am in love with my old friend what should i do, actually we were friends in undergraduate but she didnt accept my pros, but now both graduated and time made it apperance again and seeing her , the old feeling came around. actually more confidence to say my love for her, am forgeting the fact she might have someelse.am in love and she know it, she say i should take my time. is she gelling!!!!!!!!!!! pls advice me

why didnt she accept before?

so how can we help you? there must be mind readers on nl

call her on the phone and tell her you want to marry her or you will die

really, i think u shd try n find out how she feels abt you before u finally open up to her.i think its better so u dont hav a heartache if she's not game.guess, u think she likes u, but it mite just be as a friend.ask her directly if she can date ur kind of person. just develop a good strategy.wish u all the best, emotions cud be terrible n tricky at times.cheers

I think you should ask her again right away b4 some1 else comes along.

@ poster

What is the meaning of gelling?

really i said it am in love today 17th, but this time she only said am in love with another she wants to marry, but reverse is the case, i got all her data in details that the guy gilted her but am love with her not infatuations!!!!!!!!!!, she is lovely, wifey(!!!!!!) you know wat i meant.but she is the type that is social, loving her is not for being lovely and social but this feeling is different.but if she refuses shuld i play on just friends may be may be she might agree am the only one that is occupying her time as a friend

shegirl7 and Neoblack can you say something on it am down at her reply

Sorry if i understand you,she had a guy and the guy jilted her,and you asked her and she said you can only be her friend?If that is the case i think she is just scared of committing again,but you have to give her time and just stay close.

wellthanks shegirl7, she may be scared but i cant take chances,,well i willwait and be her friend thaks, will need your help in the future as it progresses

It doesn't hurt to try, . . . . . , let her know how u feel,

Especially since u both are seeing each other again after some time.