hardbody:

In my project wriiten as a partial fulfillment of my first degree, i even mentioned thus...'to the woman whom we both don't know it yet will mean a lot to me in my life.....or something to that effect

I had no girl friend then let alone a wife to be...

My point is, that guy here should have found a way of mentioning the OP even if negatively

aisha2:

My sister, me I was even thinking I was over reacting but I put myself in the guys shoe just imagine.

Poster, I said it before work on yourself, the more I read the more I notice:

1. You feel entitled to certain things not caring how the other person feels. (Why wouldnt he acknowledge me even though I was unsupportive but still he should have acknowledged me)

2. You feel justified ( He must have seen something good in me to come back)

3. You dont seem to understand clearly when you are wrong and keep pushing other peoples buttons even when they say stop (I felt it was business as usual till he stopped picking my calls)

We all learn and grow, but one cannot learn till they open their minds and hearts to the wants and needs of others.

Am sorry if you think you are justified in getting upset over something you clearly didnt earn then you still havent learned.

You are NOT entitled to benefits, You EARN them, this you didnt earn, work hard next time and earn an acknowledgement, its not automatic

aisha2: Go and work on your insecurity before you commit murder suicide one day.

Why should he acknowledge you? Aknowledgement is for those who SUPPORTED him you didnt support him, left to you he would have failed, you wont let him read or attend lectures in peace why then do you think you deserve a mention?
You are not in love but obsessed, when he wants to travel on official trips am sure you will raise hell, when he stays in same hotel with colleagues I doubt you will let him sleep with monitoring calls.

Are you jobless or just a monitoring spirit?

Ceasar1: Let's be honesty here, You deserve an acknowledgment. It doesn't matter what you did to him but as partners now, he ought to acknowledge you as a pillar of support in one way or the other.

#BTW, I don't know why some peeps here vent their frustrated life's in their comments. Give it a rest jeez!

IfyAngela:
Was thinking the same thing, since they are back together.

Yap, he ought to.
# How was your day?

Kanwulia: It is okay to feel hurt.
You don't have to win all the time.
Take it as a punishment for YOUR bad behavior in the past.
You have 2 options.

1. Ask him why your name was omitted for he may not have thought about it.
2. Let him be. It might be a test. Some battles are not worth fighting and everything does not have to be about YOU!

Ceasar1:

Yap, he ought to.
# How was your day?

aisha2:

My sister, me I was even thinking I was over reacting but I put myself in the guys shoe just imagine.

Poster, I said it before work on yourself, the more I read the more I notice:

1. You feel entitled to certain things not caring how the other person feels. (Why wouldnt he acknowledge me even though I was unsupportive but still he should have acknowledged me)

2. You feel justified ( He must have seen something good in me to come back)

3. You dont seem to understand clearly when you are wrong and keep pushing other peoples buttons even when they say stop (I felt it was business as usual till he stopped picking my calls)

We all learn and grow, but one cannot learn till they open their minds and hearts to the wants and needs of others.

Am sorry if you think you are justified in getting upset over something you clearly didnt earn then you still havent learned.

You are NOT entitled to benefits, You EARN them, this you didnt earn, work hard next time and earn an acknowledgement, its not automatic

divalishis: I started dating this guy x years ago. A couple of months into the relationship, he told me he wanted to further his studies. Well, I wasn't in full support. And a short while latter after he started fully, I became very insecure as it was a long distance relationship.

I didn't ask How lectures were going. If he wanted to Read in the library I'd accuse him of seeing other girls Since he would tell me he couldn't pick my calls in the library.

We would argue and bicker before exams and sometimes spend the night talking it out and exams were the next day. To Please me, he didn't keep late nights Since all I accused him of was cheating.

He would tell me I was hurting him, wasn't allowing him concentrate. But I continued.

I guess it became too much as after a particularly serious fight, he told me it was over. I thought it was business as usual until I saw he wouldn't pick my calls or talk to me.

Days stretched into months, months into a year. Two.
All my attempts at reconciliation were rebuffed.


Then I got a breakthrough. He gave us another chance. Things have been going on well as we have both matured and i know never to act like i used to.

At this point, he was doing the final corrections to his thesis. He was supposed to have finished But his new busy job delayed him.

I saw the final draft and noticed he omitted my name from the acknowledgment, even though we were back together. He thanked his profs, his family, his friends, his roommates. He mentioned people by their name. Even those that did minor favours for him, he mentioned. But mine is nowhere to be found.

Am I justified to feel so sad, angry even. Considering the fact that we are getting married, don't I deserve a mention? He made a distinction in his thesis and it hurts that he doesn't see me as one of those who went with him on that academic journey. Has he even truly forgiven me?

Ceasar1: Let's be honesty here, You deserve an acknowledgment. It doesn't matter what you did to him but as partners now, he ought to acknowledge you as a pillar of support in one way or the other.

#BTW, I don't know why some peeps here vent their frustrated life's in their comments. Give it a rest jeez!

crackhaus:
Hmmmm...

Someone decided to make sense today. Indeed there is a God.

aisha2:

My sister, me I was even thinking I was over reacting but I put myself in the guys shoe just imagine.

Poster, I said it before work on yourself, the more I read the more I notice:

1. You feel entitled to certain things not caring how the other person feels. (Why wouldnt he acknowledge me even though I was unsupportive but still he should have acknowledged me)

2. You feel justified ( He must have seen something good in me to come back)

3. You dont seem to understand clearly when you are wrong and keep pushing other peoples buttons even when they say stop (I felt it was business as usual till he stopped picking my calls)

We all learn and grow, but one cannot learn till they open their minds and hearts to the wants and needs of others.

Am sorry if you think you are justified in getting upset over something you clearly didnt earn then you still havent learned.

You are NOT entitled to benefits, You EARN them, this you didnt earn, work hard next time and earn an acknowledgement, its not automatic

divalishis: I started dating this guy x years ago. A couple of months into the relationship, he told me he wanted to further his studies. Well, I wasn't in full support. And a short while latter after he started fully, I became very insecure as it was a long distance relationship.

I didn't ask How lectures were going. If he wanted to Read in the library I'd accuse him of seeing other girls Since he would tell me he couldn't pick my calls in the library.

We would argue and bicker before exams and sometimes spend the night talking it out and exams were the next day. To Please me, he didn't keep late nights Since all I accused him of was cheating.

He would tell me I was hurting him, wasn't allowing him concentrate. But I continued.

I guess it became too much as after a particularly serious fight, he told me it was over. I thought it was business as usual until I saw he wouldn't pick my calls or talk to me.

Days stretched into months, months into a year. Two.
All my attempts at reconciliation were rebuffed.


Then I got a breakthrough. He gave us another chance. Things have been going on well as we have both matured and i know never to act like i used to.

At this point, he was doing the final corrections to his thesis. He was supposed to have finished But his new busy job delayed him.

I saw the final draft and noticed he omitted my name from the acknowledgment, even though we were back together. He thanked his profs, his family, his friends, his roommates. He mentioned people by their name. Even those that did minor favours for him, he mentioned. But mine is nowhere to be found.

Am I justified to feel so sad, angry even. Considering the fact that we are getting married, don't I deserve a mention? He made a distinction in his thesis and it hurts that he doesn't see me as one of those who went with him on that academic journey. Has he even truly forgiven me?

aisha2: Go and work on your insecurity before you commit murder suicide one day.

Why should he acknowledge you? Aknowledgement is for those who SUPPORTED him you didnt support him, left to you he would have failed, you wont let him read or attend lectures in peace why then do you think you deserve a mention?
You are not in love but obsessed, when he wants to travel on official trips am sure you will raise hell, when he stays in same hotel with colleagues I doubt you will let him sleep with monitoring calls.

Are you jobless or just a monitoring spirit?

divalishis: It's just so amazing How people feel they have the right to call me names, to point hands in self righteous anger. So How are you any different from my 'abusive' self?

You would rather see the cup as half empty than half full. You would rather fester in the details of the past than what is going on now. If men were God...I wonder what would happen.

Maybe you people should leave some of your studies on abuse and pore over the True meaning of being sadistic and vindictive.
#sigh