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LaurelP: Who told you we had sex?

oh...sorry we forgot you told us dt u didn't av joystick
Now, when you were younger, you fell in lust(not love) childishly. thereafter, after getting more exposures in ur tertiary institution, you got to meet different happening babes with killer packaging, nd ur level upped then you discovered you could no longer be seen relating with you former girl who was PROBABLY unable to get d kind of education you got.
i would advice you not to loose her cos she's an asset for you if she could wait that long for you. Help her to achieve wateva you need/want in her. her kind of love is rare nowadays, don't join those who appreciate what they had only after loosing it.

LaurelP: Who told you we had sex?

I don't even believe ur story. Cos u sounded so casual and unseriouse.

Should in case its true. Go ahead and marry cos she deserve it!!!!!

7yrs in a relationship where u didn't any iota of love for her

bros, aw u take manage stay those years in that loveless relationship self

also,
am asking...... How did u tell her u weren't in love with her, what steps did you take to make it known to her and draw a line of seperation on that supposed relationship.

why did u wait this long to voice out, why did u do this injustice to her and urself, why did u have to trumatise(punish) her for this long, why aren't u firm with ur decision from the onset when u felt no chemistry for her.

Why and why!!!!

Anyway....... for the last time....... be firm with ur decission and let her go, let her go and find someone who will apperciate her and her love

wikiman: That why we advice ladies against Sex before marriage...now she bearing the whole emotional baggage....never think you can impress a guy to glue to u with sex....i pity her..wish she had proper counsel before moving into this useless relationship

THIS!gbam

LaurelP: is every relationship supposed to lead to marriage?
She's still a young girl of abt 24 so d issue of wasting her time isn't there

Not just her lifetime; her emotional energies as well. She fell in luv wif u in d prime of her adolescence which is wen d strongest emotional bonds are formed.
You shouldnt marry her if u'r verry sure u dont love her. I gues u'r crushing on sum1 else & tryin 2 walk out on true luv.
Anyways, I blame u for keeping her 4 seven years...mehn! it's too long!! May God 4giv u & help her move on properly.

LaurelP: I have this girl whom I've been dating since my Jambite days. That's over 7 yrs ago. This girl loves me a lot, there's no doubt abt it. Infact I'm the one trying make her reduce d love she has for me.

I love her character and she has all I nid in a woman but I just don't love her as a person. Sth tells me I won't value her as much as I really want to value my wife. But she's been on my neck trying to use all sorts of tricks to get me to marry her. I've let her know wisely dat I can't marry her but she keeps crying and and pestering me, and her cry gets to me.

Pls what do I do? Shud I marry her out of pity or insist she let me be? She said she can't live with no other man but me, dat she's gonna harm herself if I live her. Pls serious advice needed, ignore if you don't have nothing to say.

OP, have you Involved yourself?..If Yes, then you have limited options.If No, then ure good to walk away anytym u want.

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AdeniyiA: oh...sorry we forgot you told us dt u didn't av joystick
Now, when you were younger, you fell in lust(not love) childishly. thereafter, after getting more exposures in ur tertiary institution, you got to meet different happening babes with killer packaging, nd ur level upped then you discovered you could no longer be seen relating with you former girl who was PROBABLY unable to get d kind of education you got.
i would advice you not to loose her cos she's an asset for you if she could wait that long for you. Help her to achieve wateva you need/want in her. her kind of love is rare nowadays, don't join those who appreciate what they had only after loosing it.

U have a point here
I'll give it a thought

LaurelP: Ur comment cracked me up
D way ur lamenting as if ur d girl
I don't get wat u mean by me traumatizing her
I had a mutually beneficial relationship with her which is why she stayed with me for dat long
If I was bad to her, she wouldn't have been around for dat long
Its just unfortunate dat I don't have as much feelings for her as she does for me
Dis is just a simple matter I don't knw why ppl are making it sound like a big deal
If I was a girl now, d comments wud have bin different.

then try change ur sex nah and see if my comment would have being different then.
Since u don't have the feelings....... then leave her and let everything be over btw u and her for the last time and move on with una lives nah

Women are heartless when you do to dem what they did to men on daily basics they start crying &there fellow foolish women wil back them.if you dont love him let her go afterall they break mans heart daily men wil endure it

LaurelP: is every relationship supposed to lead to marriage?
She's still a young girl of abt 24 so d issue of wasting her time isn't there

7years of relationship without proof is a waste in a woman's' life.

LaurelP: My dear I haven't done anytin wrong dat God nids to forgive
I didn't break her heart like many ppl do, I didn't maltreat her
I just don't have enuf feelings to marry her
Not all relationships must lead to marriage my dear

and chopping of the ikebe was going on like water pass throat.

baralatie: and chopping of the ikebe was going on like water pass throat.

I made it clear enuf dat I don't nid kids here
Wat are u doing here

LaurelP: I made it clear enuf dat I don't nid kids here
Wat are u doing here

you judge yourself!you are in a 7 year relationship going nowhere and you are confused to the point that the only thing you can say after 7 years of sexualized activity you "don't have enuf to marry".who is actually the kid?

it must be you!

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LaurelP: Where did u see 'sexualized activity' in my post stewpid fool
U read wat u already have in your virus infested
mind

unfortunate!
7years of relationship!
absolutely nothing!
you must be confused by now!
Pele!

LaurelP: I have this girl whom I've been dating since my Jambite days. That's over 7 yrs ago. This girl loves me a lot, there's no doubt abt it. Infact I'm the one trying make her reduce d love she has for me.

I love her character and she has all I nid in a woman but I just don't love her as a person. Sth tells me I won't value her as much as I really want to value my wife. But she's been on my neck trying to use all sorts of tricks to get me to marry her. I've let her know wisely dat I can't marry her but she keeps crying and and pestering me, and her cry gets to me.

Pls what do I do? Shud I marry her out of pity or insist she let me be? She said she can't live with no other man but me, dat she's gonna harm herself if I live her. Pls serious advice needed, ignore if you don't have nothing to say.

I pity you like mad!!!!!! The greatest mistake on earth is getting married with the wrong person...maiii brodaa !! Abegiiii don't swallow what you can't chew. Though I can imagine how she will be feeling, the fact is just for you to sit her down and explain things to her. DO NOT FORCE YOURSELF. #i hope that helps.