend again o.......... Letting go will not be easy but it will be good if you try and let go.

Sijo01: Fish wey don dry nor dey let bend again o.......... Letting go will not be easy but it will be good if you try and let go.

thank you bro... i think thats the best thing to do right now...

okumbe:

thank you bro... i think thats the best thing to do right now...

It's no brainer. Letting go is an understatement.

Run!

thank you

jnrbayano: It's no brainer. Letting go is an understatement.

Run!

Sowwie. She is not so into you let her go.

dats d bst tin to do if u can, let her go she dosnt realy lov u

....Let her go dude....
sometimes, one does not know wat's hers, until it is gone

solomonbrown64: ....Let her go dude....
sometimes, one does not know wat's hers, until it is gone

everybody is saying let her go, not considering the fact that he loves her. My Dear brother I suggest u watch her critically when she comes back, don't accept defeat, if you truly love this girl. I guess she's been carried away by her female frnds nd also material tins. Just be a man.

geeudy: everybody is saying let her go, not considering the fact that he loves her. My Dear brother I suggest u watch her critically when she comes back, don't accept defeat, if you truly love this girl. I guess she's been carried away by her female frnds nd also material tins. Just be a man.

ok, but should I get her the phone b4 she comes back or use it as a way to text her love for me ? Bc the way she talking about dis as if is somtin else that I don't know.

andromida: Sowwie. She is not so into you let her go.

I luv ur moniker, dnt knw why. What's d meaning?

geeudy: everybody is saying let her go, not considering the fact that he loves her. My Dear brother I suggest u watch her critically when she comes back, don't accept defeat, if you truly love this girl. I guess she's been carried away by her female frnds nd also material tins. Just be a man.

dis is far from a battle, she is clearly not in luv wit him, all she want is d phone, ntin mre,
i wuld advice him to move on

free d gal abeg she is a LovePeddler,if u can let her go u too will av peace of mind; dat kind person fit kill u

geeudy: everybody is saying let her go, not considering the fact that he loves her. My Dear brother I suggest u watch her critically when she comes back, don't accept defeat, if you truly love this girl. I guess she's been carried away by her female frnds nd also material tins. Just be a man.

love is pointless if your partner does not FEEL the same way, DISRESPECT that love, DOESNT value your effort and TREATS you like dirt. there is NO other option but to forget about this girl..... in due time, the OP will find another girl that will value him as who he is, and not treat him like a donkey. this lady will NEVER change, thats the sad truth because she has no respect for him or their relationship.

@OP
however hard it may be, you have to let her go YESTERDAY........ nothing good can come out of such deceitful women.

But some girls are wicked o. Imagine...cheating on a guy that loves you? Bros,as I was reading I dropped my phone at one time and put myself in ya shoe. As in me o,I won't even buy this girl any phone and I won't call her again. Imagine,have you gotten my phone for me? You be the father? I hate make girl dey demand things fromg guys. This one come dey cheat wan come collect phone join. Bros no dull guys o. No buy her anything and stop the call.

jnrbayano: It's no brainer. Letting go is an understatement.

Run!

It ain't rocket science.

Almeria:

Almeria:

Heineken: But some girls are wicked o. Imagine...cheating on a guy that loves you? Bros,as I was reading I dropped my phone at one time and put myself in ya shoe. As in me o,I won't even buy this girl any phone and I won't call her again. Imagine,have you gotten my phone for me? You be the father? I hate make girl dey demand things fromg guys. This one come dey cheat wan come collect phone join. Bros no dull guys o. No buy her anything and stop the call.

Thanks bro, just trying to work on my mind but its not easy coz I stil do call her, God help me out cos I even find it so hard to concentrate @ work

Op u need to start thinking urban

been in ur shoes b4 bro. The earlier u let go the faster u will recover. Believe me she will NEVER change for the better

Its a name of a galaxy

bukit05:


I luv ur moniker, dnt knw why. What's d meaning?

Sorry bro, its never easy being a good guy.
Never change anyway, there are still good girls out there

bukit05:


I luv ur moniker, dnt knw why. What's d meaning?

Thank you its from the movie clash of the titans that where I got it from.

geeudy: everybody is saying let her go, not considering the fact that he loves her. My Dear brother I suggest u watch her critically when she comes back, don't accept defeat, if you truly love this girl. I guess she's been carried away by her female frnds nd also material tins. Just be a man.

. Watch her critically? Bros abeg o. No watch anything critically. Na film? Abi na cinematography technique wey person gats watch critically? Its obvious this girl aint serious and she's after your money plus that phone. My mind is even telling me she must have been calling you mugu. My own advise is for you to stop calling her and don't get her any phone. If this girls loves you,her head go calm down and she go come beg. Bro,use the money for the phone buy something for mumsy na. S4 no be small money o.