SPENDING and CARING are two different phenomenons though they share some similarities but most people tends to mistake one for another and this misconception has induced ruefulness in some relationships/marriages in our time owing to materialism and selfishness on both genders which zeros down to the "mindset".
One can spend without being caring in the sense that when one spends just to get noticed/recognized, to intimidate or generally get something in return which is conspicuously geared towards selfishness, it can't be reckoned as being caring but when the "spending" is selflessly designated to impact positively on the beneficiary, that's saliently when it could be tagged/considered as "caring".
Nevertheless, one can care with his/her time, kind words/compliment, selfless and relevant services, knowledge, prayers, bitter truth, strong but diplomatic/constructive words of advice/caution when needed without necessarily spending through one's nose.
So, let's try distinguish between SPENDING and CARING, for us not to experience the consequences of mistaking one for another.

Those who have ears, let them hear.......royal father have said his own!
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