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Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by tsolz90(m): 9:58pm On Aug 20, 2014
Peppyluv02;is this you? grin nne;arọ one k'ịdị? ị dịkwa mma? kpọọ ambulans!!pls ko puo biko..stop spamming my mentions;i am trying to be a gentleman;i am not responsible for your wrecked relationship;stop transferring your aggression on me bikonu.. obi dị m ụtọ ịmata onye ị bụ..
Onyinyechi1008:

And am so having a field day with this kiddo.. Bring it on.. This is gonna be someone's husband and dad (shudders). Some ladies re in trouble.. Smh
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Nobody: 11:26pm On Aug 20, 2014
Hehehe nne you are giving that old man heart attack. Lol


Onyinyechi1008:

And am so having a field day with this kiddo.. Bring it on.. This is gonna be someone's husband and dad (shudders). Some ladies re in trouble.. Smh
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Onyinyechi1008: 9:37am On Aug 21, 2014
peppyluv02: Hehehe nne you are giving that old man heart attack. Lol

My dear don't mind the kid oh.. I hope u re not the person he is having crush on.. Biko o Buru gi ti kwa race ohh maka na oge adirukwa. Nwoke ma bu kwa ezigbota nutcase oh... Gentleman my foot...


Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Onyinyechi1008: 9:49am On Aug 21, 2014
tsolz90: Peppyluv02;is this you? grin nne;arọ one k'ịdị? ị dịkwa mma? kpọọ ambulans!!pls ko puo biko..stop spamming my mentions;i am trying to be a gentleman;i am not responsible for your wrecked relationship;stop transferring your aggression on me bikonu.. obi dị m ụtọ ịmata onye ị bụ..

Trust me, am dating the best guy any lady can ever ask for and I thank God for that... You started it and now you re calling for help. After advising the Op to flee from ibo girls you still dey have crush on an ibo girl (rotfl).
U re wrecked dear. Your bitterness and calling ur ex a bitch tells me that you re still living in the past.. You re in dire need of a psychologist.. Peppyluv, help dis guy get over his sorrows oh biko kwa..

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Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 12:51pm On Aug 21, 2014
Hahaha! Hahaha! But wait o0H! (frowns) Who turned my humble thread into a vocabulary battle? Look, if the cognition, of the confidential and unconfidential confidency is presently high, then the moral mentality of our antiqual antiquity would be called to question. (Gramma101) Hahaha!
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 21, 2014
Lol nne leave that frustrated wretch. His death is near so let him enjoy his last days wallowing in his stupidity.

Onyinyechi1008:

Trust me, am dating the best guy any lady can ever ask for and I thank God for that... You started it and now you re calling for help. After advising the Op to flee from ibo girls you still dey have crush on an ibo girl (rotfl).
U re wrecked dear. Your bitterness and calling ur ex a bitch tells me that you re still living in the past.. You re in dire need of a psychologist.. Peppyluv, help dis guy get over his sorrows oh biko kwa..
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by tonychristopher: 9:48am On Aug 24, 2014
tsolz90: Peppyluv02;is this you? grin nne;arọ one k'ịdị? ị dịkwa mma? kpọọ ambulans!!pls ko puo biko..stop spamming my mentions;i am trying to be a gentleman;i am not responsible for your wrecked relationship;stop transferring your aggression on me bikonu.. obi dị m ụtọ ịmata onye ị bụ..
Uncircumcised terrorist wannabe ...have you done your training today ...get a Cut on your dickkkk old

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Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by tsolz150: 5:16pm On Aug 25, 2014
grin shakes my head..nwo'kem.ko puo
tonychristopher:
Uncircumcised terrorist wannabe ...have you done your training today ...get a Cut on your dickkkk old
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by chinelo5: 6:18pm On Aug 25, 2014
I was completely honest with my parents about our income and what we could afford. White collar jobs and no money for frivolities. Dad took it from there and tailored the expenses to what his son in-law could afford. It just depends on the kind of in-laws you have and the other factors I mentioned earlier. I know ladies who will insist on full implementation of that list, to show everyone that their husband to-be has "arrived". They forget that there's life after these "few hours" ceremonies!

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Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 6:54pm On Aug 25, 2014
chinelo5: I was completely honest with my parents about our income and what we could afford. White collar jobs and no money for frivolities. Dad took it from there and tailored the expenses to what his son in-law could afford. It just depends on the kind of in-laws you have and the other factors I mentioned earlier. I know ladies who will insist on full implementation of that list, to show everyone that their husband to-be has "arrived". They forget that there's life after these "few hours" ceremonies!
thanks
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by tonychristopher: 5:04pm On Aug 26, 2014
tsolz150: grin shakes my head..nwo'kem.ko puo

Ewu ....are you trying to pacify me by speaking my lovely language ....lol. Google is impressive..but its not the way its written

Have you done circumcision lately....
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by tsolz150: 5:09pm On Aug 26, 2014
Amu shekau, Otu nne gi..pacify you?you worthless nimp.. Have you rap3d your sister lately?atonle
tonychristopher:

Ewu ....are you trying to pacify me by speaking my lovely language ....lol. Google is impressive..but its not the way its written

Have you done circumcision lately....


Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by tonychristopher: 11:20pm On Aug 26, 2014
tsolz150: Amu shekau, Otu nne gi..pacify you?you worthless nimp.. Have you rap3d your sister lately?atonle

Somebody should call 911 a terrorist on prowl

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Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 3:05pm On Sep 08, 2014
silvoice: pls i need advice on how to go for this my marriage introduction. My wife-to-be is an Ibo girl. i hav some questions which I'd Like my useful NLs to help me, because my parents are late and i don't really know who to ask this question and get an objective answer. 1. should i ask my girl to tell me what is needed 4 first introdution according 2 their tradition or jus go wit cash? 2. if i go with a friend is it ok or must i go with an elder at this 1st stage? pls i need sincere advice, b4 i make mistake
wao! Afta all said and done, d date is sat.13 sept. All road lead to a yet to be revealled hamlet in Abia state. Guys is not easy ooh! But i thank God.
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Ihuomadinihu: 11:47pm On Sep 08, 2014
Dosoq: O boy,go load ur pocket o cos dey go bill u die,u'l pay 4 evrytin including d mat she used in sleeping as a child especially if she's a graduate and an ABIA lady.
Na wa o. So Abia ladies are expensive?
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 10:29am On Sep 09, 2014
Ihuomadinihu:
Na wa o. So Abia ladies are expensive?
i don't think dey are different from other igbo communities. Their marriage is fairly expensive. But i'm in love dear
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 10:29am On Sep 09, 2014
Life indeed is funny 4 so many reasons
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by cheruv: 11:07am On Sep 09, 2014
silvoice: @all who contributed meaninfully to this issue, i'm very grateful. i'm more confident now as ur advice has given me more info. on what to do. thanks a lot. Note: she is Abia, a final yr student and a new Nairalander. sometime in d future i wil refer her to this thread. Once again, thanks you
and very likely na absu babe

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Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 3:06pm On Sep 09, 2014
cheruv:
and very likely na absu babe
you are 99.99% right. Why not guess d dept. Also, so dat i wil make it 100%
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by cheruv: 4:33pm On Sep 09, 2014
silvoice: you are 99.99% right. Why not guess d dept. Also, so dat i wil make it 100%
just extend the IV to me joor wink
absu get 28 faculties there and am not really good at guessing from a large number of possibilities.
welcome to imperial Igbo land
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 7:56pm On Sep 09, 2014
cheruv:
just extend the IV to me joor wink
absu get 28 faculties there and am not really good at guessing from a large number of possibilities.
welcome to imperial Igbo land
thank you. I assure u that u wil get my iv 4 d main occasion by Dec. Or the wedding sometime next yr. If u are within d proximity. 5 Nairalanders dat know me in person, has already promised to be present. I may even giv them a canopy as NL Committee of friends, by God's grace.
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 12:24pm On Sep 15, 2014
Yes! Guys am back . It was a success. The warm reception given to me and my people was very intresting and fun filled. They asked her to accept or reject me b4 they wil drink. She simply smiled. And before i could say jack robinson, d palmwine glasses appeared and d atmosphare was that of complete merriment. YES, d list is so long but not as outrageous as some posted here. Cheers!
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 11:02am On Sep 17, 2014
silvoice: Yes! Guys am back . It was a success. The warm reception given to me and my people was very intresting and fun filled. They asked her to accept or reject me b4 they wil drink. She simply smiled. And before i could say jack robinson, d palmwine glasses appeared and d atmosphare was that of complete merriment. YES, d list is so long but not as outrageous as some posted here. Cheers!
chai... my beloved NairaLanders, not even a congrat from anyone. Chai or atleast welcome me to a life of restricted freedom.
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by corisande: 1:44pm On Sep 17, 2014
smiley
congrats
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 4:37pm On Sep 17, 2014
corisande: smiley
congrats
thanks my dear
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Mcoldsoja(m): 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2014
Congratulobia to yu bros.
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Nobody: 12:23am On Sep 24, 2014
omash: Me my fiancee is from imo and umuaka to be precise.she' s d first child and only daughter and I'm from delta state from the riverine area. So any hope for me and my parent are late before I indulge in a white elephant project cool
I am from Umuaka - Orlu. And I can assure you to go ahead with your marriage plans. Unlike other clans in Imo state (like the Mbaise) our traditional marriage is simple and cheap. You only need to work hand in hand with your fiancee. For the Iku aka nuzo, take with you some elders, a keg of Palmwine and a crate of beer. With just these you will be given a list of what to bring for the Mbuzo Mmi. The list consist of the bride price, drinks for refreshment and foodstuffs. Payment in cash is allowed. In the aspect of the bride price you will be requested to pay in cash. Fear not, a large percentage of families will take maybe #50 naira or a lower unit from it, telling you to keep the rest for the upkeep of our daughter - a way of saying that we only gave her to you in marriage and not as an article for sale. And that we have the right to take her back from you whenever you turn around to mal treat or make her your punching bag in future. This was exactly how we did my younger sister's when our inlaws came for her hand in marriage. Importantly, despite how cost efficient it is to marry a girl from my community, the cost or success of your marriage will also be determined by your father inlaw. In his absence the girls elder brother (Diokpara) will also be a major factor. That is why you need to be close to him before you proceed with the trado marriage. He will come handy in helping you cancel some of the request inscribed in the list. Even this list has been trimmed down by my Umunna's for years now, making it flexible for our daughters to get married easily.
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by Nobody: 12:38am On Sep 24, 2014
noskybanj: If ur wife 2 b is from Anambra, Enugu or sm oda parts of Anambra state, den u r safe, u dnt need 2 go with much. Bt if she is from IMO State, my guy go nd empty ur account, borrow from family nd friends, nd den pray dat dat will b enough.
Shut your trap. What do you know about Imo marriage? Don't lump every clan in Imo state in that your bias analysis. As for cost marriages only people from Mbaise and to a lesser extent Owerri do such. People from Orlu - Imo west don't subscribe to the idea of wrecking a man who just came to take our daughters hand in marriage. I don't know about the Okigwe's. But when I mean Orlu, I mean communities that encamp from Ideato to Oru down to Isu. Apart from the Mbaise, clans from Umuahia to the whole of Abia are the most expensive places to seek a wife from. So take note before mis-informing the public. Especially those who haven't been to Igboland before. My warning!
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by zlatansomto(m): 6:02am On Sep 24, 2014
tareigns: hahaha...so e pain you....mumu
Your father at home is a fool.. Ediot..
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by zlatansomto(m): 6:04am On Sep 24, 2014
danexcel:

WHAT HAS YORUBA MEN GOT TO DO WITH THIS NOW? IS IT ONLY YORUBA MEN THAT ARE MARRYING IGBO LADIES? I KNOW MANY IGBO MEN THAT GOT MARRIED TO YORUBA LADIES. WHY ARE YOU SO MYOPIC AND TRIBALISTIC? STOP MAKING COMMENTING LIKE AN ILLITERATE. IT TAKES A BIG FOOL TO RECOGNISE A FOOL.
Bastard,. Who gives a flying Bleep about your silly opinion about mee..??
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 8:15am On Sep 24, 2014
Mcoldsoja: Congratulobia to yu bros.
thanks a lot
Re: Pls I Need Advice On How To Go For My Marriage Introduction In Igboland by silvoice(m): 8:52am On Sep 24, 2014
silvoice:
my wonderful, and respected nairalanders. I need matured minds here to help me in settling the list, since i want to do it in a low key, and then do my wedding. Pls i want experienced single or married couples to comment here. Pls don't use it to abuse others. U can marry a cheap wife but other circumstances wil make u spend more, vice versa. Thanks, we lov u all.

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