some people believe that when it comes to marriage,parents's advice should be sought.This is because they are wise and experienced. While others believe that love should do it all.most people end up in unhappy marriages when they don't adhere to their parents's advice while others end up happily. So should marriage be based on love or on parent's advice?

Parents advice for what? They've brought me up well to be able to choose rightly so why will I need to sought their advice to choose a spouse ?

Parent's advice for marriage?
LMAO!

my advice to bachelors & spinsters out there, when its time to choose a "life partner" don't choose with ur heart choose with ur head

@OP
the best would be that the man you love is someone your parents would advise you to marry..... but if they are both opposites then you have to sit down and ask yourself what is important in your life.

we are all different and what works for Femi might not be what works for Kunle.

[quote
author=MRbrownJAY]@OP
the best would be that the man you love is someone your parents would
advise you to marry..... but if they are both opposites then you have to
sit down and ask yourself what is important in your life.

we are all different and what works for Femi might not be what works for
Kunle.[/quote]so if u r torn b/w choosing the love of ur life and taking ur parent's advice,what would you take

faithugo64: so if u r torn b/w choosing the love of ur life and taking ur parent's advice,what would you take

this crossroad will never happen!!!!! i was raised to understand that each and every actions of mine will have consequences, and therefore A) my parents would never in their wildest dream want to choose anyone for me or B) look down or disagree with my decisions.

only one person is going to marry your partner, and live 24/7 with him/her, and thats YOU.....so why should anyone else make that decision?! it says a lot about a person if they cannot even decide on a mate for themselves, and if that is anyone's case, then the only person you should marry is your mummy and daddy, because life is too TOUGH for you.

MRbrownJAY:

this crossroad will never happen!!!!! i was raised to understand that each and every actions of mine will have consequences, and therefore A) my parents would never in their wildest dream want to choose anyone for me or B) look down or disagree with my decisions.

only one person is going to marry your partner, and live 24/7 with him/her, and thats YOU.....so why should anyone else make that decision?! it says a lot about a person if they cannot even decide on a mate for themselves, and if that is anyone's case, then the only person you should marry is your mummy and daddy, because life is too TOUGH for you.

nice one there